Leading You

What if the voice holding you back wasn’t you—but “Bob”?

In this episode of Leading You, I’m joined by Gary Waldon—author, speaker, and self-described “serial reinventor.” With 44 job titles under his belt, Gary knows a thing or two about embracing change, even when fear is loud and clarity is lacking.

We talk about the messy, brave, and ultimately freeing process of personal reinvention. Gary introduces his CREATE method—a practical, human-centred framework to help you move forward, even when you don’t have all the answers.

This is an honest, grounded conversation about what it takes to let go of what’s no longer working, reframe failure, and take aligned action.

In this episode, we explore:

• How to recognise when it’s time to reinvent yourself
• Why naming your inner critic (“Bob”) helps you take your power back
• The CREATE method for personal reinvention
• How to move forward even when fear is in the room
• Why comparison is the fastest way to feel stuck
• How AI mirrors our own fears around identity, growth, and purpose

If you’ve been feeling restless, stuck, or like you’re meant for something more—this is your sign to pause, listen, and choose differently.

🎧 Listen now and ask yourself:
What’s one small step I can take today toward the version of me I haven’t met yet?

LINKS

Get the Clarity Compass Mini Program

Connect with Julie:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/julie-hyde/
Instagram: @juliehydeleads
Website: https://juliehyde.com.au

Connect with Gary:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gary-waldon-aa000819/
Website: https://www.garywaldon.com/
Book: https://www.garywaldon.com/mastering-the-art-of-reinvention

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This solo episode of Leading You is for anyone sitting in a role that technically works—but no longer feels right.

If you’ve ever felt quietly disconnected, like you’ve outgrown your role but feel guilty for even thinking it... this episode will hit home.

You're not ungrateful. You're evolving.
And recognising that? That’s not arrogance. That’s power.

In this raw and relatable episode, Julie explores:

• Why saying “I’ve outgrown this” isn’t something to feel bad about
• The hidden fears that keep capable leaders stuck
• What misalignment really feels like—and why it matters
• How self-awareness is your power source
• One question to help you realign with the leader you are now
• Why staying stuck out of obligation leads to resentment and burnout
• How to move forward with purpose and clarity

If your work no longer lights you up, if you're delivering but feel disconnected, this is your invitation to stop shrinking and start choosing.

🎧 Listen now and reflect on this question:
Where in your life or career are you shrinking to fit something you’ve outgrown? And what would shift if you stopped apologising for it and started choosing from it?

Timestamps

00:00 – Introduction
01:45 – The difference between awareness and arrogance
04:10 – Signs you’ve outgrown your role
08:30 – What keeps smart people stuck
11:55 – Reflection prompt: what no longer fits?
14:40 – Misalignment and its cost
18:10 – Purposeful action over guilt
20:00 – Final thoughts: You’re not selfish. You’re growing.

If this episode resonates, share it with someone who's ready for more but unsure how to begin.

Let’s normalise choosing growth.

LINKS

Connect with Julie:
LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/julie-hyde/
Instagram: @juliehydeleads
Website:     https://juliehyde.com.au

 

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This is a must-listen episode - compelling, confronting, and deeply necessary.

In this powerful conversation, I’m joined by Vanessa Vershaw, a workplace psychologist and trusted advisor to executives and decision-makers across ASX 20 and Fortune 100 companies. Vanessa is a fierce advocate for gender equality and social justice, recently representing the APAC region at the 2025 World Woman Foundation in Davos, and recipient of the Momentum Trailblazer of the Year Award.

Together, we unpack the uncomfortable and often silenced issue of workplace bullying —particularly the kind that exists between women. Vanessa brings real insight into why bullying thrives even in the most progressive organisations, how silence and systems protect harmful behaviour, and what leaders must do to stop enabling it.

If you care about culture, integrity, and psychological safety in the workplace—you need to hear this.

What We Cover in This Episode

• What workplace bullying really looks like today – beyond the obvious
• Why bullying is often ignored, minimised, or denied by senior leaders
• How HR processes can retraumatise instead of protect
• The emotional cost of staying silent vs. speaking up
• Why high-performing environments aren’t always safe environments
• The difference between performative leadership and real accountability
• What true leadership looks like when the stakes are high

Timestamps

00:00 – Introduction
02:15 – Vanessa’s journey and global impact
06:30 – What workplace bullying looks like today
12:00 – Power, silence, and systemic issues
18:40 – When HR protects the system, not the people
25:00 – The cost of speaking up
33:00 – What real leadership and accountability require
42:15 – Final reflections

If this episode stirred something in you, share it with someone who needs to hear it. The silence around bullying helps no one—and change starts when we choose to speak up.

