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  • Ep 41 | Weariness — When Spiritual and Physical Depletion Catch Up With You
    Show Notes

    Are you worn out from trying to do it all on your own? In this episode of Leading from Wholeness, I share an honest part of my story: I had a vision for my life, and I kept asking God to bless my plans instead of partnering with Him on His. Some of that was pride. Some of it was simply not knowing that God had a plan for me at all. I only knew what I wanted, and I pushed until my body made me stop. But what the enemy meant for evil, God turned for good.

    If you're running on empty spiritually and physically, this conversation is for you. We'll talk about where weariness comes from and what it looks like to rest on purpose. We'll also cover how to pursue the peace God promises.

    And if you need to hear this today: God is good, His plans for you are good, and He loves you. 

     

    Key Takeaways: 4 Ways to Overcome Weariness

    1. Pray and ask God what is causing your weariness.
    2. Before you fix it, find it. Invite God to show you the root of your exhaustion, whether it's overcommitment, striving, fear, or trying to carry what was never yours.
    3. Build in a rhythm of rest.
    4. Rest doesn't just happen. It requires intentionality, and it looks different for each of us.
      • What does rest look like for you?
      • Where are you intentional about pouring into yourself?
        1. Trust that God will take care of you. (Exodus 16:29–30)
        2. When God gave Israel manna in the wilderness, He gave a double portion on the sixth day so they could rest on the Sabbath. Rest was an act of trust. God calls us to work (Genesis 2:15; 3:19). But our job is not our provider. God is.
          • Don't elevate a job or a salary above God. It can quietly become an idol that costs you your family, your health, and your dreams.
          • Your identity is rooted in Christ, not in your title or the company you work for.
            1. Pursue peace by seeking Him first. (Matthew 6:33; 1 Peter 3:11)
            2. No matter how busy life gets, keep your priorities straight. Make time for God.
              • Don't get lost in the things, the relationships, or even the promises God has given you: your children, your spouse, your job, your retirement.
              • Shift your focus back to Him. Seek Him first, and the rest will follow.
                1. Focus on gratitude: Celebrate the little things
                2. Scriptures Referenced
                  • Galatians 6:9 — "And let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up." (ESV)
                  • Exodus 16:29–30 — God provides a double portion so His people can rest on the Sabbath
                  • Matthew 6:33 — "But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you." (ESV)
                  • 1 Peter 3:11 — Turn from evil, do good, and seek peace and pursue it
                  • Reflection Questions
                    1. What might God be revealing as the true source of your weariness?
                    2. Are you asking God to bless your plans, or seeking to partner with Him on His?
                    3. What would a realistic rhythm of rest look like in your current season?
                    4. Has your job, title, or paycheck become a source of identity or security that belongs to God alone?
                    5. What is one thing you can shift this week to seek Him first?
                    6. Connect With Us

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                      26 min
                    7. Ep 40 | Ready for the Fight: How to Prepare for Spiritual Battles Before They Come
                      Show Notes

                      The battle is coming. It could be a hard diagnosis, a betrayal, a business setback, or a season when everything seems to fall apart at once. The question isn't if the fight will come. It's whether you'll be ready when it does.

                      In this episode, we walk through Ephesians 6:10–18 and the armor of God. Audrey shows why you should prepare for battle before it arrives. You don't train for the fight in the middle of the fight. Get ready now through daily prayer and time in God's Word, so when the hard day comes, you can stand your ground.

                      For women who lead in business, ministry, and at home, this episode is a call to stop waiting for a crisis and prioritize your spiritual life. Your strength for tomorrow's battle is built in today's quiet time.

                      In This Episode, You'll Learn
                      • Why spiritual preparation has to happen before the battle, not during it
                      • What each piece of the armor of God means for your life and leadership
                      • How prayer and Bible reading work together as your daily training
                      • Why Paul ends the armor passage with a call to pray at all times
                      • How to tell whether you're spiritually ready for the fight ahead
                      • Key Scripture: Ephesians 6:10–18

                        Paul calls believers to be strong in the Lord and in His mighty power, and to put on the full armor of God so they can stand firm when the day of evil comes.

