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What if losing your best salesperson had nothing to do with salary?
In this episode of Lead to Grow, Tommy Sim breaks down one of the most misunderstood problems in business: sales team retention.
Because when great salespeople leave, it’s rarely about a bigger offer. It’s about how they experienced your environment long before they resigned.
This episode unpacks what actually drives people to stay, perform, and grow inside your business and what silently pushes them out.
Why money is just a scoreboard, not the real motivator
The SCARF model and how it explains behaviour at work
The 5 drivers behind retention:
Status
Certainty
Autonomy
Relatedness
Fairness
Why top performers don’t leave suddenly, they check out slowly
How poor leadership decisions quietly destroy retention
The real reason people say “it’s about money” when they resign
Mentioned in this episode:
9 Rules for Good Commission Schemes: https://open.spotify.com/episode/2wTRXgXNbBJmUDsvFsABO4?si=8iraEk1DRreTgICzfmV-7g
Raise Your Floor to Become a Better Leader:
https://open.spotify.com/episode/05Hunzh3mQtdpdZ6IfGW7Z?si=fR0Uy70MSxSiKuUE0ixkdQ
Connect with us:
Tommy Sim: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tommysim/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/injecthr
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@injecthr
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/inject.hr/
00:00 Why Salespeople Really Leave
02:10 Money Is Just the Scoreboard
04:32 The SCARF Model Explained
06:59 Status and Self-Identity at Work
08:50 Certainty and Why Uncertainty Pushes People Out
09:26 Autonomy and the Impact of Micromanagement
10:40 Relatedness and Feeling Part of the Team
11:30 Fairness and Why Perception Matters
11:52 The Power of Monthly 1:1 Conversations
13:10 Recognition Done Right (And Wrong)
16:46 Incentives, Commission, and Status Rewards
19:12 Career Development Without Forcing Management Roles
21:39 Providing the Right Tools for Success
26:26 Building a Sense of Belonging
28:50 Why Psychological Safety Matters
31:14 The Real Reason People Resign
33:38 Final Takeaways on Retention
About Lead to Grow
Lead to Grow explores the people's principles behind high-performing businesses. Hosted by Tommy Sim, the podcast focuses on leadership, performance, culture and
decision-making, with practical insights leaders can apply immediately.
New episodes are released regularly.
If this episode helped you rethink how you approach feedback, share it with a leader who may need it.
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Stepping into a new leadership role can feel like a whirlwind—especially if you’ve been promoted from within and are now leading your peers.
In this episode of Lead to Grow, host Tommy Sim breaks down a practical, three‑phase roadmap for your first 100 days as a leader.
You’ll learn how to diagnose the real challenge you’ve inherited, define your mandate and expectations with clarity, and execute with the kind of discipline that builds trust, momentum, and results.
By the end, you’ll know how to turn those crucial first 100 days into a foundation of credibility, not a scramble to catch up
Key practical applications
Clarify with your manager whether you’re leading a turnaround, elevation, growth, efficiency push, or cultural reset so you don’t waste your first 100 days solving the wrong problem.
Schedule early conversations with your boss, peers, and key partners (Finance, HR, IT, Marketing, Operations) to understand what they need from you and to avoid nasty surprises later.
Ask each team member about their current fulfilment (e.g. “Out of 10…?”), what helps, and what holds them back, so you can adjust goals and support with real insight instead of gut feel.
Capture the behaviours you truly live (not just nice‑sounding values) and start recognising people when they demonstrate them to build credibility quickly.
Align with your manager first, share draft expectations with the team, invite feedback, refine, then lock them in so you don’t have to walk back big promises later.
Put recurring team meetings, operational check‑ins, and monthly 1:1s in the calendar so performance, development, and engagement conversations happen by default, not in crisis mode.
Address small but important behaviour issues calmly and specifically before they turn into 9/10 performance or culture problems.
Pick 1–3 early improvements that clearly link to your mandate and remove a pain point for your team or stakeholders to build momentum and trust.
Commit time in your first 100 days to learning, coaching, and reflection so you model the growth mindset you want from your team.