LINKS

Connect with Julie:
LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/julie-hyde/
Instagram: @juliehydeleads
Website:     https://juliehyde.com.au

Connect with Vanessa:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vanessa-vershaw/
Website:  https://www.vanessavershaw.com/
Book:       https://www.vanessavershaw.com/the-sisterhood-paradox-1

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We’ve been sold a version of “wealth” that’s all about money, milestones, and packed calendars. But what if true wealth had less to do with your income—and more to do with your alignment?

In this episode of Leading You, I’m joined by wealth and mindset coach Emma Lagerlow, author of Worthy & Wealthy and mum of four, to redefine what it means to live a rich, fulfilling life—on your terms.

We unpack the real cost of the juggle, how values and boundaries unlock freedom, and why choosing what matters most is the greatest investment you’ll ever make. Emma also shares tools from her book including the Wealth Audit and five pillars of a worthy & wealthy life: self-worth, purpose, wellbeing, financial empowerment, and time freedom.

If you’re tired of feeling stretched too thin—and ready to lead with clarity instead of chaos—this conversation is your reset.

In this episode, we explore:

• What true wealth means in a world obsessed with productivity
• How to shift from urgency to intentional leadership
• Why values-based decisions create emotional resilience
• The power of boundaries (especially the ones we keep with ourselves)
• How to use a “wealth audit” to align your life with what really matters
• Emma’s personal rituals for staying grounded, present, and focused
• Why self-worth is the foundation of freedom

About Emma:

Emma Lagerlow is a wealth and mindset coach, author, podcast host, and mum of four. With 25+ years of experience in finance and marketing, she blends strategic thinking with soulful insight to help women break free from burnout and design lives of purpose, wellbeing, and financial empowerment.

Timestamps:

00:00 – Welcome + Why this episode matters
02:12 – Meet Emma Lagerlow: from finance to personal freedom
05:47 – Redefining wealth: it’s not all about money
09:30 – What time freedom really looks like
13:02 – The hidden cost of being “busy but productive”
16:40 – Boundaries that support balance (not burnout)
20:25 – Emma’s personal values and how they guide her decisions
24:10 – The “Wealth Audit” exercise from her book
29:38 – Daily rituals that keep Emma grounded as a mum and business owner
33:00 – The power of self-worth in redefining success
36:44 – Emma’s final message: how to stop surviving and start leading

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Subscribe to Leading You, leave a review, and share it with someone ready to stop surviving and start living worthy and wealthy.

Connect with Julie:
LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/julie-hyde/
Instagram: @juliehydeleads
Website:     https://juliehyde.com.au

Connect with Emma:
Website: https://www.emmalagerlow.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/emma-lagerlow-4a2849/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/emmalagerlow/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/emmalagerlowcoach

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In this solo episode of Leading You, I’m diving into one of the most common challenges I hear from leaders and high performers: a loss of motivation. But here’s the truth, it’s not that you’ve lost your drive. It’s that you’re out of alignment.

I break down the myth of motivation and explore what’s really behind that nagging feeling of being stuck or flat. We’ll talk about how being out of sync with your values and priorities leads to burnout, frustration, and confusion about what to do next. I also share my own experience of walking away from a successful 20-year corporate career to realign with purpose, and how that one decision changed everything.

If you’ve been feeling off, this episode is your invitation to pause, reflect, and choose differently. I’ll also introduce you to my You Always Have a Choice program and share practical steps to realign your energy, sharpen your focus, and reconnect with your leadership legacy.

Key Takeaways:

• The surprising truth behind why motivation disappears
• How to recognise misalignment in your life and work
• Why your legacy isn’t built someday—it’s shaped by what you choose today
• The mindset shift that helped me leave corporate life and find purpose
• Practical strategies to get clear, regain focus, and move forward with confidence

Timestamps:

00:00 – Introduction to Leading You
00:24 – Re-Energized and Ready: Addressing Motivation Issues
02:09 – The Myth of Motivation
04:40 – Recognising Misalignment in Life
05:59 – The Importance of Legacy
08:18 – You Always Have a Choice Program
09:12 – Personal Story: Finding Clarity and Making Changes
12:11 – Steps to Realign and Gain Clarity
16:04 – Conclusion and Call to Action

Resources Mentioned:

• You Always Have a Choice Program
• Break Free from the Juggle Workbook (Free Download)

Connect with Julie:
LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/julie-hyde/
Instagram: @juliehydeleads
Website:     https://juliehyde.com.au

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In this episode of the Leading You Podcast, I’m joined by Vanessa Belll, eco-entrepreneur, sustainability advocate, and former fashion model. Vanessa shares her inspiring journey from the world of high fashion to the heart of the Australian bush, where she now leads a purpose-driven business combining regenerative farming, ethical production, and sustainable fashion.

