For non-native English speakers who've ever felt like the funniest, sharpest version of themselves only exists in their first language, this conversation names something rarely said out loud.

Omer Haciomeroglu spent eleven years building a tech company in English, his second language, and slowly noticed a specific superpower wasn't translating: his humor. The timing, the cultural references, the split-second wit that builds trust with investors and teammates, all of it moved slower in English, and by the time the joke was ready, the room had moved on.

We talk about what he calls the chokehold, the fear-based overthinking that freezes even highly capable founders mid-sentence, the invisible stress most immigrant founders carry alone, and the breakdown at a dinner table that changed how he leads. We also get into why, after eleven years and two major breakdowns, he refuses to call any of it failure, and the forty-four years it took him to fully claim his identity as a sculptor alongside his coaching work.

This conversation is for you if you've ever felt like your personality gets lost somewhere between your first language and your second.

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📌 In this episode:

0:00 Introduction

1:01 Meet Omer Haciomeroglu

1:20 The "stolen superpower": losing his humor in English

4:10 "By the time you communicate, it's already late"

5:54 The engine brake: choking under high-stakes pressure

8:01 Years of stuttering and the inner work that changed it

10:12 Removing yourself from the equation

12:01 The 100 open browser tabs metaphor

12:46 Why simplifying reads as more competent, not less

14:39 Culture, communication styles, and adapting without losing yourself

16:42 The fear underneath every communication block

19:06 The overthinking chokehold

20:14 Intention versus expectation

22:53 The debrief: how real transformation actually happens

25:39 The five-minute grounding call

27:31 Scar tissue, not failure

29:58 The dinner where it all came out

31:49 44 years to say yes to being a sculptor

32:44 The fear of being seen

34:20 It's like breathing, you have to do it

35:34 Leaving the startup for breathing room

36:22 "And, not or": integrating art, tech, and leadership

37:22 Expression versus communication

38:25 Closing thoughts

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📌 About Omer Haciomeroglu:

Omer Haciomeroglu is a founder coach and contemporary artist based in Austin, Texas. Born in Istanbul, he studied in the US and has lived across California, Sweden, and Turkey. He spent eleven years as a tech founder in deep-tech product design, hardware, software, UI/UX, and industrial design, navigating two major breakdowns he now treats as raw material rather than failure. Today he advises deep-tech founders hands-on, from post-MVP through Seed to Series B, on execution and leadership. Alongside his coaching work, he is a self-taught sculptor working primarily in animal bones and epoxy clay, an identity it took him forty-four years to fully claim.

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For non-native English speakers who've ever said the right thing in a meeting and watched someone else get the credit for it, this episode names exactly why that keeps happening, and it isn't your English.Tannia breaks down why most executive presence training was never built with non-native speakers in mind, reverse-engineered instead from what already sounded familiar to the native English speakers writing the rules.

She walks through the real mechanics of the translation lag (a timing problem, not a fluency problem), why directness needs calibration rather than a fixed formula, and why the apology for an accent costs more credibility than the accent itself ever does.This conversation is for you if you've ever felt like you were doing everything the leadership books tell you to do, and it still didn't feel like it fit.

📌 In this episode:

0:00 The meeting where someone else got the credit for your point

1:06 Why the executive presence model was never built for you 2:43 The reframe: wrong scoreboard, not behind

3:14 Three things nobody tells you about executive presence 3:21 The translation lag is a timing problem, not a fluency problem

4:26 Client story: replacing nervous filler with grounded pauses 5:21 Directness isn't rudeness, it's calibration

6:35 Client story: the executive told she was too quiet

7:36 Your accent isn't costing you the room, your apology is

8:53 Client story: the executive who over-explained to compensate

9:55 The three moves to build instead

11:51 Closing thoughts

📌 About Tannia:Tannia Suárez is an Executive and Leadership Communication Coach who helps ambitious non-native English-speaking professionals build executive presence, communicate with clarity, and lead with confidence in English.

Through her coaching practice and the Leadership English Podcast, she works with international executives across industries to close the gap between who they already are and how they're perceived under pressure.Listen to the full conversation and catch every episode of Leadership English: https://www.tanniasuarez.com/podcast

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For non-native English speakers building executive presence, this conversation asks a question most leaders feel but rarely say out loud: what does it actually cost to spend years hiding your accent just to fit into the room?

Silke Meixner was born in Frankfurt, baptized in Kabul, and raised across Afghanistan, Ethiopia, and the Congo before her family settled in Germany. By the time she built her career at IBM and Deloitte, she'd learned to sound as proper as possible, toning down her accent and her international background at every turn.