                        The Armor of God:

                        Armor
                        What It Means for You
                        Belt of Truth
                        Anchor yourself in what God says, not the lies of fear, shame, or comparison.
                        Breastplate of Righteousness
                        Guard your heart by living with integrity.
                        Feet Fitted with the Gospel of Peace
                        Stand steady and ready to move, grounded in God's peace.
                        Shield of Faith
                        Block the fiery arrows of doubt, discouragement, and attack.
                        Helmet of Salvation
                        Protect your mind with the security of who you are in Christ.
                        Sword of the Spirit
                        Fight back with the Word of God, your only offensive weapon.
                        Prayer (v. 18)
                        Stay alert and pray on every occasion. 
                        Key Takeaways

                        1. The battle will come. Scripture doesn't say if the day of evil comes. It says when. Hard seasons are part of life and leadership, and being a believer doesn't exempt you.

                        2. Preparation happens before the fight. A soldier doesn't learn to use her weapons on the battlefield. If you wait for the crisis to start praying and reading your Bible, you'll be scrambling for armor you never put on.

                        3. The Word is your weapon. The sword of the Spirit is the only offensive piece of armor. You can't fight back with Scripture you don't know. Reading your Bible daily is how you sharpen your sword.

                        4. Prayer holds it all together. Paul ends the passage with prayer: in the Spirit, on every occasion, staying alert. Praying without ceasing isn't extra. It's how you stay battle-ready.

                        5. Stand. The goal isn't to avoid the fight. It's to still be standing when it's over.

                        Reflection Questions
                        1. If a battle hit your life tomorrow, how ready would you be, spiritually, emotionally, and mentally?
                        2. Which piece of the armor of God have you been leaving off?
                        3. What does your daily prayer and Bible reading look like right now? Is it enough to sustain you in a hard season?
                        4. What Scripture could you use as your sword right now? If none comes to mind, where can you start?
                        5. Who in your life is praying for you, and who are you praying for?
                        6. This Week's Challenge: Suit Up Daily

                          For the next seven days, put on your armor before you pick up your phone:

                          • Pray first. Spend at least ten minutes in prayer before starting your day.
                          • Read the Word. Read Ephesians 6:10–18 this week.
                          • Memorize one verse. Choose one Scripture as your sword for the week and commit it to memory.
                          • Stay alert. When stress or attack shows up during the day, pause and pray right then.
                          • Connect with Audrey
                            • Podcast: Leading from Wholeness
                            • Instagram: @AudreyTShelby
                            • Website: praywithoutceasingministries.com
                            • If this episode encouraged you, subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a woman who needs to get ready for her fight.

                              23 min
                            • Ep 39 | Leaders and Mental Health: Why Surrender, Not Striving, Is the Path to Wholeness
                              Show Notes

                              42.5 million U.S. adults lived with an anxiety disorder in 2025 — and leaders are far from exempt. In this episode of Leading from Wholeness, we explore what it really means to lead from a place of health rather than hustle. Jesus died so we could enjoy the abundant life He promised in John 10:10. So the question is: are you enjoying yours?

                              Drawing from Ecclesiastes 5:19-20 and Philippians 2:12-13, this episode unpacks why healing and wholeness are a process, not a one-time event — and offers four practical, faith-rooted steps every leader can start applying today.

                              What You'll Learn in This Episode
                              1. Surrender — Why naming your real feelings to God ("this isn't fair," "I don't deserve this") is the first honest step toward healing.
                              2. Acceptance vs. Complacency — The critical difference between being content with your lot in life and becoming complacent about growth.
                              3. Seeking Support — Why counseling, coaching, and community aren't a sign of weakness but a strategy for sustainable leadership.
                              4. Renewing Your Mind — How to identify and replace the lies you've believed (not good enough, behind schedule, not doing enough) with the truth of God's Word.
                              5. Key Scriptures Referenced
                                • John 10:10 — Jesus came to give life, and life abundantly
                                • Ecclesiastes 5:19-20 (NLT) — Enjoying your work and your lot in life as a gift from God
                                • Philippians 2:12-13 (AMP) — Working out your salvation with awe-inspired fear and trembling
                                • Romans 12:2 (NLT) — Be transformed by the renewing of your mind
                                • Psalm 23:1 (AMP) — The Lord is my Shepherd who supplies every need
                                • Philippians 4:19 (KJV) — God shall supply all your need
                                • Proverbs 16:33 — The lot is cast, but its outcome is from the Lord
                                • "When we can truly be content with where we are in life, we can begin to be happy."

