By Cheri Spigner
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It is the end of 2021 and I cannot believe how much has happened. This year has been one of challenge and triumph, great loss, but also one of abundance. I thought I'd close out the year by talking about our bodies, the food we consume, and how the food in our community reflects our resilience. I'm really excited about today's episode and to be talking with someone near and dear to my heart, Jessica Featherson.
Join Jessica and I as we discuss what having it all means to her, her journey, and common misconceptions associated with having it all. She has a creative background in dance and it has played an important role in saving her life.
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Meet Jessica Featherson
Jessica self-identifies as a womanist who advocates for amplified representation, visibility, and culturally relevant wellness solutions for black womxn. She wears many hats: performance + culinary artist, experience curator, scholar, educator, health + fitness coach. She is deeply passionate about health, wellness, and the unique, interconnected relationship between the mind, body, and soul.
She received my BFA in dance performance from Temple University and my MFA from Rutgers University. She has performed nationally and internationally with Kariamu & Co: Traditions, Laurie Taylor/Soul Movement, and Eric Taylor Dance and taught on faculty at Rutgers University/Mason Gross School of the Arts and Ballet Hispanico.
In 2016, Jessica obtained her Health Coach certification from the Institute of Integrative Nutrition (IIN). Jessica’s mission is to teach and empower women to be loud and unapologetic in their existence and to radically love and care for themselves so that they can flourish in all aspects of their lives.
I want to send a special thank you to Jessica for being so open and willing to have this important conversation. A special thank you to all of you for tuning in this season and contributing to the conversation. We will continue this much-needed conversation in the new year. As always please like, follow, and share the podcast within your circle. Happy New Year and here’s to having it all!
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For Updates on her work in the health, realm check out WellBodyKitchenTo connect with Jessica via her creative endeavors visit her personal website jessicacamille.com
You can also find Jessica on Facebook.
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I would love to hear from you; send me an email at: [email protected]
Want to find out more about the show? you can do that at: www.leaderandloverpodcast.com
Find Leader and Lover on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/leaderandlover
Find me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cheri_spigner/
As Black women, many of us can agree that we have a complex relationship with sex and understanding our sexuality. Religion and the purity culture that permeates our community make it almost impossible for us to have safe spaces to speak candidly about our sexual desires and ideas around sex. Now, ya’ll know that I love speaking about sex, especially good sex and that is why I am so excited for you to meet today’s guest, Ashley Cobb, also known as Sex with Ashley, a woman who has dedicated her life and work around one idea: to help black women have better sex.
Join Ashley and I as we have a candid conversation on perceptions around sex within the black community, the impact of trauma on black women’s sex lives, the importance of therapy, and why now more than ever, it’s important for black women to have safe spaces. Listen in as Ashley dishes on her evolution from Ashley Cobb to Sex with Ashley and her journey to having it all.
Meet Sex with Ashley (Ashley Cobb)
Ashley Cobb is the millennial microphone that brings the conversation of Black Sexuality to the forefront, and across generational lines.
Ashley is a sexpert, blogger, and influencer known for her fun, down to earth and practical commentary that's been featured in top media outlets to include Huffington Post, Cosmopolitan, Self Magazine, Women's Health, Black Love Doc, Shape, and many more. She's also the Sex Advice Columnist for the lifestyle publication Madame Noire.
Ashley also is the creator of the digital news and entertainment platform, Gossip and Gasms, which has been coined "The Shade Room of Sex." In addition to that, she co-hosts a sexuality-centered podcast, "Hoe And Tell" that features real-life sex stories from strangers.
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I want to send a special thank you to Ashley for this honest conversation. Thank you for your wisdom, vulnerability, and sense of humor. A special thank you to you as well for listening to today’s episode. I hope it starts a much-needed conversation within your own life and communities. Feel free to like, subscribe, and share this episode within your circle. Here’s to having it all!
