There's a high chance your personal values are being compromised every day and your blind spots are derailing you.
How you demonstrate genuine care towards a member of your team, how you react when you don't have the answers, your use of clean language that lifts your team up instead of loaded phrases that undermine individuals, and whether in a moment of crisis you choose to seek out facts and hard evidence instead of making emotional interpretations that are unhelpful... these behaviours are all driven by your personal values, the beliefs that guide your decisions, and your blind spots, the things you do that you're not aware of.
This is foundational to who you are and how you show up, and I want you to have maximum visibility of your personal values and blind spots so you can be control of how you are showing up.
I go into all the little crevices of personal values and blind spots including one personal value that we sometimes feel awkward about owning. What happens to us physiologically and in our brains when our values are compromised? And who exactly compromises our values?
How do our blind spots derail us from living our values and building stronger relationships, and why is it critical to our success in leadership — and specifically coach-leadership — that we know what they are?
So many questions to answer (or ask!) today!
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🎥 Personal Values Exercise Video: https://youtu.be/9bRDeyzKDJU
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🎥 Blind Spots Exercise Video: https://youtu.be/X9sXFYbh5Yw
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If I'm in a bad headspace and avoiding doing what feels like a boring or difficult task, what's it going to take for me to open up to you as my boss, considering I'm feeling low in confidence, a bit lost, I'm already judging myself negatively? I have no idea how I'm going to get the work done. And can I trust you to not write me off as incompetent?
How are you going to help me, your direct report? Can I trust you? Can you help me shift to a positive headspace?
I want to introduce you to the Who Energy Model that I teach in Leaders Who Coach™. This simple model is going to help you as a coach-leader build trust in every conversation you have. In a nutshell, this technique puts the person in front of you, the person you're talking with — which really could be anyone in your life — at the very centre of that. Why is that important?
Key chapters in this episode are:
00:00 Introduction — I'm in a bad head space
00:37 Introducing the Who Energy Model™
02:35 How our human nature distracts and derails us
04:18 Why our ego stops us listening deeply
05:33 Why we avoid big feelings
06:38 The pressure to find the quickest fix
08:21 We are just reacting and coping, not responding
09:51 Positive and negative states of mind in the Who Energy Model™
11:55 What tips us into negative states of mind
13:43 Five tips for asking beautifully simple questions
16:33 Questions that build trust in conversations
18:19 Questions for more complicated conversations, more negative state of mind
21:51 You make the difference in conversations
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