                                  Reflection Questions
                                  • What do you need to release to God today?
                                  • Where in your life have you confused contentment with complacency?
                                  • What lie have you believed about yourself that God's Word contradicts?
                                  • Who is in your support system — and when did you last actually use it?
                                  • Resources & Further Reading
                                    • Forbes: "Mental Health Crisis: Why Leaders Must Listen First Before Assuming" — Julie Kratz (2026)
                                    • Connect With Leading from Wholeness

                                      Pray Without Ceasing Ministries |  Whole-person wellness for women — Spiritual, Emotional, Mental, Physical, and Financial Health

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                                      34 min
                                    • Ep 38 | Leaving Margin for Error: Break the Busyness Cycle
                                      Show Notes 

                                      We tell ourselves we've dealt with something — that the therapy session, the training, the self-help book finally closed the loop. Then it shows up again, wearing a different outfit. In this episode, I get honest about a moment when I was running late (again) and realized the real issue wasn't my calendar — it was a pattern of tying my worth to performance and running from what that pressure actually costs me. If you've ever kept yourself so busy there's no margin left for life, this one's for you.

                                      Here's what I uncovered underneath it: I've tied performance to perfection, and perfection to acceptance. And somewhere along the way, "running" became my normal — staying so busy that there's no margin left for actual life.

                                      So come here, my fellow workaholic. We're starting a support group. First question: what are you running from?

                                      Sometimes we think we've dealt with an issue, and then it resurfaces — in a new job, a new relationship, a new season — wearing a slightly different face. Sound familiar? You leave one company because of a conflict, only to find the same conflict waiting for you at the next one.

                                      At some point, wisdom stops looking outward for the cause and starts looking within.

                                      There's no shortage of self-help resources promising to fix our habits — time management systems, organizational hacks, certifications, trainings. And those tools have real value. But if we never shift the mindset underneath the behavior, we won't see lasting change. We'll just get better at managing the symptom.

                                      Shifting a mindset requires awareness and introspection — and Scripture already named this tension long before modern psychology gave it a vocabulary.

                                      "For I do not understand my own actions [I am baffled and bewildered by them]. I do not practice what I want to do, but I am doing the very thing I hate [and yielding to my human nature, my worldliness—my sinful capacity]."

                                      — Romans 7:15 (AMP)
                                      Read it here

                                      Paul is describing exactly this experience: doing the thing you don't want to do, even after you know better. Awareness alone doesn't change us — but it's the necessary first step toward the introspection that does.

                                      Your Action Steps
                                      1. Start by identifying the real issue.
                                      2. For me, the busyness was tied to performance and excellence — but from a place of needing to be perfect and acceptable, not from a healthy drive.
                                      3. Ask yourself why you're running.
                                      4. What's the underlying issue beneath the behavior?
                                        • What would it look like if I stopped running?
                                        • What void is this filling? What do I really need that I'm not getting? (For many of us — it's validation.)
                                          1. Do the analysis.
                                          2. If you notice you keep repeating a behavior you genuinely don't want anymore, start here: really examine what is getting in the way of the change you want.
                                            • Is it avoidance?
                                            • Are your decisions being run by fear?
                                            •      4. Pray ask God to heal you in this area

                                              Reflection Questions
                                              • What's an issue you thought you'd already resolved that's shown up again in a new season of your life?
                                              • If you stopped "running" today, what would you have to sit with?
                                              • What are you really chasing when you chase perfection — and what would it feel like to have it without earning it?
                                              • "At some point, wisdom starts to look within."

                                                Connect With Us

                                                We'd love to hear from you!