We talk about the moment that changed her relationship with her own executive presence: a teammate's comment, "you were actually really fun," that revealed the extra-formal persona she'd built for consulting. From there, we get into the three-legged stool she uses to stay grounded in high-stakes meetings, cultural fluency as a leadership skill, why small talk works differently across cultures, how intonation alone can shift English from sounding confident to sounding aggressive, and the framework she calls cautious authenticity, knowing what to share at work and when.

This conversation is for you if you're a non-native English speaker who has ever wondered whether the polished, formal version of yourself is actually helping your credibility, or quietly working against it.

📌 In this episode:

0:00 Introduction

0:59 Meet Silke Meixner

1:44 Growing up across Afghanistan, Ethiopia, Congo, and Germany

2:46 Why her multicultural upbringing became a career asset

4:08 Owning her accent instead of hiding it

6:23 Building an "extra formal" persona in consulting

7:56 "You were actually really fun"

9:01 Why relaxing is received better than staying formal

10:16 How ease unlocks clearer thinking

11:25 Staying grounded as the only non-native speaker, only woman, only virtual attendee

12:03 The three-legged stool framework

14:49 Active listening and reading hidden agendas

16:45 Why small talk is relationship infrastructure

17:35 The ask-and-share formula for small talk

20:31 The "what?" intonation exercise

21:38 Male-dominated rooms and choosing what to conform to24:02 Sharing her passion for benevolent AI

27:35 Cautious authenticity, what's safe to share and when

29:20 Her rule: never ask about kids or a spouse unless mentioned

31:38 What she wishes more people asked her

33:19 "And, not or," integrating AI and ancient wisdom

35:02 Closing thoughts

📌 About Silke Meixner:

Silke Meixner is a Principal at ZS Consulting, where she leads customer-centric marketing and digital transformation work for global organizations. Born in Frankfurt and raised across Afghanistan, Ethiopia, and the Congo before settling in Germany for her high school years, she went on to study and work in the UK before building her career at IBM and Deloitte.

She now lives in Los Angeles, holds dual German and US citizenship, and travels internationally for her work in technology and innovation consulting. Alongside her corporate career, Silke is involved in initiatives promoting benevolent AI and describes herself as "a hippie in corporate clothing," integrating ancient wisdom traditions with her work in digital transformation.

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You have been in that meeting.

A critical decision is being made. You have a real perspective on it. You reach for the words in English and the conversation moves on. The moment closes. And you stay quiet, not because you had nothing to say, but because the cost of saying it imperfectly felt too high.

In this episode, Tannia names something that most high-performing international executives have been carrying privately for years: the translation gap.

The translation gap is not a language problem. It is the distance between who you know yourself to be and who the room gets to experience. And it does not respond to more language study.

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In this episode:

✅ What actually shifts when executives close this gap at the level it actually operates, which is identity, not language.

✅ Why the most capable people in the room go the quietest, and why that is not a coincidence.

✅ The three-layer cost that most executives underestimate: before the meeting, during it, and in the private debrief no one else sees.

✅ Why fluency and leadership presence are two completely different skills.

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If you have ever walked out of a high-stakes meeting knowing you had more to offer than the room got to see, this episode is for you.

You have done the hard work to get into the room. Let's make sure the room knows you are there.

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Victoria Rozanska didn't have connections, referrals, or a native English advantage when she set her sights on Google. What she had was patience, persistence, and a mindset she calls detachment from the outcome.

In this episode, Victoria walks Tannia through her path from Poland to the UK, into Google Dublin, and finally to Google's Bay Area headquarters, where she landed on a Friday and started her new role the following Monday.

Along the way, she discovered something most people never expect. Even her native language became foreign to her in a professional context. Selling to Polish clients from Dublin, she realized her English business vocabulary was stronger than her Polish one.

We talk about the real mechanics of building a life from scratch in a new country, not through networking events, but through curiosity, and the cultural adjustments that catch so many non-native professionals off guard: America's shout-out culture, the rhythm of small talk, and the specific phrases that signal contribution instead of interruption in a meeting.

This conversation is for you if you've ever wondered whether your English is good enough to lead, because Victoria's story makes the case that the real barriers were never linguistic.

