Hey, Friend!

Everyone wants to lead…until it’s time to face the mirror.

In this week’s podcast, I share Ten Signs You’re Not Ready to Lead (Yet).

This is not intended to discourage you, but to invite you to see leadership through God’s lens.

Here’s the truth: Leadership isn’t about titles or power. It’s about who you are when things get messy, when plans fail, and when speaking up would be harder than staying silent.

If you’ve ever wrestled with questions like:

Am I really cut out to lead?

Why does leadership feel so heavy sometimes?

How do I know if God is calling me to step up?

…then this episode is for you.

Remember, seeing yourself in any of these signs doesn’t disqualify you. It just means God is still shaping you.

I pray this blesses you,

Becky

Hey, Friend!

If where you work or go to church values the gifts of women everybody wins.

Creating a valuing culture starts with seeing women the way Jesus did.

But before you tell yourself that you are not in a position of influence so you can’t change the culture of your work or church, listen to this episode. There are small, incremental things that you can do that will have a ripple effect to slowly change the culture.

I hope you give it a listen!

Becky

Hey, Friend!

In the last episode, I talked about The Courage to Ask for What You Need - how brave it is to voice what sustains you, instead of waiting for others to notice.

In today’s episode, we take the next step: once you have learned to ask, how do you Communicate Your Value Without Apology, fear, or defensiveness?

Here’s how. The same courage that helps you ask for what you need will help you speak up for what you bring to the table.

I pray this blesses you!

Becky

Hey, Friend!

In this week’s episode, I talk about the barriers women face in ministry and why it is hard to ask for help.

But by the end of this episode, I hope you can see that your needs are valid because you are valuable, and asking is part of healthy, Spirit-led leadership.

I pray this blesses you,

Becky

Hey, Friend!

Today’s episode is part 2 of our series: Feeling Valued in Ministry: A Journey Toward Wholeness. This one is entitled: Reclaiming Your Worth in Ministry, because sometimes the problem isn’t that we don’t have value - it’s that we have handed it to people who were never meant to hold it,.

Reclaiming your value means calling it back home - to your identity in Christ, not your identity in titles, roles, or responsibilities.

I pray this blesses you,

Becky

Hey, Friend!

Today’s episode is designed to remind you that your work, your heart, and your leadership matter - even when it doesn’t feel recognized. Remember, feeling valued starts with knowing your worth in Christ, and then leading from that truth in every area of your life.

This is the first in a series of episodes entitled: Feeling Valued in Ministry: A Journey Toward Wholeness.

I pray this blesses you,

Becky

Hey, Friend!

Ever feel like you’re doing everything right at work — first in, last out — but somehow, the promotions keep passing you by?

Here’s the truth: hard work alone doesn’t guarantee career growth. Influence does.

That’s what I’m unpacking in this week’s podcast episode: The Secret Sauce to Increasing Your Influence at Work.

I’ll walk you through 10 practical strategies that help you:

You’ll leave with moves you can put into action this week — not years from now.

I pray this blesses you,

Becky

Hey, Friend!

Have you ever had a season where life just felt out of control?

That powerless feeling is heavy. But here’s the truth:

In this week’s podcast episode, “Feel Powerless? Begin by Controlling Your Mindset”, we’re diving into how shifting your mindset can give you freedom and peace even when circumstances don’t change.

We’ll explore:

You may not be able to calm the storm around you, but you can choose how you walk through it.

I pray this blesses you,

Becky

Hey, Friend!

Authenticity in leadership is one of those buzzwords that everyone loves to praise—until they see what it really costs.

We’re told: “Be an authentic leader.”

Because true authenticity isn’t about oversharing, being liked, or saying whatever’s on your mind. It’s about:

Admitting you were wrong—fully.

Holding to your values when it costs you.

Saying the hard truth when it would be easier to stay quiet.

Choosing trust over approval.

That doesn’t always feel comfortable. In fact, it often feels lonely.

But here’s the reward: authenticity builds trust, not just popularity. And trust is what endures.

I unpack all of this in my latest podcast episode: “Why Authentic Leadership Feels Risky.”

Because the next time you’re tempted to polish, perform, or self-protect, you may find that the most powerful thing you can do is simply be real.

I pray this blesses you,

Becky

Hey, Friend!

Sad truth: many women in ministry don’t feel valued. In today’s episode, I address some of the unique challenges that women in ministry face and what a church can do to communicate their value.

But I have a challenge for you:

🌿 This week, choose ONE woman in ministry you know—whether she’s your pastor, staff member, mentor, or friend—and do something intentional to show her she is valued:

✅ Speak a word of encouragement.

When women in ministry feel valued, they lead with confidence, joy, and freedom—and the entire church benefits. 🎧 Tune in to the latest episode of Leadership Becomes Her: “Why Many Women in Ministry Don’t Feel Valued.”

I pray this blesses you,

Becky