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October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, and on this episode of Law Days & Lattes, Sidney welcomes Brianna Beckley, legal advocate and community outreach representative with Safe Passage Domestic and Sexual Violence Shelter and Crisis Intervention Center in Moberly.
Brianna has been with Safe Passage since 2023 and has served as the organization's legal advocate since November 2024. She works with survivors, provides community outreach and prevention education, helps with legal paperwork, and accompanies people to court.
In this important conversation, Sidney and Brianna talk about domestic violence, recent changes in Missouri law, the services Safe Passage provides, and why awareness and community involvement matter.
In This EpisodeDomestic Violence Awareness Month and "Shine Purple"
Brianna explains Safe Passage's October "Shine Purple" campaign and why something as simple as seeing purple lights around the community can make survivors feel seen and supported.
Recent changes in Missouri law
The conversation covers several recent changes discussed by Safe Passage, including the ability for someone who is pregnant to obtain a divorce, restrictions on name changes for people on the sex offender registry, and protection orders for cyberstalking.
What Safe Passage does
Safe Passage provides much more than emergency shelter. Brianna discusses legal advocacy, court support, transportation, assistance with temporary lodging in certain circumstances, and other resources available to people experiencing domestic or sexual violence. Services are available to men as well as women and children.
A vital resource for North Central Missouri
Safe Passage serves nine counties in North Central Missouri and provides shelter for as many as approximately 30 people depending on the circumstances and available rooms.
Supporting Safe Passage
Brianna and Sidney discuss the importance of community support and Missouri tax credits available to people who donate to Safe Passage. The episode also mentions Safe Passage's 30th anniversary and an October 29 ribbon cutting.
Recognizing the signs of abuse
Sidney closes the episode by talking about how domestic violence isn't always physical. Intimidation, threats, financial control, emotional abuse, constant monitoring, jealousy, isolation, verbal degradation, and threats toward pets can all be signs of an abusive relationship.
A Community IssueOne of the most important messages from this conversation is that domestic violence is not simply a private family matter. It is a community issue.
As Brianna explains, the more conversations communities have about domestic violence, the more awareness they can create and the more opportunities there are to help prevent abuse and support survivors.
If something in this episode resonates with you or someone you know, consider sharing it. Sometimes awareness is the first step toward helping someone recognize what is happening and find support.
Need Help?Safe Passage's 24/7 hotline is: 660-269-8111
Brianna emphasizes that people can call simply because they need someone to talk to. Safe Passage can help connect people with shelter, advocacy, transportation, legal support, and other resources depending on their circumstances.
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Until next time, grab your favorite latte, hold your loved ones tight, and have a great week! ☕
WheelanLaw.comThis podcast episode contains general information for discussion purposes only. Each case is different and must be judged on its own merits. Missouri rules generally prohibit lawyers from advertising that they specialize in particular areas of the law. This article should not be construed to suggest such specialization. Nothing on this site should be taken as legal advice for any individual case or situation. This information is not intended to create an attorney-client relationship, and the listening or viewing of this podcast does not constitute an attorney-client relationship. The choice of a lawyer is an important decision and should not be based solely upon advertisements.
In Episode 4 of the September Reset, Sidney talks about one of the most important questions we can ask as we head into the final months of the year:
What deserves my best energy right now?
It’s easy to look at everything we haven’t accomplished yet and feel like we need to squeeze it all in before December 31. But a long to-do list isn’t the same thing as a list of priorities.
Sidney explores the difference between the two and offers a simple exercise for getting clear about what matters most.
The September ResetStart by writing down everything you want to accomplish, finish, experience, improve, or make time for during the rest of 2026.
Then choose three priorities.
Not ten. Not fifteen. Three things that, if you accomplished them over the next few months, would make you feel like this season was well spent.
And then make another list:
Not Now.
Some goals and dreams may not fit into this season, and that doesn’t mean they have to be abandoned. Putting something on the “not now” list gives you permission to protect your current priorities without giving up on what you want to do someday.
Sidney also looks ahead to 2027, not by trying to plan every detail, but by asking a bigger question:
What do I want next year to be about?
