Lauren,Honestly

Lauren,Honestly

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Lauren,Honestly episodes

  • 019 How I Knew It Was Time to Move On (After 12 Years)

    Have you ever outgrown a place that once felt like home? In this heartfelt goodbye, I share my emotional and professional journey as I close the chapter on over a decade in school social work. Whether you’re a social worker, empath, or creative soul navigating change, this video offers insight, encouragement, and transparency.

    💛 In this episode, I reflect on:

    • My beginnings in middle school social work

    • The full-circle moments with teen parents and high school students

    • Becoming a field instructor, speaker, and adjunct professor

    • My decision to leave and the emotional weight of closing a chapter

    • What’s next in higher ed and creative work

    🎓 If you’re a BSW, MSW, empath, or educator looking for inspiration, this one’s for you.

    🔗 Watch on youtube: https://youtu.be/92qFOnXiTqk?si=vWRUxwC6jz-vmKVS
    📩 Connect: instagram.com/socialworkscrapbook
    🎧 Listen to the podcast: Social Work Scrapbook (YouTube Podcasts)

    16 min
  • 018 You’re Not Burned Out, You’re Just Misaligned

    Burnout isn’t about doing too much—it’s about doing things that aren’t aligned. In this heartfelt episode, I open up about the real roots of burnout, especially for empaths, social workers, and those in healing professions. We’re diving deep into compassion fatigue, misaligned ambition, and that all-too-familiar guilt—as both a professional and a parent.

    Whether you’re new to the field or years in, this video is a reminder that burnout is not your fault, and realignment is your path forward. If you're craving meaningful work, soulful rest, and emotional clarity—this space is for you. 🌿

    💬 Let’s talk about:

    • The silent danger of misaligned ambition

    • Why "shoulds" are stealing your peace

    • Summer mom guilt and working through it

    • Building a career that feels like home (not just looks like one)

    • How to honor your energy and rewrite burnout stories

    🎯 This is the pep talk every empath needs.

    7 min
  • My Exact Journal Routine to Release Mental Clutter and Create Emotional Safety

    ✨ You’re not alone if you feel heavy, overextended, or caught in codependent loops—especially if you're a social worker or empath. This episode is your monthly moment to realign. 📓 Grab your favorite pen, journal, and let’s do this ritual together.🎧 In this reflective journaling ritual, we’re setting intentions, planting seeds for emotional safety, and creating space to dream again. Whether you're healing from burnout, craving softness, or navigating tough family dynamics, this is your safe space to exhale and begin again.💫 What you’ll do in this video:Reset your nervous system through breath work and groundingVisualize and manifest emotional safety at home and in relationshipsPlant seeds for your future self using present-tense affirmationsReconnect with your inner child through journalingSet energetic boundaries for softness and growthLearn to combat overthinking and people-pleasing as blocks🎥 Let’s reimagine softness as strength. This is your permission to feel, dream, and begin again.

    ⏱️ Timestamps:

    0:00 – Intro: Needing an Energetic Exhale

    1:00 – Why This Ritual Is For You (Empaths + Social Workers)

    2:00 – What It Means to Plant Seeds for Ourselves

    2:45 – Emotional Safety + Healing Family Dynamics

    4:00 – Breathwork & Journal Prompts Begin

    5:00 – Manifestation Prompts (Present-Tense Seeds)

    6:15 – Inner Child Healing Reflection

    7:40 – Visualizing Your Softest Home

    8:30 – Spiritual Anchors: Water, Salt, Crystals

    9:00 – The Shadow Side: Overthinking + People Pleasing

    10:15 – Takeaway & Reminder: You Deserve Peace

    11 min
  • 016 You're Meant for More: The Signs It’s Time to Let Go of ‘Safe’

    I Left My Dream Job as a School Social Worker... Here's Why (+ Real Talk on Impostor Syndrome)
    Are you a social worker, helping professional, or big-hearted empath questioning your next step? 😔 This video is for you. I’m opening up about leaving my role as a school social worker after 12 years, the transition to higher education, and how I’ve battled imposter syndrome every step of the way.

    💥 Whether you're a student social worker, considering a career pivot, or simply feeling not “good enough” in your current role—this episode is packed with truth, encouragement, and practical tips you can use right now.

