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Are you facing a family law issue and drowning in bad advice from the internet? AnnouncingThe Initial Consult, a future podcast where Pennsylvania family law attorney Julie Potts gives real answers to real people—just like she would in an actual consultation. No sugarcoating, no false hope—just practical legal insight and tough truths to help you make informed decisions.

Each episode features anonymous consultations covering custody battles, divorce disputes, and the emotional complexities that come with them. Whether you're preparing for your own consult, looking for clarity in a tough situation, or just fascinated by the real-life drama of family law, this podcast is for you.

Join Julie and producer Emily as they strip away the myths, expose the common pitfalls, and give you the knowledge you need to navigate the legal system—without the expensive hourly rate. Because in family law, what you need to hear is often very different from what you want to hear.

Want to be a guest? Visit JuliePottsESQ.com to apply for a confidential consultation.

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail [email protected]

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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In this episode of Lawfully Ever After, Julie Potts, Esq. dives into emotionally charged scenarios pulled from Reddit that mirror the challenges of modern relationships and divorce. 

From the rise of "gray divorces" to navigating unexpected separation, they explore the interplay of control, independence, and communication in marriages. 

They discuss how societal shifts have influenced divorce trends, why emotions often cloud legal decisions, and how to approach difficult conversations with honesty and respect. 

Whether you're seeking advice on co-parenting, understanding your partner’s perspective, or how to keep your identity while parenting, this episode offers relatable stories, legal insights, and timeless wisdom.

Listen in for heartfelt discussions, practical advice, and a few laughs along the way!

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail [email protected]

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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In this educational episode, Julie and Emily pull back the curtain on the complexities of custody cases, focusing on how trials are scheduled, prepared, and ultimately decided. Julie shares her real-world experience managing a high-stakes case, from the years-long delays caused by procedural rules to the intense preparation required to present evidence and witnesses effectively.

Listeners will learn about the often-misunderstood steps of custody litigation, including conciliations, pre-trial conferences, and evidentiary hearings. Julie explains the importance of due process, how judges approach their rulings, and why representing yourself without legal assistance can lead to costly mistakes.

Whether you’re navigating your own custody situation or simply curious about how the family court system works, this episode offers valuable insights into the legal process, the costs (both financial and emotional), and the importance of thoughtful decision-making before heading to court.

Plus, Julie and Emily reflect on the human side of the law, emphasizing the importance of having a passionate, prepared advocate by your side.

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail [email protected]

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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In this episode, we dive into the common pitfalls of custody battles and how taking a "scorched earth" approach often backfires. 

Julie Potts, Esq. shares real-life examples of cases where focusing on the negative failed and how shifting the narrative to a more positive, cooperative stance led to better outcomes for both parents and children. 

We discuss the importance of letting go of past grievances, reframing issues constructively, and how the right approach can not only save time and money but also promote healthier co-parenting relationships. 

Whether you're navigating a custody case or just interested in family law, this episode offers valuable insights on how to avoid unnecessary conflict and focus on what truly matters—the well-being of the children involved.

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail [email protected]

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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In this episode, we tackle the often tricky subject of holidays post-divorce, with practical advice just in time for the holiday season. From Halloween to Christmas, Julie Potts discusses the challenges of sharing holidays, the common mistakes people make, and why it's crucial to keep the focus on the kids. With personal anecdotes and experienced insights, this episode offers tips on creating new traditions, avoiding unnecessary conflict, and managing custody schedules during the holidays. Whether it's finding a balance for Thanksgiving or letting go of Halloween disputes, this episode will help you navigate the holiday season stress-free.

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail [email protected]

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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Ever wondered what it's like to have a consult with Julie? Chances are, you'd hear at least one or two of her most frequently used "Julie-isms". 

For example, you may already be familiar with "Get a job!", but I bet you haven't heard:

• "Litigation is a last resort, not a first response."
• "If they're trying to get you upset, then walk away."
• "You picked them"
• ...and many more!

In this episode, Julie provides insights into the complexities of family law, and offers practical advice for those going through similar experiences. From discussing the philosophy of litigation as a last resort to addressing common misconceptions about custody and support, Julie's candid conversations and 'Julie-isms' will be sure to enlighten. 

Whether you're in the midst of a legal battle or just curious about the world of family law, this podcast promises to be both informative and engaging. 

Tune in for real talk, real advice, and a few laughs along the way.

Find Julie on social media:
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

E-mail us at [email protected] with your questions and comments and what you'd like to learn about in the world of family law!

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail [email protected]

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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In this episode, we take real-life custody scenarios anonymously posted on the internet and get @LawyerJulie's overall thoughts, where the law comes in to play, and some ideas of how she might handle the situation. Please remember that Julie is NOT giving legal advice and these are NOT stories from her actual clients.

We cover a lot in this episode, including:

• (00:37) Can a co-parent violate custody orders if they have mental health concerns and are worried about the safety of their children?
• (06:41) What should you do if the other parent appears to be under the influence at a custody exchange?
• (10:14) How do the results of mental health evaluations factor into custody?
• (15:41) Is it possible to have to pay child support for a child who is not biologically yours if you were never married and you break up?
• (20:34) Do I have to file for child support even if I don't want it? How does it work if I change my mind later?
• (24:00) If my co-parent has a new significant other and my kids are spending more time with this step-parent or girl/boyfriend rather than their biological parent during their custody time, how does that work in terms of custody? Can the step-parent take over parental duties in place of the biological parent? 

Have a scenario you'd like Julie's thoughts on? Feel free to email the podcast at [email protected]!

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail [email protected]

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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In this episode, @LawyerJulie from TikTok talks about the importance of getting a job to avoid the very common problem of financial abuse in a marriage. Should you get a job if it reduces your spousal support/alimony? How do you afford a divorce if you don't have your own bank account? Julie answers these questions and more. 

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail [email protected]

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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Emily listened to the Britney Spears audiobook and couldn't wait to get Julie's take on her divorce and custody issues!

In this episode we discuss:

• Generational trauma and the importance of breaking the cycle
• If you file for divorce first do you have to pay your ex's legal fees?
• The importance of a solid foundation
• Should she have lost custody when she was 5150d?
• Navigating custody cases after one parent has a severe mental breakdown and has to go to inpatient therapy and/or rehab. 
• Did KFed have an ulterior motive for sharing the negative videos of Britney parenting?
• Most of us aren't in tabloids, but what about personal details being posted on social media...how does that affect custody?

Disclaimer: we are not Britney Spears experts or therapists, but our opinions are the same regardless of the details.

Be sure to follow @LawyerJulie on TikTok and send her an e-mail [email protected] if you have a topic you'd like us to discuss! 

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail [email protected]

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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This short episode covers a few random topics:

• Are the courts reasonable?
• When is it considered perjury?
• What's the weirdest "asset" Julie saw clients fighting over?
• Can you go to pet custody court?

Follow Julie on TikTok @LawyerJulie and if you have questions you'd like answered on the podcast, e-mail her [email protected]

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail [email protected]

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.