                                                 

                                                Pray Without Ceasing Ministries |  Whole-person wellness for women — Spiritual, Emotional, Mental, Physical, and Financial Health

                                                Seeking individual coaching? Email me at: [email protected]


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                                                20 min
                                              • Ep 37 | Being a “Strong Independent Woman” Might Be Ruining Your Prayer Life
                                                Show Notes

                                                What happens when the very trait people praise you for — your independence, your resourcefulness, your ability to "figure it out" — is quietly keeping you from a deeper relationship with God? In this episode, Audrey gets honest about a lifelong "I'll figure it out" mindset, and the moment she realized it wasn't strength — it was self-sufficiency standing in for faith. If you've ever prayed about something for years while also trying to fix it yourself, this episode is for you.

                                                What You'll Learn
                                                • Why self-reliance can quietly crowd God out of situations you're technically "praying about"
                                                • The difference between healthy responsibility and a self-sufficiency that operates without God
                                                • Why hitting your human "ceiling" isn't failure — it's an invitation
                                                • What it really means to "tarry" (and why the mothers of the church knew something we've forgotten)
                                                • Three practical steps to shift from performing your way through life to trusting God with it.
                                                • Key Scriptures Referenced
                                                  • Matthew 6:33 (NKJV) — seek first the kingdom of God
                                                  • Matthew 6:25–34 — Jesus's teaching on worry
                                                  • Proverbs 1:7 — the fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge
                                                  • Proverbs 16:3 — commit your works to the Lord
                                                  • Proverbs 3:5 — trust in the Lord, lean not on your own understanding
                                                  • Numbers 23:19 — God is not a man that He should lie
                                                  • Jeremiah 29:11-14 — God's plans for you are for good, not evil
                                                  • The 3 Steps 
                                                    1. Pray First — Go to God first. Ask Him what you should do. Bring your worries, your cares, and your concerns to Him first before you call anyone else.
                                                    2. Surrender — Surrender your way and your wants before you strategize. Let go of your plans and trust God's plans over your own (Jeremiah 29:11).
                                                    3. Learn to Tarry — Learn to wait patiently on the Lord. Longer than planned doesn't mean forgotten. Fix your eyes on who God is while you wait.
                                                    4. "It was totally reliant on me. And when you rely on yourself to make things happen... you eventually get to the point when you hit a ceiling."

                                                      Reflect this Week

                                                      Where in your life have you been praying and quietly running the backup plan at the same time? What would it look like to actually tarry instead?

                                                       

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                                                      39 min
                                                    5. Ep 36 | Stop Making Excuses: What Moses Teaches Us About Overcoming Self-Doubt and Fear
                                                      Show Notes

                                                      We've all been there — God puts a calling in front of us, and instead of stepping into it, we start building a case for why we can't. In this episode, we look at Moses in Exodus 3:11–4:11 and the five excuses he gave God during his commissioning. Each excuse sounds reasonable. Each one gets answered. And each answer points to the same truth: it was never about Moses's qualifications — it was about God's presence with him.

                                                      If you've been stuck behind an excuse — "I'm not enough," "I don't know enough," "no one will listen to me," "I'm not equipped," "please send someone else" — this episode is for you.

                                                      Scripture Focus

                                                      Exodus 3:11–15; Exodus 4:1–11; Acts 17:24

                                                      The 5 Excuses We Use to Avoid Our Calling
                                                      1. "I'm not the one for this." (Incorrect theology / self-focus) Moses hid behind the belief that he had to be the deliverer. God's answer: I don't want to do this through Me alone — I want to do it through you. The excuse: it's not about carrying the weight alone.
                                                      2. "I don't know enough." (Insufficient knowledge) Moses questioned what he'd even say. God's response reframes the issue: it's not what you know, it's who you know.
                                                      3. "I'm not qualified enough." (Inferior self-concept) Moses doubted his own credibility. God's countered: it's not about who you are — it's about who God is.
                                                      4. "I don't have the ability." (Inadequate skill — Moses's speech) Moses pointed to his weakness. God's answer: it's not your ability that counts, but His.
                                                      5. "Send someone else." (Incomplete trust) The final excuse — outright avoidance. God's response: this isn't a request.
                                                      6. Key Takeaways for Listeners
                                                        • Excuses often sound like humility, but they can actually be a form of self-protection or distrust.
                                                        • God doesn't remove the calling when we make excuses — He answers each one.
                                                        • Every excuse we raise has already been addressed by who God is, not by who we are.
                                                        • We're not disqualified by inadequacy — we're actually positioned for God to show up through the inadequacy.
                                                        • Reflection Questions
                                                          1. Which of Moses's five excuses do you find yourself using most often?
                                                          2. What is one thing you've been putting off because you've decided you're "not the right person" for it?
                                                          3. If God answered your excuse the way He answered Moses's, what would He say back to you?
                                                          4. Call to Action