    ✨ In This Episode You'll Learn:

    • Why I left school social work after 12 years

    • What it’s really like to pivot to higher education

    • Raw answers to your Instagram Qs about career change, pay, and readiness

    • The truth about self-doubt, imposter syndrome, and confidence

    • How to stop waiting for confidence and build it instead

    • 4 practical confidence-building strategies (including my FAVORITE one!)

    • The role music and micro-bravery play in mindset shifts 💪🏽

    • The legacy of connection with students & what one said that shook me 🧡

    ⏱ Timestamps:
    0:00 – Intro & Heart of the Case welcome
    1:40 – Why I left school social work
    5:12 – Career Q&A from Instagram: pay, burnout, summers off
    10:45 – Impostor syndrome hits different in new roles
    13:30 – Practical strategy #1: Name it, then frame it
    15:45 – Strategy #2: Borrow confidence (and music recs!)
    18:20 – Strategy #3: Micro-bravery explained
    21:30 – Strategy #4: Build your confidence archive
    24:00 – A final pep talk for social workers feeling scared to grow
    26:15 – Listener emoji challenge + feedback invite 👻

    🎯 This video is for:

    • Current or future social workers thinking about career changes

    • Helpers and empaths feeling stuck or burnt out

    • Anyone exploring higher education or academic roles

    • First-gen professionals seeking purpose and confidence

    • You, if you need a real pep talk from someone who gets it

    🛠️ Helpful Resources Mentioned:
    🎧 Kendrick Lamar’s Man at the Garden – total affirmations anthem
    🎙️ Podcast Ep 14 – "How to Start Fresh and Attract Positivity"

    💬 Comment below:
    Have you ever felt called to change direction but doubted yourself? What did your ghost emoji moment look like? 👻

    🔔 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this with your social work bestie or colleague who needs encouragement today

    22 min
  • 015 The Messy Psychology Behind the Most Chaotic Prison Break Ever: The Dannemora Escape

    This week, we’re not just talking about a prison break — we’re talking about the emotional escapes we all try to make when our needs go unmet.

    In this episode of Heart of the Case, I’m breaking down the wild (and weirdly relatable?) 2015 escape from Clinton Correctional Facility in Dannemora, New York — where two inmates charmed their way into a prison worker's heart and out of a maximum-security prison.

    But here’s the twist: this isn’t just about hacksaws in hamburger meat and a “Shawskank” love triangle. It’s about codependency, self-sabotage, and the quiet prisons we build in our minds — the ones built from loneliness, low self-worth, and emotional hunger.

    ✨ Come for the true crime. Stay for the therapy session you didn’t know you needed.

    We’re unpacking:

    • The psychological profile of Joyce “Tilly” Mitchell

    • How childhood trauma shaped the escapees

    • Why smart women sometimes make wild emotional choices

    • How unmet emotional needs can cloud judgment


    episode mentioned: Trauma Bonding + Breaking Free- https://youtu.be/CtRTtVte7bg?si=9Nl9hBjrh9NaGpGR

    36 min
  • 014 If You’re Feeling Lost, Watch This: How to Start Fresh & Attract Positivity

    Spring is here, but let’s be real—new beginnings don’t always feel refreshing. Maybe you’re stuck in a rut, drained by all the doomsday chatter, or just feeling meh about where you are. In this episode of Heart of the Case, we’re diving deep into the power of shifting your mindset, flipping negative “what ifs” into positives, and protecting your peace in a chaotic world.

    You’ll learn how to break free from feeling idle, set firm but loving boundaries, and manifest a season of growth, renewal, and alignment—even when everything around you feels heavy. Let’s rewrite the script, step into spring with intention, and remind ourselves that we are always manifesting—so let’s make it count. 🌸✨


    videos mentioned:

    Selena Episode:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kBfKE5IOsH8

    28 min
  • 013 Deadly Devotion: Selena Quintanilla's Unfinished Story

    Selena was more than just the Queen of Tejano Music—she was a trailblazer, an icon, and a beloved figure whose life was tragically cut short by someone she trusted. In this episode of *Heart of the Case*, we break down the devastating story of Selena’s murder, exploring **the dangers of unchecked obsession, manipulation, and toxic workplace relationships.**💔 Why did Yolanda Saldívar become so obsessed?🚩 What red flags did Selena and her family miss?⚖️ With Yolanda up for parole in 2025, should she ever be released? Spoiler alert she was NOT!As an empath, setting boundaries can be difficult, especially in professional settings. Let’s talk about how we can protect ourselves from emotional manipulation in the workplace and beyond.Episodes and Links:Leaving a toxic relationship: Ep 10: https://youtu.be/CtRTtVte7bg?si=zZu_rtjiNVHsrBp9Netflix— Selena: Season 2 Ep 6: Lo mas Bello (meeting Beyonce)

