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In our first three episodes, I spoke about my experiences of being shamed in the Mormon church. I also shared some experiences from people who submitted their own stories.

In this episode, I'm only sharing some of the shame story submissions I have received and have been given permission to speak about. Of course, I will reveal no identities.

I'm going to give a content and a trigger warning here for graphic sexual content and very inappropriate questions from older men to young women. Please take care of yourself.

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Hello everyone

I'm James Hofheins here as your host. Major is co-host. Welcome to Latter Day shamed podcast.

In the first two episodes, I spoke about my experiences of being shamed in the Mormon church. Today, I'm going to take a little different approach to shame and tell you how I was involved in shaming somebody very close to me. My brother.

Then I'm going to be sharing some of the shame submissions I have received and have been given permission to speak about. All but one of these will be anonymous. That one story that won't be anonymous is from somebody who asked that I use their name.

Episode 2 went longer than I had planned so I just want to get into these stories and keep this episode a little shorter. I hope!

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If you tuned in and listened to this episode, thank you very much. I really appreciate it. If you find value in this content, may I ask you to please like and share and comment? Also, I would also invite you to donate to the podcast. My venmo and my cash app links are below, JWHSLC for both. And finally, I'm always looking for stories where you have been shamed or you have been indoctrinated and have shamed others intentionally or unintentionally. Please email submissions to [email protected]. that's down below too.

I hope you're able to find Grace and hold space for yourself. Forgive your younger self. Forgive yourself as you are now. Be kind and compassionate to you and I will talk to you on the next episode of Latter-day Shamed Podcast.

I'm James Hofheins

Happily free from the Mormon church since November 2022!

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Show Notes:

This is the latterdayshamed podcast. Notice there's a "D" at the end of latterdayshamed because even though we know that institutional shame and person-to-person shaming are prolific in the modern Mormon Church, it has been going on since the beginning with Joseph Smith's fiery sword wielding angel compelling and shaming 14 year old girls (or girls a few months shy of their 15th birthday as the Mormon church's gaslighting explanation goes) into illegally marrying and having sex with him. Often behind Emma's back. Yet no one shamed him, at least not to the point where he stopped this creepy, and dare I say predatory behavior that I think is totally unbecoming of a so-called prophet. And it continued.

We lie for the Lord. We shame for the Lord.

The other reason I'm calling it latterdayshamed, with a "D" is because I hope I can add to the voices calling for the end of Mormon shame and help put shame in our collective past tense.

If you tuned in and listen to this episode, thank you very much. I really appreciate it. If you find value in this content, may I ask you to please like and share and comment? Also, I would also invite you to donate to the podcast. My venmo and my cash app links are below, JWHSLC for both. And finally, I'm always looking for stories where you have been shamed or you have been indoctrinated and have shamed others intentionally or unintentionally. Please email submissions to [email protected]. that's down below too.

I hope you're able to find Grace and hold space for yourself. Forgive your younger self. Forgive yourself as you are now. Be kind and compassionate to you and I will talk to you on the next episode of Latter-day Shamed Podcast.

I'm James Hofheins

Happily free from the Mormon church since November 2022!

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The Mormon church has done a lot of damage shaming people from the beginning. It started with Joseph Smith conning teenagers to marry him by shaming them into it. So the church comes by it honestly. We lie for the Lord, we shame for the Lord.

Sadly, we are even indoctrinated into the system so much we don't realize how much we shame each other. It happens. The Latter Day Shamed Podcast is here to help you understand so many of the ways you have been shamed and have been taught to shame others. If you have any questions or show suggestions or shame stories you would like me to share anonymously, please email them to: [email protected]

In this episode, I talk about the first traumatic shame incident I can remember in my life as a teenager. I bet you can relate.

Also calling for shame stories. If you have been shamed, and really, who hasn't, I'd like to hear your story. In your email, let me know if it's okay to use your first name or initials or if you would like to stay completely anonymous and if it's okay to read it on a future episode.

I came up with several categories of Shame and I list them in this episode.

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