Connect with us:
Tommy Sim: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tommysim/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/injecthr
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@injecthr
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/inject.hr/
Chapters
00:00 – Why your first 100 days matter
00:42 – Welcome to Lead to Grow and episode overview
01:13 – The whirlwind of becoming a new leader
02:22 – Beyond textbook advice: what leaders really get wrong
02:42 – The 3 phases and 10 key actions in 100 days
03:10 – Shifting identity from individual contributor to leader
03:58 – Defining the true job to be done
04:24 – Managing expectations up, across, and down the value chain
06:04 – Building credibility across internal and external partners
06:51 – Taking a temperature check and mapping influence
08:26 – What you should know by the end of Phase 1
09:20 – Phase 2: Defining and aligning direction
09:45 – Clarifying what you stand for as a leader
10:29 – Setting expectations in the right sequence
11:20 – Showing the staircase, not just the summit
11:48 – What you should have by the end of Phase 2
12:16 – Phase 3: Execute with discipline
12:45 – Designing your leadership rhythm and meeting cadence
13:16 – Navigating remuneration and your decision authority
13:39 – Role clarity, wrong seats, and toxic behaviour
15:04 – Mastering the “4 out of 10” conversation
16:27 – Quick wins done properly
16:57 – Leadership as a craft and growth mindset
17:17 – What success looks like after the first 100 days
18:37 – Closing thoughts and call to action
About Lead to Grow
Lead to Grow explores the people's principles behind high-performing businesses. Hosted by Tommy Sim, the podcast focuses on leadership, performance, culture and decision-making, with practical insights leaders can apply immediately.
If this episode helped you rethink how you approach feedback, share it with a leader who may need it.
What separates good leaders from great ones?
It’s not a strategy.It’s not intelligence.It’s not even an experience.
It’s how they show up for their people.
In this episode of Lead to Grow, we sit down with Them Lam, Head of Sales & Distribution, at AFG to unpack the real drivers of leadership success.
From fleeing Vietnam as a child to leading large teams and influencing thousands of business owners, this conversation dives deep into mindset, growth, and what it actually takes to lead at scale.
We cover:
The difference between individual success and team success
Why humility, vulnerability, and curiosity are leadership superpowers
The shift from telling to coaching
How to build trust and unlock performance in your team
Why slowing down is the fastest way to grow
The role of gratitude and resilience in leadership
What separates top-performing business owners from the rest
How to create leaders who think for themselves
This is not a theory.
It’s real leadership, built through experience, mistakes, and growth.
If you’re leading a team or stepping into leadership, this episode will reshape how you think about success.
Connect with us:
Tommy Sim: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tommysim/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/injecthr
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@injecthr
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/inject.hr/
00:00 Faster Answers vs Better Leadership
02:07 Early Life & Foundations
03:45 Work Ethic & Early Discipline
06:08 Reframing Stress as Growth
07:49 Learning from Mistakes
09:37 From Doing to Coaching
11:02 Slowing Down to Lead Better
14:36 Why Taking Action Matters
15:02 Traits of High Performers
17:28 Growth Mindset in Business
19:41 Broker Investment Program
22:11 Scaling Support for Business Owners
About Lead to Grow
Lead to Grow explores the people's principles behind high-performing businesses. Hosted by Tommy Sim, the podcast focuses on leadership, performance, culture and decision-making, with practical insights leaders can apply immediately.
New episodes are released regularly.
If this episode helped you rethink how you approach feedback, share it with a leader who may need it.
Follow the show on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, or subscribe on YouTube for future episodes.
We break down why feedback so often goes wrong, why managers avoid it, and what actually makes feedback change behaviour rather than damage relationships.
This episode goes beyond generic advice. It introduces the red line versus green line model, explains why credibility and empathy matter more than delivery scripts, and walks through 12 practical tips leaders can apply immediately.
If you dread giving feedback or feel your message never quite lands, this episode is essential listening.
Connect with us:
Tommy Sim: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tommysim/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/injecthr
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@injecthr
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/inject.hr/
In this episode, we explore:
Why feedback often feels threatening for both managers and employees
The difference between coercion and willingness in behaviour change
The red line versus green line model of leadership influence
Why credibility determines whether feedback is even heard
The role of empathy in reducing defensiveness
How unclear expectations create avoidable feedback conversations
Why annual reviews fail and bite-sized feedback works
The importance of recognition and building goodwill
Why venting is not the same as leading
The Behaviour–Impact–Next Time–Benefit (BINB) framework
How overloading someone with examples creates defensiveness
The difference between debriefing and briefing
Coaching techniques that increase ownership
The power of stories and visuals in reinforcing learning
The “same side of the table” approach to feedback
About Lead to Grow
Lead to Grow explores the people's principles behind high-performing businesses. Hosted by Tommy Sim, the podcast focuses on leadership, performance, culture and decision-making, with practical insights leaders can apply immediately.
New episodes are released regularly.
If this episode helped you rethink how you approach feedback, share it with a leader who may need it.Follow the show on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, or subscribe on YouTube for future episodes.
You have the same 24 hours as everyone else.
So why do some leaders move the needle while others feel constantly busy yet frustrated?
In this episode of Lead to Grow, Tommy Sim challenges the traditional idea of time management and introduces a more accurate lens: energy management.
Most leaders think the problem is not enough time.
But time is fixed. Energy is not.