                                                            Stop waiting until you feel ready, qualified, or equipped. Take one step today toward the thing you've been making excuses about — and trust that the ability was never supposed to be yours alone to carry.

                                                            Leading from Wholeness is a production of Pray Without Ceasing Ministries (PWCM), helping women lead and live from a place of Spiritual, Emotional, Mental, Physical, and Financial wholeness.

                                                            Subscribe & Share: If this episode spoke to you, share it with a friend who needs to hear it — and leave a review to help more women find this show.

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                                                            21 min
                                                          5. (BONUS EPISODE) Ep 35 | The Thief You Don't See — The Thievery of Fear
                                                            Show Notes

                                                            Fear doesn't always announce itself — sometimes it disguises itself as "just who I am." In this episode, we unpack what happens when ordinary, God-given fear (the kind that protects us) turns into an illusion that rules our decisions instead of our discernment. Drawing on Scripture, neuroscience, and a very real encounter with a bear at a wedding, we explore how fear quietly steals three things from us: our time, our peace, and our purpose — and what it looks like to take our thoughts captive and walk in obedience anyway. Listen to the message Audrey shared at the 2026 Pray Without Ceasing Conference.

                                                            What You'll Learn
                                                            • The difference between real fear (a normal, protective response) and the illusion of fear that overrides truth with feeling
                                                            • How the thought → feeling → behavior cycle shapes our automatic beliefs about ourselves
                                                            • Why an estimated 80% of our automatic thoughts aren't true — and why we tend to repeat the same thoughts day after day
                                                            • The three things fear steals: time, peace, and purpose
                                                            • What it means to "take every thought captive" (2 Corinthians 10:4–5) and pull down mental strongholds
                                                            • Five disguises fear wears: catastrophizing, overgeneralizing, hypervigilance disguised as caution, shrinking language, and control-seeking
                                                            • A practical exercise for identifying and replacing a negative thought pattern with Scripture
                                                            • Key Scriptures Referenced
                                                              • John 10:10
                                                              • John 8:44
                                                              • Proverbs 23:7
                                                              • Ephesians 4:23
                                                              • Ephesians 2:10
                                                              • Psalm 139:16
                                                              • Jeremiah 29:11
                                                              • Joshua 1
                                                              • 2 Timothy 1:7
                                                              • Isaiah 9:6
                                                              • 2 Corinthians 10:4–5
                                                              • Genesis 3
                                                              • Matthew 28:19
                                                              • John 15:16
                                                              • Memorable Quotes
                                                                • "If you want to change your life, change your thoughts."
                                                                • "Courage isn't the absence of fear — it's the awareness that something else is more important."
                                                                • "Your story is still being written, and you have to make the decision to star in the show."
                                                                • "Don't let what you see talk you out of what you've heard."
                                                                • Reflection & Action Steps
                                                                  1. Pray. Ask God to help you renew your mind. 
                                                                  2. Take inventory. Write down one or two negative thoughts you find yourself repeating.
                                                                  3. Search for the opposite truth. Look up a Scripture that directly counters that lie.
                                                                  4. Carry it with you. Keep the verse somewhere visible — your mirror, your car, your wallet — and speak it out loud when the old thought resurfaces.
                                                                  5. Take the thought captive. Read 2 Corinthians 10:4–5 and ask God to help you identify the stronghold behind the lie.
                                                                  6. Move anyway. You don't need the full blueprint — you need the next step and the certainty that God goes with you.
                                                                  7. Join Us for 2027