Growth? Family? Adventure? Health? Freedom? Building wealth? Simplifying? Creating more space?
You don’t have to know every turn in the road to know what direction you want to go.
Priorities Can ChangeAnother important part of the conversation is giving ourselves permission to change our priorities.
What mattered five or ten years ago may not matter in the same way today. Our families, careers, circumstances, dreams, and responsibilities change. Letting go of an old goal isn’t necessarily failure. Sometimes it’s simply recognizing that life has changed.
The goal isn’t to do everything.
It’s to give our best energy to the things that matter most.
This Week's September ResetTake some time this week to:
Because we can do everything.
We just can’t do everything at once.
And maybe that isn’t a limitation. Maybe it’s what allows us to be fully present for the things we choose.
Build it thoughtfully. Protect it wisely. Pass it on with purpose.
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Until next time, grab your favorite latte, hold your loved ones tight, and have a great week! ☕
WheelanLaw.comThis podcast episode contains general information for discussion purposes only. Each case is different and must be judged on its own merits. Missouri rules generally prohibit lawyers from advertising that they specialize in particular areas of the law. This article should not be construed to suggest such specialization. Nothing on this site should be taken as legal advice for any individual case or situation. This information is not intended to create an attorney-client relationship, and the listening or viewing of this podcast does not constitute an attorney-client relationship. The choice of a lawyer is an important decision and should not be based solely upon advertisements.
September Reset, Episode 3: What Are You Building?
How a Small Idea Can Become Something Bigger Than You Imagined
Sometimes the things we build begin with a grand vision. More often, they begin with a simple need, a problem to solve, or a small idea that seems worth exploring.
In this episode of Law Days and Lattes, Sidney Wheelan reflects on how a need for more space for her growing law firm eventually became something much bigger: a downtown Moberly commercial building that now houses multiple professional businesses and provides a place for people to gather.
The story is a reminder that we don’t always have to know exactly where an idea will lead before taking the first step.
Sidney explores what it means to build a business, a career, financial security, a family, or a meaningful next chapter, while also asking an important question: Is what you’re building actually supporting the life you want?
She also discusses the importance of protecting what we create through thoughtful planning, appropriate legal structures, risk management, and professional advice.
In This EpisodeSidney offers five questions to consider this week:
You don’t have to know the whole story before you begin writing the next chapter.
A Thought to Take With YouBuild with purpose. Protect what matters. Stay open to what your ideas can become.
That’s legacy in motion.
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Until next time, grab your favorite latte, hold your loved ones tight, and have a great week! ☕
WheelanLaw.comThis podcast episode contains general information for discussion purposes only. Each case is different and must be judged on its own merits. Missouri rules generally prohibit lawyers from advertising that they specialize in particular areas of the law. This article should not be construed to suggest such specialization. Nothing on this site should be taken as legal advice for any individual case or situation. This information is not intended to create an attorney-client relationship, and the listening or viewing of this podcast does not constitute an attorney-client relationship. The choice of a lawyer is an important decision and should not be based solely upon advertisements.
Get Your House in Order: The Things We Keep Putting Off
Law Days and Lattes | September Reset, Episode 2
September is a natural time to get organized. As summer winds down and the pace of fall picks up, it’s a good opportunity to take stock of the things we’ve been putting off, including the important pieces of our financial and legal lives.
In this episode of Law Days and Lattes, Sidney Wheelan talks about getting your house in order, not by cleaning out closets, but by making sure your estate plan, financial documents, insurance, and family conversations are up to date.
Sidney walks through six practical steps to consider this month:
The episode also explores the importance of having family conversations before a crisis happens and offers a simple “What If?” test to help identify gaps in your planning.
Getting your house in order isn’t about preparing for the worst. It’s about creating peace of mind, protecting the people you love, and making room to enjoy what you’re building.
As Sidney reminds listeners, legacy is not something created only at the end of life. It is something we are building every day through the decisions we make to protect our families, businesses, finances, and communities.
This month’s challenge: Pick one thing you’ve been putting off, and do it.
Because you don’t have to get your entire life organized in September. You just have to start.