    28 min
  • 012 You've been Manifesting all along: Your future Career is Already in Motion… Here’s How to Shape It

    🚨 Did I accidentally manifest my entire social work career? Looking back, every choice I made—internships, mentors, even the books I obsessed over—lined up too perfectly for it to be a coincidence. But if manifestation is real, what does that mean for my next career move? 🤯

    In this episode of Heart of the Case, I’m breaking down how I unknowingly manifested my school social work career 12 years ago and what that means for where I’m headed now. If you’re feeling stuck, questioning your path, or wondering how to actually align with your dream job, this one’s for you. ✨

    🎙 What You’ll Learn:
    ✅ The small, subconscious choices that shape your career (without you realizing it!)
    ✅ How to intentionally manifest your next move—even if you don’t believe in “woo-woo” energy
    ✅ Why your current habits, network, and thoughts are secretly designing your future
    ✅ How to use the pizza order analogy to finally get clear on what you want

    💡 Spoiler alert: I’m at another career crossroads, and I’m using these same principles to navigate what’s next. If you’ve ever felt lost or in-between, this episode is packed with insights (and some funny metaphors) to help you trust your journey.



    VIDEOS Mentioned:

    Job Interview Tips || https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fqwQXzKyqbo&list=PLtzpeRNiPkZf4VPfrp-zXarsCCJi5I4_e

    Becoming a Therapist|| https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E8R3GVnj6Go


    🚀 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe if you want more episodes on career shifts, manifestation, and making bold moves in life! Let’s chat in the comments

    27 min
  • 011 How schools are failing students in 2025: The Untold Story of Jocelynn Rojo

    When school isn’t a safe place, where can students turn? In this episode of Heart of the Case, we’re diving into the heartbreaking story of Jocelynn Rojo, an 11-year-old Texas student whose experiences with bullying, threats of ICE involvement, and a school system that failed to protect her led to an unimaginable tragedy.

    We’ll explore what we know about Jocelynn’s school experience, the warning signs that were ignored, and how policies like David’s Law (Texas’ anti-cyberbullying legislation) play a role in cases like this. Plus, we’ll discuss how schools can do better—and what we, as a community, can do to support vulnerable students.

    💬 Poll: Do you think schools do enough to communicate with parents? Vote now and let me know your thoughts.

    📌 Resources & Links:
    🔗 Episode 2: social work +parenting
    🔗 David’s Law & Anti-Bullying Resources: https://www.davidslegacy.org/
    🔗 Mental Health Support for Youth & Immigrant Families

    🎙️ If this episode resonated with you, please leave a review and rating—it helps more people find the podcast and continue these important conversations. Share your thoughts on Instagram (@socialworkscrapbook) or YouTube, and let’s keep this discussion going.

    21 min
  • 010 Surviving Toxic Relationships: a guide to Love Bombing, Trauma Bonds & Breaking Free

    🚨 Have you ever felt like you met the perfect person—only to watch them transform into a nightmare?In this gripping episode of Heart of the Case, we dive deep into love bombing, narcissistic abuse, and the dangerous cycle that traps victims in toxic relationships. My guest, Melissa Fulgeri, bravely shares her personal experience of being manipulated, controlled, and ultimately breaking free from the grasp of a narcissist.🔍 In this episode, we explore:✅ What is love bombing? The early-stage tactic narcissists use to reel victims in.✅ How the cycle of abuse plays out: Idealization → Devaluation → Discard.✅ Why leaving a narcissist is so difficult (and how trauma bonding keeps you stuck).✅ Gaslighting & manipulation tactics used to keep you confused and doubting yourself.✅ The psychological & emotional impact of narcissistic relationships.✅ Steps to break free and heal after enduring narcissistic abuse.✅ How to rebuild self-worth and recognize red flags in future relationships.💔 If you’ve ever felt trapped in a toxic relationship, or you want to protect yourself and others from narcissistic abuse, this episode is a must-listen.🎧 don’t forget to share this episode with anyone who needs to hear it!


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    28 min

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