People are watching you through a magnifying glass.
As a leader, everything you do is amplified. A casual comment about "opening an office in LA" can turn into a company-wide rumor within an hour. Being five minutes late to a meeting can undermine your entire speech about "integrity."
It takes months to earn respect, but only a few bad habits to lose it.
In this episode, we flip the script. Instead of telling you how to be a great leader, I am going to teach you the 5 Fastest Ways to Lose Respect. By identifying these traps, you can audit your own behavior and stop the leaks in your leadership.
In this episode, you will learn:
-The Hypocrisy Trap: Why asking your team to do things you don't model (like punctuality) makes them roll their eyes at your values .
-The "Secondary Priority" Signal: Why bumping a 1:1 meeting or delaying a salary conversation tells your employee "You don't matter to me" .
-The Authority Paradox: Why acting like you "know it all" (or conversely, knowing nothing) kills team confidence .
-The "Firefighter" Mistake: Why getting stuck in the weeds and failing to be strategic makes your team see you as just another peer with a fancy title.
-The Clarity Gap: How vague expectations force even your best employees to fail because they don't know the parameters of success .
💪 The Challenge for This Week: Audit yourself against the "Anti-Playbook."
-Reflect: Look at the 5 ways to lose respect. Which one are you currently guilty of?
-The Fix:
-Are you canceling meetings? Stop moving them.
-Are you inconsistent? Stick to one message.
-Are you unclear? Sit down and define the expectations.
Resources
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