Learning To Dad with Tyler Ross

In this conversation, Tyler interviews Josef Stetter, the Resume Whisperer and corporate culturist. They discuss the importance of corporate culture and its impact on employee engagement and retention. Josef shares his experiences in helping job seekers land their dream jobs and helping companies build effective corporate cultures. He emphasizes the need for companies to go beyond lip service and actually practice the culture they preach. Josef also talks about the Peter Principle and the importance of allowing employees to work in their areas of expertise. In this conversation, Josef Stetter discusses the importance of employee retention and the impact it has on a company's growth. He emphasizes the need for companies to understand the value of taking care of their employees and creating a positive work culture. Josef also provides insights on how to present oneself effectively in a job interview, highlighting the importance of personalizing resumes and showcasing quantifiable achievements. He shares his experiences as a father and the lessons he wants to instill in his children, including the importance of pursuing passions and finding mentors. Josef's evergreen message is to find one's passion, purpose, and supportive people to help achieve success.

About Guest, Josef Stetter:
Recruiter/Headhunter Extraordinaire worked w/ small to global clients * The Dream Job Whisperer · Job Market Advisor · Resume Writer · Radio show Host · People Connector · Helped 11,000 People Land Dream Jobs

Rafi Salazar discusses his experience at the Masters golf tournament in Augusta, Georgia. He talks about the meticulous maintenance of the golf course and the high level of service provided. Rafi also shares his day-to-day routine, which includes working out, training in jiu-jitsu, and spending time with his family. He explains how jiu-jitsu has had a positive impact on his life, both physically and mentally. Rafi is a podcast host, author, and consultant in the healthcare industry. He discusses his various professional endeavors, including his clinical work, writing books, and hosting the Better Outcomes Show podcast. Rafi emphasizes the importance of humanizing healthcare and leveraging technology to improve patient care. He also shares his experience of starting his own consulting practice and the risks and rewards that come with sharing his point of view. Rafi Salazar emphasizes the importance of marrying well and having a supportive spouse when pursuing success. He shares how he and his wife prioritized financial stability by paying off debt and saving before taking risks. Rafi discusses the cultivation of discipline and the influence of his grandfather, friend, and father on his work ethic and parenting approach. He highlights the value of being a producer rather than a consumer and teaching respect and responsibility to his children. Rafi also emphasizes the responsibility of being a father and the impact it can have on society.

About Guest, Rafi Salazar:
Rafi’s career trajectory includes 12+ years of experience in healthcare management, clinical operations, programmatic development, marketing & business development. He even spent some time as an Assistant Professor in a Graduate Program of Occupational Therapy and has served on numerous boards and regulatory committees. He is the host of The Better Outcomes Show and he is also the author of the book Better Outcomes: A Guide to Humanizing Healthcare.
Today, Rafi helps innovative healthcare companies like technology startups, platforms, SaaS companies and provider organizations develop effective positioning strategy and business development plans though his consulting work.
In addition, he also has 6 kids and a loving wife, and works to intentionally prioritize them in his daily/weekly/monthly routines and work. 

Phyllis Okon, a medium and CEO of a transportation company, shares her journey from founding a limousine service to becoming a medium. She demystifies mediumship and discusses the comfort and messages she brings to people from their loved ones on the other side. Phyllis also talks about her experiences as a medium, the difference between being a medium and a psychic, and the self-awareness that comes with practicing mediumship. She shares personal stories of connecting with spirits and delivering messages that deeply resonate with people. Additionally, Phyllis discusses her role as CEO of a transportation company and how she built it from a small operation to an international business with 700 employees. Phyllis Okon shares her journey of building a successful transportation business while balancing motherhood and family life. She emphasizes the importance of commitment, hard work, and perseverance in achieving long-term success. Phyllis also discusses the values she learned from her parents, such as customer service, responsibility, and the importance of family. She highlights the significance of listening to and spending quality time with loved ones, as well as the need to prioritize and find balance in life. Phyllis shares her experiences as a mother and the lessons she has learned about love, sacrifice, and the importance of being present for her children. She also talks about her passion for writing and the impact it has had on her life. Phyllis concludes by offering advice to parents and encouraging them to prioritize self-care and reduce pressure on themselves.

About Guest, Phyllis Okon:
Phyllis Okon co-founded BLS Limousine Service with her late husband almost fifty years ago. A former social studies teacher, she quit teaching to run the office from her tiny kitchen on Long Island. The company grew to three offices, and after her husband's death, she and her two sons expanded to eleven more. BLS stands today proudly woman-owned and world-renowned.

She began a writing career at 55 that produced 83 books. Writing as Carole P. Roman and Brit Lunden, she has enchanted children, parents, and teachers with several fiction and nonfiction series.  Her joke book, The Big Book of Silly Jokes for Kids, shot to the top of Amazon, outselling every other book for two months.  Her YA novel Grady Whill and the Templeton Codex is currently being turned into a screenplay.

After her husband passed, she ventured into mediumship classes, eventually being singled out of her mentorship and endorsed by Seatbelt Psychic Thomas John.

As Lady Phyllis, her ability to connect and give evidential information has built this new venture to many monthly sessions and a steady clientele. Combining her love of teaching with her many talents, she has now opened several courses sharing her knowledge and demystifying mediumship to enable a new generation to embrace it.

Phyllis's unique experiences have made her a compassionate and understanding medium, CEO, and author, proving you don't have to give anything up because of age!