                                                                    Missed this year's conference or want to make sure you're in the room next time? Sign up for updates on the 2027 Pray Without Ceasing Conference: 2027 Conference Interest Form

                                                                    Pray Without Ceasing Ministries | Live Life on Purpose 2026 | Whole-person wellness for women — Spiritual, Emotional, Mental, Physical, and Financial Health

                                                                    Seeking individual coaching? Email me at: [email protected]

                                                                    Connect With Us

                                                                    Website: www.praywithoutceasingministries.com 

                                                                    Instagram: @AudreyTShelby

                                                                    32 min
                                                                  8. Ep 34 | Live Life on Purpose: Inside the 2026 Pray Without Ceasing Prayer Conference
                                                                    Show Notes

                                                                    Event Overview

                                                                    On August 15, 2026, women gathered at the DoubleTree Hotel in Buena Park, CA for the 2026 Pray Without Ceasing Annual Conference: "Live Life on Purpose," anchored in John 10:10. This annual Christian women's wellness conference brings women together across PWCM's five pillars of whole-person health — Spiritual, Emotional, Mental, Physical, and Financial — for a day of teaching, worship, and community.

                                                                    If you're looking for a faith-based women's conference in Southern California focused on real transformation — not just inspiration — this recap will give you a look inside the day, plus practical takeaways you can apply right now.

                                                                    Keynote Message: "The Thief You Don't See" — The Thievery of Fear

                                                                    The centerpiece of the day was a keynote message on how fear — left unchecked — moves from a normal, protective response into an illusion that overrides truth with feeling. The message unpacked three things fear quietly steals: our time, our peace, and our purpose.

                                                                    Key Takeaways on Overcoming Fear
                                                                    • The difference between real fear (a normal, God-given protective response) and the illusion of fear that overrides truth with feeling
                                                                    • How the thought → feeling → behavior cycle shapes our automatic beliefs about ourselves
                                                                    • Why an estimated 80% of our automatic thoughts aren't true — and why we tend to repeat the same thoughts day after day
                                                                    • The three things fear steals: time, peace, and purpose
                                                                    • What it means to "take every thought captive" (2 Corinthians 10:4–5) and pull down mental strongholds
                                                                    • Five disguises fear wears: catastrophizing, overgeneralizing, hypervigilance disguised as caution, shrinking language, and control-seeking
                                                                    • Scriptures on Fear and Renewing Your Mind

                                                                      John 10:10 · John 8:44 · Proverbs 23:7 · Ephesians 4:23 · Ephesians 2:10 · Psalm 139:16 · Jeremiah 29:11 · Joshua 1 · 2 Timothy 1:7 · Isaiah 9:6 · 2 Corinthians 10:4–5 · Genesis 3 · Matthew 28:19 · John 15:16

                                                                       

                                                                      Join Us for 2027

                                                                      Missed this year's conference or want to make sure you're in the room next time? Sign up for updates on the 2027 Pray Without Ceasing Conference: 2027 Conference Interest Form

                                                                      Pray Without Ceasing Ministries | Live Life on Purpose 2026 | Whole-person wellness for women — Spiritual, Emotional, Mental, Physical, and Financial Health

                                                                       

                                                                      Seeking individual coaching? Email me at: [email protected]

                                                                      Connect With Us

                                                                      Website: www.praywithoutceasingministries.com 

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                                                                      16 min
                                                                    • Ep 33 | Honor Your Capacity Before You Hit a Wall w/Dr. Breauna Wall - Part 2
                                                                      Show Notes

                                                                      Dr. Breauna Wall joins Leading from Wholeness to unpack how to set boundaries and honor your capacity at work — before burnout forces the issue.

                                                                      In this episode, Audrey sits down with Dr. Breauna Wall to unpack a topic that hits close to home for many women in leadership: professional boundaries. Moving beyond the usual relationship-focused boundary talk, this conversation digs into what it actually looks like to protect your time, energy, and role at work and at home — without the guilt, over-explaining, or fear of being labeled "difficult." Drawing from the examples of Jesus, Dr. Wall and Audrey explore how guarding your focus is not just a professional strategy, but a spiritual discipline.