In this episode:

0:00 Introduction

0:48 Starting out in Poland, finding the tech path

2:27 Applying to Google and waiting for years

4:17 Detachment from the outcome

5:56 Rejected, then accepted months later

6:13 The moment she realized she didn't know "business Polish"

11:22 Small talk as relational infrastructure, not filler

12:51 Landed in San Francisco on Friday, started Monday

14:38 Why American small talk feels different

15:44 Building community from zero through shared interests

16:43 The silent ecstatic beach dance that led to real friendships

22:54 America's shout-out culture

25:17 Why shout-outs are part of good leadership

28:52 The workplace phrases that change how you're heard

29:31 "To your point," piggybacking, and active listening

35:24 Coaching, identity, and life beyond the job title

39:09 Closing thoughts

About Victoria Rozanska

Victoria (Wiktoria) Rozanska is a Global Partnerships professional at Google, podcast host, certified Ikigai coach, and international career advocate whose journey spans five countries, three continents, and multiple career transitions, all while building her career in a language that isn't her native one. Originally from Szczecin, Poland, Victoria moved abroad alone at 18 to study Business Management in the UK. She gained experience through internships at HP, Accenture, and Google, later securing a full-time role at Google by applying directly through the company's website with no personal connections or referrals.

Since joining Google, her career has taken her from the UK to Dublin, Silicon Valley, and New York City, working across sales, strategy, onboarding, and business growth before moving into Global Partnerships, where she now works with companies across the apps, gaming, podcast, and digital media ecosystem.

Alongside her corporate career, Victoria is the founder of Aligned with Ikigai, a coaching platform focused on purpose, career transitions, and identity in a rapidly changing world. She's also the creator and host of The Human Presence, a podcast featuring conversations with founders, investors, artists, technologists, and multidimensional thinkers exploring what it means to stay human in the age of AI.

📌 Follow Victoria: @wiktoriaer (Instagram) and on LinkedIn (Victoria Rozanska)

📌 Follow Victoria’s new podcast here: https://www.instagram.com/the_humanpresence 

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In this episode, we'll dive into practical strategies for building unshakeable confidence as an executive whose first language isn’t English, and then share five powerful transition phrases that will help you guide any meeting or presentation with ease.

Whether you’re leading board discussions, investor calls, or team stand-ups, these tips will keep you focused on your message and off the hamster wheel of self-doubt.

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In this episode, you're going to learn how to use (and pronounce) 20 essential business English phrasal verbs that will help you communicate more naturally in the workplace.

You'll learn practical definitions, real-world examples, and advanced pronunciation tips to confidently incorporate these expressions into your daily business interactions.

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In this episode, we uncover three actionable strategies to enhance your leadership communication in English. Whether you're a seasoned executive or a budding leader, these simple yet powerful tips will help you become a more articulate, confident, and effective communicator.

🔑 Key Takeaways

Read Out Loud Daily

• Learn why dedicating just one minute a day to reading out loud can dramatically improve your fluency and delivery in English. 

• This practice builds confidence, sharpens pronunciation, and enhances your overall speaking skills.

Dual-Format Reading for Business Books

• Discover how combining audiobooks with physical or digital copies can accelerate your reading speed and comprehension. 

• By listening while reading, you'll reinforce your understanding of complex business concepts and improve your English language skills simultaneously.

Practice Active Listening

• Effective leadership isn't just about speaking well—it's about listening too. 

• We discuss how active listening can transform your interactions, help you gather insights from conversations, and build stronger relationships with your team.

📚 Why These Tips Matter

• Enhances Fluency: Regular reading out loud sharpens pronunciation and smoothens communication, a critical skill for leaders.

• Accelerated Learning: Dual-format reading immerses you in the language, aiding faster learning and better retention of business vocabulary.

• Stronger Connections: Active listening fosters trust and collaboration, essential for any successful leader.

✨ Who Should Listen

• Business leaders looking to improve their English communication

• Professionals seeking to advance their leadership skills

• Anyone interested in effective communication strategies in a corporate setting

🔍 Topics

Leadership communication, improve English fluency, active listening, business books, reading strategies, leadership development, speaking skills, English learning tips, corporate communication

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Are you a non-native English speaker who sometimes feels insecure about your communication skills? You’re not alone, and this episode is here to help.

In this guided meditation, you’ll learn to release self-doubt, silence your inner critic, and reconnect with your strengths as an English communicator.

Whether you’re preparing for a meeting, presentation, or everyday conversation, this meditation will help you cultivate calm, focus, and the confidence you need to express yourself clearly and effectively.

Take a few moments for yourself, breathe deeply, and let this episode remind you that you are capable, resilient, and ready to communicate with confidence.

Tune in now and start your journey to a more confident and empowered version of yourself.

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