When leaders misunderstand this distinction, they sprint all day but make little progress on what actually matters. The result? Ongoing tension between leaders and their teams, unfinished priorities, and a feeling that the important work keeps slipping.
This episode introduces a practical framework, the Energy Value Matrix to help leaders understand where their time is really going and how to regain control.
In this episode, we explore:
Key insights from the episode:
Time is not the variable you should be managing.
Every leader has the same number of hours. The differentiator is how energy is allocated across tasks.
Energy drives behaviour more than logic does.
Leaders naturally gravitate towards work that feels good, even when it is lower value. Without awareness, this creates hidden time waste.
Most performance tension is energy misalignment.
Leaders want more output. Teams feel drained. Often the issue is not workload volume but where energy is being spent.
The Energy Value Matrix reveals blind spots.
By categorising tasks into four quadrants high value vs low value, energising vs draining leaders can identify where productivity is leaking.
Busyness can be emotionally rewarding.
Being needed and constantly interrupted can validate identity. But it often prevents strategic work.
Structure creates freedom.
Deliberately scheduling high-value, draining work during peak energy hours reduces friction and increases control.
Leadership growth is intentional.
High performance does not happen by accident. It requires conscious choices about where attention and energy go.
Connect with us:
Tommy Sim: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tommysim/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/injecthr
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@injecthr
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/inject.hr/
The Energy Value Matrix Explained
The matrix uses two axes:
Horizontal: How much energy a task gives or drains
Vertical: How valuable the task is to your role
Quadrants:
Puppies – High value and energising
Frogs – High value but draining
Sloths – Low value but energising
Monkeys – Low value and draining
Performance improves when leaders increase time spent on puppies and deliberately manage frogs rather than defaulting to sloths.
Practical takeaways for leaders:
Who this episode is for:
About Lead to Grow
Lead to Grow explores the people's principles behind high-performing businesses. Hosted by Tommy Sim, the podcast focuses on leadership, performance, culture and decision-making, with practical insights leaders can apply immediately.
New episodes are released regularly.
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People attend training.
They take notes.
They feel inspired.
A week later?
Nothing changes.
Businesses spend between $1,500 and $2,500 per employee per year on external training. Add time away from work, and the real cost is even higher.
So here’s the uncomfortable question:
Is it working?
In this episode of Lead to Grow, Tommy Sim breaks down why most training efforts fail to produce real performance improvement and what leaders can do differently to get genuine return on their investment.
Because the issue isn’t usually the quality of the training.
It's a transfer.
In This Episode
Key Leadership Lessons
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Tommy Sim: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tommysim/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/injecthr
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@injecthr
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/inject.hr/
Chapters
00:00 Why Training Feels Like It Doesn’t Work
02:23 What Research Actually Says About Transfer
04:50 Why Information Sharing Fails
07:18 How Adults Really Learn
09:44 Feedback, Ego and Brain Threat
12:10 The 70:20:10 Model Explained
14:38 Coaching in Practice
19:31 When Learning Becomes Capability
21:58 Psychological Safety and Error Reporting
24:22 Action + Reflection = Learning
26:49 Why Training Stops Halfway
28:00 The LEARN Framework
Who This Episode Is For
About Lead to Grow
Lead to Grow explores the people's principles behind high-performing businesses. Hosted by Tommy Sim, the podcast focuses on leadership, performance, culture and decision-making, with practical insights leaders can apply immediately.
New episodes are released regularly.
If you found this episode useful, share it with a leader who feels stretched or overwhelmed.
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You’ve heard all the clichés about performance measures. What gets measured gets managed. Where attention goes, energy flows. And you’ve probably had a business mate tell you they’ve got the right KPIs in place and that’s what truly drives performance.
So you ask yourself: why isn’t it working in our business? Do we have the wrong KPIs, or is there some other problem that we can’t see?
In Episode 7 of Lead to Grow, Tommy unpacks why so many attempts at KPIs and performance measures fail, the common mistakes that occur, and what you should do differently to avoid this happening. We start with the real reasons leaders introduce performance measures in the first place: people working hard completing tasks but not achieving what’s truly valuable, expectations not being clearly set, and employees saying they don’t know what success looks like.
In this episode, we explore:
Key insights from the episode:
Performance measures are signals, not solutions.
KPIs and OKRs don’t improve performance by themselves. They only tell you what’s happening. Without strong leadership, role clarity, capability, follow-up and feedback, they become noise.
Switching frameworks won’t fix broken systems.
Moving from KPIs to OKRs is like replacing a car dashboard when the engine is broken. If the underlying people system isn’t working, a new framework just creates new frustration.
Most KPI systems fail for predictable reasons.
Common mistakes include measuring trivial things, using vague or unmeasurable goals, tracking too many metrics, failing to involve the team, and expecting the system to work without ongoing effort.
Follow-up is where performance systems succeed or fail.
