Learning Lessons with Shaboobs

Learning Lessons with Shaboobs presents: "Conversations" w/ Matt Day - #2


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Original Record Date: 10.07.2022

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In this podcast episode, the Shaboobs & Matthew Day discuss the impact of shame on their lives, its societal implications, and how it can lead to toxic behaviors. They explore the role of pain in personal growth, the importance of setting boundaries, and the concept of ego in relationships. The conversation also covers the self-purification process, the use of sex in marketing, the significance of leadership skills, and the value of focused work in mastering a craft. They emphasize the need for emotional vulnerability, consistency, and a supportive community in overcoming shame and fostering personal development.



The injury and its emotional impact (00:00:31)


The cycle of shame and toxic behaviors (00:00:54)


Men's expectations to handle shame (00:08:26)


The cycle of toxic behaviors (00:09:41)


The difficulty of expressing vulnerability (00:10:06)


Shame as isolating (00:16:33)


The pain that leads to growth (00:18:23)


The cycle of seeking relief (00:19:16)


The power of empathy and compassion (00:25:34)


The cycle of enabling (00:26:44)


Reacting from the ego (00:27:57)


The importance of releasing emotions (00:30:22)


The cycle of seeking quick fixes for relief (00:36:07)


The negative effects of self-purification on men's perception (00:36:25)


The responsibility of judgment and discernment (00:39:30)


The impact of sex in advertising (00:45:32)


Different perspectives on nudity in Europe (00:46:17)


The consequences of not setting boundaries (00:49:30)


The importance of leadership and fulfillment (00:54:40)


Differentiating between being number one and being a leader (00:55:08)


The benefits of taking turns leading and following (00:56:10)


The first hour is the hardest (01:06:00)


The power of vulnerability and growth (01:08:36)


The cycle of shame and toxic traits (01:10:51)


The cycle of toxic behaviors (01:11:20)


The importance of not numbing the pain (01:11:28)


Finding balance and support (01:12:10)

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