Sonny Garg on Achievement Addiction
What are you chasing, and why?
For years, Sonny Garg had an impressive answer to the first part of that question. Harvard, a White House Fellowship, executive leadership and ever greater professional success. But eventually he realized that achievement had become closely tied to his sense of self-worth.
Sonny is the author of *Desi 2.0: My Family’s American Dream and the Cost of Never Being Enough*. In this conversation, we talk about achievement addiction, inherited expectations and what happens when external success no longer feels like success.
We explore the difference between ambition and the need to prove yourself, how our identity shapes the way we lead, résumé virtues versus eulogy virtues, and Sonny’s concept of the “Minimally Viable Me.”
Perhaps the most important idea is that Sonny did not become less ambitious. He changed what his ambition was for.
A conversation about success, agency, leadership and learning to define your worth from the inside rather than waiting for the world to define it for you.