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As African American women, we serve as the backbones of our families and communities. This idea is so deeply entrenched in us that we are expected to be everything for everyone and nothing for ourselves. While our strength is something to be proud of, carrying it as a badge of honor and centering it as our identity can lead to burnout and resentment.
Today, I am joined by Dr. Zoe Shaw, a woman who has experienced the burnout that comes with superwoman syndrome, like many other African American women. It is precisely this that caused her to take a step back, re-evaluate her life and learn to prioritize herself.
Join Dr. Zoe and I as we have a candid conversation on mental health, vulnerability, self-care, boundaries, and the importance of therapy. Listen in to find out how her self-care journey empowered her and her community and finally enabled her to truly have it all.
Meet Dr. Zoe Shaw:
Dr. Zoe Shaw is a licensed psychotherapist, motivational speaker, podcast host, life coach and fitness fanatic. She is passionate about helping women who struggle in difficult relationships- especially that sometimes difficult relationship with themselves.
After 15 years in traditional psychotherapy practice, Dr. Zoe jumped off the couch and now helps women using a different modality with a mix of virtual therapy, coaching services and programs designed specifically for women trying to have it all, who sometimes struggle in the superwoman game.
Dr. Zoe is a graduate of UCLA and Pepperdine University. She is a frequent blogger (writing about helping women redefine their Superwoman) and loves answering women’s burning questions in her advice column at the Grit and Grace Project (online women’s magazine).
I want to send a special thank you to Dr. Zoe for imparting her wise words. A special thank you to you as well for listening to today’s episode. I hope it helps you as much as it has helped me. Feel free to like, subscribe, and share this episode with your sister circle. Here’s to having it all!
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I would love to hear from you; send me an email at: [email protected]
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Today you are in for a treat. I am so excited to be talking with Nikkia McClain about “having it all” on her terms.
Nikkia McClain, in her former career, worked as a very successful real estate agent in which she managed million-dollar properties. After several years of helping clients realize their real estate dreams, Nikkia wanted to explore other opportunities aligned to her personal goals to pursue a career in marketing and public relations — a very bold decision given Nikkia had no background in the two fields. She established her marketing and public relations firm, TENÉ NÍCOLE, and she put her knowledge and creative skills to work immediately, carving out her path to becoming successful.
Nikkia raised the level of conversation and opportunities for clients and garnered key
relationships to enhance their publicity via television, magazine, and radio. Her efforts continue to maximize the level of exposure clients receive on a national and international level.
Since pursuing her dream of building her very own well-known, recognized brand, she has experienced tremendous success. Black Enterprise Magazine touted her as a PR maven. Her firm has represented a roster of past and current clients including Fortune 500 and Inc 5000 companies and notable multi-million dollar brands.
Nikkia is a powerhouse in her own right and executes public relations initiatives at the highest capacity. She’s strategic, creative, savvy, generous, and extremely resourceful. She has successfully leveraged her expertise and network to produce top-notch campaigns and practical projects for her clients. Additionally, Nikkia is a public relations ninja; her clients have been featured on The Wendy Williams Show, The Real, NBC, ABC, FOX, TMZ, BOLD TV, Sister Circle TV, The Steve Harvey Show; The Breakfast Club, Hot 97; and numerous print/digital outlets including ESSENCE, OK!, Life and Style, Wall Street Journal, New York Times and Forbes, to name a few. You can follow and learn more about Nikkia and her work on all social platforms as Nikkia McClain or via her website at www.nikkiamcclain.com.
A special thank you to Nikkia for her passion, honesty, and wisdom and I am truly honored to have been sharing the space with her.
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Welcome to another episode of the Leader and Love Podcast and today I am so excited for my conversation with Samone Blakely.
Samone Thomas Blakely (aka TorahCents) is the founder of Curved to Cuffed, the #1 program for ambitious women of faith who want to attract high-quality men and confidently date them for marriage. She has a combined following of over 170K across all social media platforms, garnered over 20 million video views, and, over the past 9 years, has reached thousands of women in over 46 countries.