Listen in for a practical September reset and a reminder to build it, protect it, pass it on, and keep your legacy in motion.
Connect with the ShowCheck out our Law Days & Lattes pages on Facebook and Instagram where you can join the conversation, share your thoughts, and ask questions
Until next time, grab your favorite latte, hold your loved ones tight, and have a great week! ☕
WheelanLaw.comThis podcast episode contains general information for discussion purposes only. Each case is different and must be judged on its own merits. Missouri rules generally prohibit lawyers from advertising that they specialize in particular areas of the law. This article should not be construed to suggest such specialization. Nothing on this site should be taken as legal advice for any individual case or situation. This information is not intended to create an attorney-client relationship, and the listening or viewing of this podcast does not constitute an attorney-client relationship. The choice of a lawyer is an important decision and should not be based solely upon advertisements.
Law Days & Lattes | Episode 108
September has a way of making life feel like it is starting over. Summer winds down, school begins, fall activities return, and suddenly the calendar is full again.
But what if September is more than a return to routine? What if it is an opportunity to pause, reset, and decide what you actually want the next season of your life to look like?
In this episode of Law Days & Lattes, Sidney Wheelan takes us through five questions designed to help us be more intentional with our time, our families, our plans, and our future.
In This Episode1. What needs to come off your calendar?
Not every obligation deserves a permanent place in your life. Sidney encourages listeners to consider what they are continuing simply because they have always done it or because someone else expects them to.
2. What needs to go back on your calendar?
Making room for yourself matters, too. Whether it is exercise, time with friends, travel, reading, a date night, or simply a quiet cup of coffee, the things that bring you joy deserve a place on the calendar.
3. Is your family prepared for the unexpected?
September is a good time to review the plans that protect the people you love. Sidney discusses powers of attorney, wills, trusts, beneficiary designations, important documents, and the importance of having a plan before you need one.
Estate planning, she reminds us, is not simply about death. It is about life and making sure the people we love are not left trying to figure everything out during an already difficult time.
4. What are you teaching the next generation?
Children learn by watching us. They see how we handle money, disappointment, hard work, relationships, generosity, and decision-making. Legacy is not simply what we leave behind. It is what we leave in people.
5. What season are you entering?
Life changes constantly, and every season brings new opportunities. Whether you are raising a family, building a business, caring for aging parents, preparing for retirement, starting over, or simply wondering what you want next, there is no wrong answer.
A new season does not mean your story is ending. It may mean your story is getting better.
Your September ResetSidney offers five simple challenges for the week:
The goal is not to simply become busier. It is to become more intentional about what matters, what stays, what goes, what you are building, what you are protecting, and what you are ready to pass on.
Looking AheadThe September series continues over the next few weeks with conversations about getting organized, putting your financial house in order, planning for your business and future, estate planning, legacy, and thinking intentionally about the next chapter of your life.
Because you do not have to wait until January for a fresh start.
Sometimes, a new season is all the reset you need.
Connect with the ShowCheck out our Law Days & Lattes pages on Facebook and Instagram where you can join the conversation, share your thoughts, and ask questions
Until next time, grab your favorite latte, hold your loved ones tight, and have a great week! ☕
WheelanLaw.comThis podcast episode contains general information for discussion purposes only. Each case is different and must be judged on its own merits. Missouri rules generally prohibit lawyers from advertising that they specialize in particular areas of the law. This article should not be construed to suggest such specialization. Nothing on this site should be taken as legal advice for any individual case or situation. This information is not intended to create an attorney-client relationship, and the listening or viewing of this podcast does not constitute an attorney-client relationship. The choice of a lawyer is an important decision and should not be based solely upon advertisements.
What can Dolly Parton teach us about building a legacy?
More than you might think.
In this episode of Law Days & Lattes, Sidney takes a closer look at the woman behind the rhinestones and big hair and the remarkable empire she built without forgetting where she came from.
Dolly Parton’s story is a lesson in more than fame and success. She built businesses, created intellectual property, diversified her investments, protected what she created, created jobs, invested in her hometown, and turned her success into opportunities for other people.