The real work begins after KPIs are launched. Without consistent conversations, reinforcement and leadership capability, even well-designed systems fade into irrelevance.
There is no neutral performance system.
Every framework nudges behaviour in certain directions and suppresses others. The right question isn’t “Which framework is best?” but “What behaviours is this system encouraging in our context?”
Practical takeaways for leaders:
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Tommy Sim: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tommysim/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/injecthr
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@injecthr
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/inject.hr/
Who this episode is for:
About Lead to Grow
Lead to Grow explores the people principles behind high-performing businesses. Hosted by Tommy Simp, the podcast focuses on leadership, performance, culture and decision-making, with practical insights leaders can apply immediately.
New episodes released regularly.
If you found this episode useful, share it with someone who’s wrestling with KPIs or performance management.
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Incentive schemes are everywhere in business. Bonuses. Commissions. Short-term rewards designed to drive performance.
And yet, for so many leaders, these beautifully designed schemes quietly fail to deliver what they promise. Worse, the unintended consequences often outweigh the benefits.
In this episode of Lead to Grow, we unpack the dark art of incentive schemes and why so many well-intentioned reward structures distort behaviour, damage motivation, and fail to improve real performance.
This is not an argument against incentives. It is a practical guide to when they work, when they fail, and how to design them intelligently if you choose to use them.
You will learn:
We also break down where incentive schemes can work, particularly in sales and output-driven roles, and how to think about:
Finally, we outline the hallmarks of a well-designed incentive scheme, including:
The core message is simple:
Incentive schemes are powerful, but they are blunt instruments. They are the exclamation mark, not the sentence.
When used well, they create clarity and focus.
When used poorly, they distort behaviour, undermine motivation, and create long-term problems disguised as short-term gains.
If you are considering implementing an incentive scheme, or questioning whether your current one is actually working, this episode will help you avoid expensive trial and error.
Connect with us:
Tommy Sim: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tommysim/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/injecthrYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@injecthrInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/inject.hr/
If you lead people or design reward structures, this episode will change how you think about money, motivation, and performance. Subscribe to Lead to Grow for more practical, human-centred leadership insights.
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Why do so many leaders keep hiring the wrong people?
In this episode of Lead to Grow, we break down why hiring is not a gut-feel decision, not a resume contest, and definitely not luck. Hiring is a prediction problem. And most leaders are playing it with the wrong rules, under the wrong pressure, using the wrong tools.
We explore how common hiring processes feel logical on the surface but quietly set leaders up to fail, costing businesses months of lost productivity, damaged relationships, and expensive turnover.
If you are responsible for building teams, scaling a business, or leading people, this episode will fundamentally change how you think about hiring.
You will learn:
This episode is not about hiring unicorns. It is about building a repeatable, defensible hiring system that gives you better outcomes consistently, not occasionally.
If you are tired of feeling unlucky with hires, this is where the luck ends and leadership begins.
Connect with us:
Tommy Sim: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tommysim/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/injecthrYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@injecthrInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/inject.hr/
If you lead people or plan to, this episode could save you months of lost time and thousands in wasted salary.
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In this episode of Lead to Grow, Tommy Sim unpacks one of the most misunderstood and costly leadership skills: clarity in communication.
Many leaders believe they are communicating clearly, yet research consistently shows that half of employees do not fully understand what is expected of them at work. The result is wasted effort, poor prioritisation, rework, anxiety, disengagement and in some cases, lost talent. Studies suggest this lack of clarity can cost businesses between $10,000 and $20,000 per employee, per year.
Tommy explores where leadership communication commonly breaks down, why being direct is not the same as being understood, and how assumptions like “they should know” quietly undermine performance. Using practical examples, stories, and research, he introduces the Seven Pillars of Leadership Clarity and the Five Cs of Communication Clarity, giving leaders practical tools they can apply immediately.
If you have ever thought, “But I already told them that”, this episode is for you.
Connect with us:
Tommy Sim: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tommysim/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/injecthr
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@injecthr
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/inject.hr/
Key Topics Covered
The Seven Pillars of Leadership Clarity
The Five Cs of Communication Clarity
Episode Takeaways
Timestamps / Chapters
00:00 Welcome to Lead to Grow and the cost of poor clarity
02:21 Why communication failures are so expensive
04:43 Where leadership miscommunication shows up
06:58 The problem with “take initiative”
09:23 Why strategy often fails to land
11:49 Incentive schemes and confusion
14:17 The Seven Pillars of Leadership Clarity
19:07 Common communication traps to avoid
23:32 How to know if you are actually being clear
25:59 The Five Cs of Communication Clarity
28:25 Final reflections: clarity is kindness
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Decoding how human success drives business performance with The People Principle. Hosted by Tommy Sim.