As a married woman to one, in her spare time, she loves to travel, dance in the mirror, watch Youtube videos and mindlessly watch Instagram stories. Her mantra is “Live for God and Love the Life You Live” because she believes women should be able to live their dream lives of joy, love, and freedom without having to compromise their faith. Her role in making that a reality is to help women of faith connect with high-quality men and land marriages with loving husbands who provide, protect and build for them. In her spare time, she loves to travel, dance in the mirror, watch Youtube videos and mindlessly watch Instagram stories.
Samone is an absolute powerhouse in the dating space for women of faith and I want to send a special thank you for her time and for all the gems she dropped on today’s show.
Connect with Samone via FB, Instagram, and Twitter @torahcents.
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Welcome to another episode of the Leader and Love Podcast and today you are in for a treat! Today we are joined by Dr. Pia and Levett Washington.
There's so much talk around getting married, but we also need to see examples of good marriages and be able to see behind the scenes of how couples are doing the work to sustain their marriages. This is where the Washingtons come in. Tune in to hear their take on “having it all” in a successful marriage and how they navigated trust, finances, and intimacy along the way through their 5 Essential Elements of Effective Relationships.
Dr. Pia Washington is a dynamic speaker, coach and attraction specialist dedicated to helping people produce extraordinary results in their lives, careers and organizations. Pia is a results-oriented professional with over 20 years of experience across a wide range of industries including Media & Entertainment, Technology, Biotech, Retail, Financial Services, Healthcare and Manufacturing. As a finance executive, she has achieved extraordinary results for many Fortune 500 companies including NBC Universal, DineEquity, Amgen, Guitar Center, Wellpoint, JP Morgan Chase, Exxon Mobil and Eaton Corporation. Pia is the loving mother of four children and she has been happily married to her junior high school sweetheart, Levett, for over 20 years.
Levett and Pia are principals of The ECI Group which provides consulting and coaching services to Executives, Couples and Individuals. Together the two co-authored the books, Shades of Love: Portraits of Successful Marriages and Love is Never Enough: The Five Essential Elements of Effective Relationships. The vision for their coaching practice is to inspire others to maximize their potential by living an authentic life. The couple has appeared on THRIVE with Sandra Bishop, KKZZ AM 1400, KISS FM 102.7 and numerous Internet radio talk shows. You can connect with the Washintons via their relationship blog at Lovesneverenough.blogspot.com.
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Welcome to another episode of the Leader and Love Podcast!
Tune in to hear me share my relationship story on a dear friend's relationship panel. I reflect on how I met, dated, and married my husband online during COVID in one year. There have been so many questions about relationships including: How long should we date? Does a man know when they have met someone they want to marry? How can we move our relationship from interest to dating, dating to exclusivity, and exclusivity to marriage. I answer all of these questions and more!
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Trust is what makes all relationships last. It is the foundation and when it is missing from a relationship, chaos is sure to follow.
Today's episode features an interview of my husband and I and our journey to love, trust, and marriage. We are by no means experts but we have gained wisdom from our own relationship experiences over the years and at the end of the day we both agree: it all comes back to trust.
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I am back!
What a season it has been, both in my personal and professional life. I am honored and blessed to be back. In today's episode, I will share what has been going on in my life and what is in store for the podcast. The best is yet to come.
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Life can be overwhelming at times, even if you are surrounded by good news and positive people, keeping everything perfect is exhausting. On this episode of Leader and Lover, I share a little bit about my most recent personal experience, getting married. I am a few weeks away from my wedding and even though I know everything is going to be magical, wedding planning has been exhausting. I’ve had to learn to let go of the little things and stop expecting everything to be perfect.
Listen to this episode to find out more about how my husband and I met and our journey along the way.
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The podcast currently has 20 episodes available.