                                                                      Whether you're a leader setting expectations for others, or someone learning to hold the line for the first time, this episode offers a scripture-rooted, practical framework for reclaiming your limits at work.

                                                                      What You'll Learn in This Episode
                                                                      • The difference between a healthy professional boundary and simply being "difficult"
                                                                      • What Nehemiah's posture of "I am doing a great work, so I cannot come down" (Nehemiah 6:3) teaches leaders about protecting priorities
                                                                      • How Jesus modeled withdrawal from the crowds (Luke 5:16) — and what that looks like without guilt in a modern workplace
                                                                      • Why Proverbs 4:23 ("guard your heart") applies directly to guarding your time and energy at work
                                                                      • How boundaries function differently depending on whether you're the one setting expectations or the one receiving them
                                                                      • The connection between over-functioning and burnout
                                                                      • Why anchoring identity in God (Galatians 1:10) — not performance or approval — makes boundary-setting easier
                                                                      • A reframe for women who feel that saying no makes them "less committed" or "less faithful"
                                                                      • The first small step to take this week if your boundaries have completely eroded
                                                                      • Scripture Referenced
                                                                        • Luke 5:16 — Jesus withdrew to lonely places to pray.
                                                                        • Proverbs 4:23 — "Guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it."
                                                                        • Galatians 1:10 — "If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ."
                                                                        • Jeremiah 29:11 — For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.
                                                                        • "I can't take that on right now — my plate's full through [timeframe]. I don't want to say yes and give it less than it deserves."

                                                                          On the myth of the "boundaryless" leader: The conversation opens by reframing boundaries as a professional — not just relational — necessity, and asks listeners to reflect on a time a missing boundary cost them.

                                                                          On biblical models of protecting focus: Jesus' regular withdrawal from ministry demands, are held up as templates for guarding priorities without guilt.

                                                                          On practical scripts: Listeners get an actual, usable script for declining extra work, plus guidance on how to reset a boundary that's already been broken repeatedly by a team or organization.

                                                                          On identity over approval: The episode closes on the theological anchor for all of this: boundary-setting gets easier when identity is rooted in God rather than performance, and offers a direct reframe for women who equate "no" with unfaithfulness.

                                                                          Coming Up Next

                                                                          Part 2 with Dr. Wall — a new episode (33) exploring what it takes to build sustainable, thriving and resilent lives. Stay tuned as we continue this conversation.

                                                                          Connect With Our Guest

                                                                          Dr. Breauna C. Wall is a faith-driven educator, author, speaker, and coach who believes that purpose is not something you find — it is something you walk in every single day. Grounded in her relationship with God, she has built a career around equipping leaders, educators, and scholars to show up fully in the spaces they have been called to occupy. She is the author of Leading Special Education: How to Support, Retain, and Empower Teachers for Success, published by Solution Tree, and the creator of The Power of Being Heard — a self-paced digital course on communication, confidence, and purpose. Dr. Wall holds an EdD from Johns Hopkins University, where she also serves as a faculty member in their doctoral program. When she is not on a stage or in a coaching session, she is a proud mom living out her faith one intentional day at a time.

                                                                          Website: www.breaunawall.com  
                                                                           
                                                                          Grab a copy of her new book: Leading Special Education: How to Support, Retain, and Empower Teachers for Success.
                                                                           
                                                                          Linkedlin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/breauna-c-wall-edd?utm_source=share_via&utm_content=profile&utm_medium=member_ios
                                                                          Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/breaunawall?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr
                                                                           
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                                                                          35 min
                                                                        • Ep 32 | How to Set Boundaries and Honor Your Capacity Before You Hit a Wall (with Dr. Breauna Wall) - Part 1
                                                                          Show Notes

                                                                          Dr. Breauna Wall joins Leading from Wholeness to unpack how to set boundaries and honor your capacity at work — before burnout forces the issue.

                                                                          In this episode, Audrey sits down with Dr. Breauna Wall to unpack a topic that hits close to home for many women in leadership: professional boundaries. Moving beyond the usual relationship-focused boundary talk, this conversation digs into what it actually looks like to protect your time, energy, and role at work and at home — without the guilt, over-explaining, or fear of being labeled "difficult." Drawing from the examples of Jesus, Dr. Wall and Audrey explore how guarding your focus is not just a professional strategy, but a spiritual discipline.