Vanessa opens up about her love affair with Merino wool, the power of reinvention, and the mindset it takes to lead with purpose. We dive into her transition from modelling to farming, her commitment to creating luxury knitwear that respects people and the planet, and the legacy she’s building through courageous choices.

If you’re curious about sustainable entrepreneurship, looking for motivation to pursue your passion, or simply love a story of bold transformation, this conversation will leave you inspired.

Timestamps:

00:00 – Introduction and Monthly Reflection
00:49 – Meet Vanessa Bell: Eco Entrepreneur
01:25 – Vanessa's Journey from Fashion to Farming
03:01 – Falling in Love with Wool
07:23 – Building a Sustainable Business
14:43 – Navigating Change and Reinvention
20:39 – Resilience and Mindset in the Bush
27:15 – Vanessa's Legacy and Final Thoughts
32:41 – Conclusion and Call to Action

Key Takeaways:

• What it takes to pivot your life and career with courage
• How Vanessa built a luxury sustainable brand from the ground up
• The leadership lessons behind living off the land
• Why Merino wool is a game-changer in ethical fashion
• The role of resilience and values in navigating change
• How to take bold action before you feel ready

 
Resources Mentioned:

You Always Have a Choice
Download the free Break Free from the Juggle workbook 

Connect with Vanessa:
Instagram: @fashiontofarmer / @VanessaBellOfficial
Website: www.vanessa-bell.com
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vjbell/
Podcast: Fashion To Farmer

Connect with Julie:
LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/julie-hyde/
Instagram: @juliehydeleads
Website:     https://juliehyde.com.au

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Please rate, review, and share it with someone who’s ready to lead with passion and purpose. Your choices shape your impact—and your legacy. Let’s lead lives we love, one courageous decision at a time.

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As we enter April, a month packed with school holidays, Easter and Anzac Day, this episode invites you to hit pause, reflect, and reset.

Julie asks three brutally honest questions every leader should be reflecting on right now:

• How are you really feeling?
• Are your habits still supporting you?
• Who are you becoming through your daily choices?

This episode is your quarterly check-in, a moment to stop running on autopilot and realign with what matters most. Julie shares mindset strategies, practical tools, and powerful questions to help you protect your wellbeing, live in alignment with your values, and lead with intention.

If you’ve been feeling off track, tired, or stretched too thin, this is your sign to pause and recalibrate.

🔗 Download the free “Manage Your Juggle” workbook to help you prioritise what matters.

🕒 Timestamps:

00:00 – Welcome to Leading You
00:26 – Why April is the perfect time to pause and reflect
01:30 – Brutal Question 1: How are you really feeling?
04:48 – Brutal Question 2: Are your habits still supporting you?
07:54 – The juggle: Understanding rubber vs concrete balls
10:49 – Brutal Question 3: Who are you becoming?
13:51 – Final reflections and taking a short break

💬 Key Takeaways:

• Why mindset check-ins are essential for leaders
• The impact of habits on your performance and clarity
• How to stop juggling what doesn’t matter and prioritise what does
• Why alignment with your values is the most powerful way to lead
• A reminder that you always have a choice—even when it doesn’t feel like it

💡 Resources Mentioned:

🎧 You Always Have a Choice program

✅ Download the free 5-Step “Break Free from the Juggle” Workbook

🙌 Loved this episode?

Please rate, review, and share it with someone who needs a reset right now. Every choice you make shapes the leader you’re becoming. Let’s lead lives we love, one intentional choice at a time.

LINKS

Order My New Book “You Always Have A Choice” here 

Connect with Julie:

LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/julie-hyde/

Instagram: @juliehydeleads

Website:     https://juliehyde.com.au

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In this solo episode of Leading You, Julie flips the script on leadership and challenges the idea that leadership is about position or status. Instead, she unpacks what it really means to show up as a leader—in your life, your work, and your relationships.

Through personal insights and practical takeaways, Julie explores the three foundational traits that make a lasting impact: Clarity, Consistency, and Courage. You'll hear why self-leadership is the key to inspiring trust, creating influence, and stepping into your full potential—without waiting for permission or a job title.