Sidney explores what business owners, families, farmers, entrepreneurs, and anyone thinking about the future can learn from Dolly’s approach to building and protecting what matters.
From songwriting and business ownership to the Dollywood brand, the Imagination Library, education, disaster relief, and healthcare, Dolly’s story demonstrates what it means to put a legacy in motion while you are still here to see its impact.
Because an inheritance is something you leave.
A legacy is something you start.
In This EpisodeWhat am I building?
What do I own?
What have I protected?
What am I putting in motion?
Your legacy does not have to begin with millions of dollars. It can start with one family, one employee, one scholarship, one young person you mentor, one community project, or one act of generosity repeated until it becomes something bigger than you.
A Thought to Take With YouYour legacy does not begin when you die.
Your legacy begins the moment something you build starts making someone else’s life better.
Build it. Protect it. Pass it on.
And maybe add a little sparkle along the way.
Connect with the ShowCheck out our Law Days & Lattes pages on Facebook and Instagram where you can join the conversation, share your thoughts, and ask questions
Until next time, grab your favorite latte, hold your loved ones tight, and have a great week! ☕
WheelanLaw.comThis podcast episode contains general information for discussion purposes only. Each case is different and must be judged on its own merits. Missouri rules generally prohibit lawyers from advertising that they specialize in particular areas of the law. This article should not be construed to suggest such specialization. Nothing on this site should be taken as legal advice for any individual case or situation. This information is not intended to create an attorney-client relationship, and the listening or viewing of this podcast does not constitute an attorney-client relationship. The choice of a lawyer is an important decision and should not be based solely upon advertisements.
Long-term care is one of those conversations most families would rather avoid. But avoiding it does not make the need for care, or the cost of care, go away.
In this episode of Law Days & Lattes, Sidney takes on the difficult but important topic of planning for nursing home and long-term care expenses. From understanding MO HealthNet eligibility and the difference between income and assets to navigating trusts, property, family farms, business interests, and long-term care insurance, this episode looks at why planning ahead matters.
Sidney also addresses some of the biggest mistakes families make during a crisis, including giving away assets or changing titles without understanding the potential consequences. He explains why there is no one-size-fits-all answer and why every family’s financial picture deserves careful consideration.
Whether you are planning for your own future or trying to help an aging parent or loved one, this episode is a reminder to start the conversation before an emergency forces you to make decisions under pressure.
Because long-term care planning is not about hiding assets or beating the system. It is about understanding the rules, protecting the person who needs care, and helping your family avoid unnecessary panic, conflict, and expensive mistakes.
Listen in as Sidney discusses:
Sidney Wheelan is the founder of Wheelan Law Firm, serving businesses and families across North Central Missouri from offices in Moberly, Carrollton, and Paris.
Remember: Build it. Protect it. Pass it on.
Sometimes, protecting what you have built means planning for the possibility that you may need it to take care of you first.Connect with the ShowCheck out our Law Days & Lattes pages on Facebook and Instagram where you can join the conversation, share your thoughts, and ask questions
Until next time, grab your favorite latte, hold your loved ones tight, and have a great week! ☕
WheelanLaw.comThis podcast episode contains general information for discussion purposes only. Each case is different and must be judged on its own merits. Missouri rules generally prohibit lawyers from advertising that they specialize in particular areas of the law. This article should not be construed to suggest such specialization. Nothing on this site should be taken as legal advice for any individual case or situation. This information is not intended to create an attorney-client relationship, and the listening or viewing of this podcast does not constitute an attorney-client relationship. The choice of a lawyer is an important decision and should not be based solely upon advertisements.
Sitting in a courtroom observing a family dispute over a late matriarch’s estate highlights a painful truth: lack of clear communication and updated legal planning can tear families apart. Host Sidney Wheelan breaks down why true estate planning is less about money and more about giving your family clarity. This episode explores the emotional cost of unwritten promises, the difference between "equal" and "fair," managing sentimental items, and how proactive kitchen-table conversations can protect your family's relationships and legacy.