                                                                          Whether you're a leader setting expectations for others, or someone learning to hold the line for the first time, this episode offers a scripture-rooted, practical framework for reclaiming your limits at work.

                                                                          What You'll Learn in This Episode
                                                                          • The difference between a healthy professional boundary and simply being "difficult"
                                                                          • What Nehemiah's posture of "I am doing a great work, so I cannot come down" (Nehemiah 6:3) teaches leaders about protecting priorities
                                                                          • How Jesus modeled withdrawal from the crowds (Luke 5:16) — and what that looks like without guilt in a modern workplace
                                                                          • Why Proverbs 4:23 ("guard your heart") applies directly to guarding your time and energy at work
                                                                          • How boundaries function differently depending on whether you're the one setting expectations or the one receiving them
                                                                          • The connection between over-functioning and burnout
                                                                          • Why anchoring identity in God (Galatians 1:10) — not performance or approval — makes boundary-setting easier
                                                                          • A reframe for women who feel that saying no makes them "less committed" or "less faithful"
                                                                          • The first small step to take this week if your boundaries have completely eroded
                                                                          • Scripture Referenced
                                                                            • Luke 5:16 — Jesus withdrew to lonely places to pray.
                                                                            • Proverbs 4:23 — "Guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it."
                                                                            • Galatians 1:10 — "If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ."
                                                                            • Jeremiah 29:11 — For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.
                                                                            • "I can't take that on right now — my plate's full through [timeframe]. I don't want to say yes and give it less than it deserves."

                                                                              On the myth of the "boundaryless" leader: The conversation opens by reframing boundaries as a professional — not just relational — necessity, and asks listeners to reflect on a time a missing boundary cost them.

                                                                              On biblical models of protecting focus: Jesus' regular withdrawal from ministry demands, are held up as templates for guarding priorities without guilt.

                                                                              On practical scripts: Listeners get an actual, usable script for declining extra work, plus guidance on how to reset a boundary that's already been broken repeatedly by a team or organization.

                                                                              On identity over approval: The episode closes on the theological anchor for all of this: boundary-setting gets easier when identity is rooted in God rather than performance, and offers a direct reframe for women who equate "no" with unfaithfulness.

                                                                              Coming Up Next

                                                                              Part 2 with Dr. Wall — a new episode (33) exploring what it takes to build sustainable, thriving and resilent lives. Stay tuned as we continue this conversation.

                                                                              Connect With Our Guest

                                                                              Dr. Breauna C. Wall is a faith-driven educator, author, speaker, and coach who believes that purpose is not something you find — it is something you walk in every single day. Grounded in her relationship with God, she has built a career around equipping leaders, educators, and scholars to show up fully in the spaces they have been called to occupy. She is the author of Leading Special Education: How to Support, Retain, and Empower Teachers for Success, published by Solution Tree, and the creator of The Power of Being Heard — a self-paced digital course on communication, confidence, and purpose. Dr. Wall holds an EdD from Johns Hopkins University, where she also serves as a faculty member in their doctoral program. When she is not on a stage or in a coaching session, she is a proud mom living out her faith one intentional day at a time.

                                                                              Website: www.breaunawall.com  
                                                                               
                                                                              Grab a copy of her new book: Leading Special Education: How to Support, Retain, and Empower Teachers for Success.
                                                                               
                                                                              Linkedlin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/breauna-c-wall-edd?utm_source=share_via&utm_content=profile&utm_medium=member_ios
                                                                              Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/breaunawall?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr
                                                                               
                                                                              Youtube: https://youtube.com/@solutionswithbre?si=LI10wlSwtQPxZ7b6
                                                                              Connect With Us

                                                                              Website: www.praywithoutceasingministries.com 

                                                                              Instagram: @AudreyTShelby

                                                                              Subscribe to Leading from Wholeness for more conversations on leading and living from a place of spiritual, emotional, mental, physical, and financial wholeness.

                                                                              29 min

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