Whether you’ve ever felt overlooked or are ready to lead in a new way, this episode will help you stop playing small and lead with intention, from wherever you are.

What You’ll Learn

• Why self-leadership is the foundation of all effective leadership
• The three traits that make leaders stand out (and it’s not being the loudest)
• How clarity grounds you, even when things are uncertain
• The real power of consistency in building trust and credibility
• Why courage matters more than confidence
• What it costs when you play small and wait for permission to lead
• How your presence can be your greatest leadership asset

Episode Breakdown

• 00:00 – Welcome to Leading You
• 00:29 – Redefining leadership beyond job titles
• 02:09 – Why self-leadership is non-negotiable
• 06:47 – The 3 ways leaders stand out: Clarity, Consistency & Courage
• 14:52 – The cost of playing small
• 17:33 – Final thoughts and leadership as a daily choice

🎧 Tune in now to discover how leadership isn't about being in charge. It’s about how you show up—every single day.

LINKS

Order My New Book “You Always Have A Choice” here 

Connect with Julie:

LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/julie-hyde/

Instagram: @juliehydeleads

Website:     https://juliehyde.com.au

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In today’s fast-paced and high-pressure work environment, connection and courage are no longer optional. They are essential for leadership that inspires, supports, and drives real performance.

In this episode of Leading You, I’m joined by leadership strategist and author Stephanie Bown to explore how curiosity, calm, and connection are powerful foundations for leaders navigating change.

We dive into how curiosity can reduce stress, boost creativity, and help teams stay adaptable. Stephanie shares how staying calm during uncertainty builds trust, and how real connection can strengthen team performance. She even shares the story behind the camel on her book cover, and why it represents resilience in the face of adversity.

We also discuss the impact of AI on leadership and why human qualities like empathy and independent thinking still matter most.

Whether you’re leading a team, a business, or yourself, this episode will give you practical ways to lead with intention, build trust, and stay focused on what matters.

Episode Breakdown

00:00 – Introduction to self-leadership and mindset mastery
00:38 – Meet Stephanie Bown and her approach to leadership
01:18 – The importance of curiosity, connectedness and calm
03:58 – The story behind the camel and what it represents
05:15 – Why curiosity is underrated in leadership
09:27 – Creating space for courageous conversations
16:06 – Leading in the age of AI and what leaders must hold on to
21:50 – Practical ways to improve collaboration and reduce dysfunction
27:23 – Final thoughts and where to focus next

What You’ll Learn

• Why curiosity helps leaders reduce stress and inspire growth
• How calmness creates psychological safety and trust
• How to create deeper connection with your team, even in remote settings
• What human qualities will matter most as AI becomes more common
• How to foster courageous conversations that strengthen your culture

🎧 Listen now and learn how to lead in a way that builds confidence, connection and a culture where people want to stay.

 

LINKS:

Order My New Book “You Always Have A Choice” here 

 

Connect with Stephanie:

Website: https://stephaniebown.com/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephaniebown1/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephiefromthebay/

 

Connect with Julie:

LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/julie-hyde/

Instagram: @juliehydeleads

Website:     https://juliehyde.com.au

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In this episode of Leading You, I dive into the one mindset shift that can transform your career, leadership, and personal growth.

Inspired by a recent conversation with a client who questioned her leadership potential, I unpack how language, behaviour, and choice shape the way we lead—regardless of title or position.

So often, we wait for permission. We let past experiences or external opinions dictate our potential. But true leadership begins when we choose to see ourselves as leaders and start acting accordingly.

What we cover in this episode:

• The power of language—how your words shape your leadership identity
• Why behaviour speaks louder than titles—leading through action
• How taking control of your responses puts you in the driver’s seat
• The impact of limiting beliefs—and how to rewrite your own leadership story
• Real-life examples of leaders who stepped up before they had the title

If you’ve ever questioned whether you’re a leader or hesitated to step into your full potential, this episode is for you.

🎧 Listen now and start making that critical mindset shift today.

00:00 Introduction and Key Question

00:28 The Importance of Mindset Shifts

01:12 Client's Leadership Journey

01:49 Three Key Takeaways

02:55 Client's Struggles and Realizations

06:07 The Power of Self-Advocacy

09:11 Mindset Shift and Taking Action

12:49 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Connect with Julie:

Order My New Book “You Always Have A Choice” here 

LinkedIn:    https://www.linkedin.com/in/julie-hyde/

Instagram: @juliehydeleads

Website:     https://juliehyde.com.au

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