Key Takeaways
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Until next time, grab your favorite latte, hold your loved ones tight, and have a great week! ☕
WheelanLaw.comThis podcast episode contains general information for discussion purposes only. Each case is different and must be judged on its own merits. Missouri rules generally prohibit lawyers from advertising that they specialize in particular areas of the law. This article should not be construed to suggest such specialization. Nothing on this site should be taken as legal advice for any individual case or situation. This information is not intended to create an attorney-client relationship, and the listening or viewing of this podcast does not constitute an attorney-client relationship. The choice of a lawyer is an important decision and should not be based solely upon advertisements.
In this episode of Law Days & Lattes, Sidney explores creative ways to finance a major purchase or investment without relying solely on a traditional bank loan. From owner financing and self-directed IRAs to partnerships, grants, seller credits, and using assets you already own, there may be more options available than you realize.
But creative financing does not mean careless financing. Every financing arrangement comes with risks, and understanding who is taking those risks is just as important as finding the money.
In this episode, Sidney discusses:Owner financing and how a seller can become the lender
Self-directed IRAs and their potential use in real estate investing
The risks of borrowing from family and why family loans should be treated like business transactions
The risks of cosigning a loan, including taking on debt without controlling the underlying asset
Grants and small business lending programs, particularly for entrepreneurs and rural communities
How partnerships can combine money, property, expertise, and relationships to make an opportunity possible
Seller credits and creative negotiations that can sometimes solve a financing problem without borrowing more money
The bigger lessonInstead of stopping at “the bank said no,” Sidney encourages listeners to ask better questions:
What resources do I already have? Could the seller finance the purchase? Could there be a partner? Are grants or other programs available? Is there another way to structure the transaction?
At the same time, creative does not mean careless. Every financing arrangement transfers risk, and you need to understand exactly what you are agreeing to before moving forward.
Ultimately, this episode comes back to a familiar philosophy: Build it. Protect it. Pass it on.
Building wealth may require creativity, but protecting what you build requires good advice, careful planning, clear documentation, and an honest understanding of risk.
Connect with the ShowCheck out our Law Days & Lattes pages on Facebook and Instagram where you can join the conversation, share your thoughts, and ask questions
Until next time, grab your favorite latte, hold your loved ones tight, and have a great week! ☕
WheelanLaw.comThis podcast episode contains general information for discussion purposes only. Each case is different and must be judged on its own merits. Missouri rules generally prohibit lawyers from advertising that they specialize in particular areas of the law. This article should not be construed to suggest such specialization. Nothing on this site should be taken as legal advice for any individual case or situation. This information is not intended to create an attorney-client relationship, and the listening or viewing of this podcast does not constitute an attorney-client relationship. The choice of a lawyer is an important decision and should not be based solely upon advertisements.
What does real leadership actually look like?
After attending the National Association of Counties Conference in New Orleans, Sidney returned home with a renewed appreciation for the public servants, community leaders, and volunteers who quietly shape our communities every day. Their work may never make headlines, but their decisions affect millions of lives.
In this episode of Law Days & Lattes, Sidney explores why leadership isn't defined by a title or position, but by a willingness to serve. Through stories from county leaders across America, she reflects on stewardship, authentic leadership, and the responsibility each of us has to leave our families, businesses, organizations, and communities better than we found them.
Whether you're leading a business, raising a family, serving on a nonprofit board, or simply showing up for the people who count on you, this conversation is a reminder that leadership is practiced one decision, one conversation, and one act of service at a time.
In This Episode:Leadership isn't something we're given. It's something we choose.
Join Sidney as she challenges us all to build it, protect it, and pass it on.
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Until next time, grab your favorite latte, hold your loved ones tight, and have a great week! ☕
WheelanLaw.comThis podcast episode contains general information for discussion purposes only. Each case is different and must be judged on its own merits. Missouri rules generally prohibit lawyers from advertising that they specialize in particular areas of the law. This article should not be construed to suggest such specialization. Nothing on this site should be taken as legal advice for any individual case or situation. This information is not intended to create an attorney-client relationship, and the listening or viewing of this podcast does not constitute an attorney-client relationship. The choice of a lawyer is an important decision and should not be based solely upon advertisements.
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