Are you exhausting yourself trying to predict what everyone is thinking before important conversations? In this episode of the Leader Within Podcast, leadership coach Sue-Anne Higgins reveals how the “mind reading trap” sabotages women leaders and shows you how AI can help you prepare strategically without the emotional overwhelm.
What You’ll Learn:
• Why mental rehearsal of every possible scenario actually undermines your confidence
• The neuroscience behind how mind reading hijacks your leadership presence
• How to use the AI-Assisted Perspective Framework to prepare for high-stakes conversations
• The difference between strategic perspective-taking and anxious mind reading
• Practical ways to break the mind reading cycle and show up with authentic presence
Featured Topics:
• Women in leadership
• AI for leaders
• Confidence building
• Overcoming perfectionism
• Self-sabotage patterns
• Emotional fluency
• Leadership presence
• Strategic communication
• Professional development
• Leadership coaching
Sue-Anne shares the story of “Sarah,” a composite of the women leaders she coaches, who transformed from spending hours in anxious mental simulation to 45 minutes of strategic preparation using AI. You’ll discover how to shift from preparing for battle to preparing for collaboration.
Key Takeaway: Your leadership presence doesn’t come from your ability to read minds—it comes from your ability to show up authentically and respond wisely to what’s actually happening.
This episode builds on the reconstructed thinking framework from Episode 9 and connects to the emotional fluency concepts from Episode 8. Perfect for women leaders, executives, and anyone looking to break free from overthinking patterns that limit their potential.