Mike Jesowshek, a CPA and tax strategist, shares his journey from being an entrepreneur in the online marketing industry to starting his own accounting firm and eventually focusing on educating small business owners about tax strategies. He discusses the importance of simplifying complex tax strategies and empowering business owners to implement them. Mike also talks about the role of his podcast in providing free content and serving as a lead source for his firm. He shares his experience in developing software and the importance of taking calculated risks. Mike Jesowshek CPA discusses the challenges and rewards of being an entrepreneur and a father. He shares his decision to invest in his business or start something new that aligns with his passions. Having children has changed his motivation and inspiration to work, as he now wants to build a legacy for his family. Mike emphasizes the importance of being present and setting a strong foundation for his kids. He also highlights the value of seeking guidance from experienced parents and mentors. Patience and love are key characteristics of a super dad, and Mike believes in approaching every relationship with kindness and a willingness to help.

About Guest, Mike Jesowshek:
Mike is a true expert in making tax savings simple for small business owners. As an entrepreneur, speaker, author, and podcast host, he's all about breaking down the complex world of taxes into easy-to-understand strategies. Mike's main goal? To help you, the business owner, learn how to pay the least amount in taxes as legally possible. Having educated thousands of entrepreneurs nationwide, Mike's expertise makes navigating tax savings accessible, empowering business owners to take critical steps toward business growth and enhanced wealth.

Matt Lowry, a licensed psychological practitioner and father to an autistic son, discusses autism as a genetic difference and challenges the perception of autism as a disorder. He emphasizes the importance of neurodiversity and creating an autistic-friendly environment. Matt shares his personal journey of self-discovery and acceptance, as well as his mission to advocate for autistic individuals. He highlights the strengths and unique abilities of autistic people, such as their intense interests and monotropic focus. Matt also addresses the biases and misconceptions surrounding autism and the need for greater understanding and support. In this conversation, Matt discusses the importance of autism affirmation and understanding. He emphasizes that autistic individuals don't need to be cured, but rather need accommodations and understanding. Matt encourages parents of autistic children to learn from autistic people and accept their child as a human being first. He also highlights the damaging effects of organizations like Autism Speaks and the importance of seeking out autistic resources. Matt shares his own interests and passions, such as mythology and Star Wars, and encourages individuals to pursue their own passions. He emphasizes the importance of patience and being present as a parent. Matt's message for future generations is to be excellent to each other.

About Guest, Matt Lowry:
Matt Lowry, (he/him) LPP is a licensed psychological practitioner who provides diagnostics and therapy to Autistic people using an Autistic-affirming framework. Matt has studied autism and Autistic people for over two decades, and is himself an Autistic person. Matt works to educate people about Autistic traits and Autistic Culture though professional trainings, professional consultations, and his podcast, The Autistic Culture Podcast. From this strengths-based perspective, Matt helps Autistic people create a life that is compatible with their Autistic neurology, and helps Autistic people find pride in their Autistic culture. Matt has previously worked in a school-based setting, in inpatient settings, and in community mental health.

Jevon Wooden, a speaker, coach, and author specializing in empathetic leadership, discusses his experience as a new father and his transition from the military to his current career. He emphasizes the importance of empathy in leadership and highlights the need for leaders to understand and support their employees on a personal level. Jevon works with companies in various industries, including tech, hospitality, and construction, to create empathetic cultures and improve employee well-being. The conversation explores the importance of company culture and how to maintain a positive work environment, especially during times of layoffs. It emphasizes the need for transparency, psychological safety, and support for employees. The discussion also touches on the impact of coaching and empathy on personal relationships and parenting. Jevon Wooden shares his experiences as a father and how his professional life has changed since becoming a parent. He highlights the importance of patience, curiosity, and openness in being a super dad. The conversation concludes with a message for future generations to embrace connection, ask for help, and value the support of others.

About Guest, Jevon Wooden:
Jevon Wooden is a sought-after speaker, coach, and author specializing in empathetic leadership. A veteran, CEO, and expert in emotional intelligence and DISC, he empowers leaders to build high-performing teams, foster thriving workplace cultures, and achieve sustainable business growth. Jevon's insights have been featured in Forbes, Entrepreneur, Inc. Magazine, and more.

Donald Grothoff is an EFT practitioner who helps individuals reduce anxiety and stress through tapping. He also works with parents and aging loved ones as part of the sandwich generation. Donald explains that tapping is an energy process that involves tapping on specific points of the body's meridians to bring down fight or flight response and reduce anxiety. He helps his clients identify negative thought patterns and work through them to lower anxiety levels. Donald shares his personal journey of transitioning from a web marketing business to becoming an EFT practitioner, driven by his passion for helping others. In this conversation, Donald Grothoff discusses his experience as a parent of children with OCD and the challenges they faced. He shares how the disorder affected his daughters and the impact it had on their lives. Donald also talks about the importance of understanding and compassion in dealing with OCD and how it can be managed. He emphasizes the need for effective communication and the role it played in his relationship with his wife. Donald reflects on the lessons he learned from his experiences and how they shaped him as a person and a parent.

About Guest, Donald Grothoff:
I’m Don Grothoff, a Dad, EFT Practitioner, and, Mindset Coach. When I had my second child, I had no idea she would have OCD and the tough journey she would take us through. Then to find my youngest suffering from it, we relived the whole journey again. This painful anxiety disorder crippled both kids, me, and my family.

While their OCD never went away, the girls, my family, and I have learned to manage it. I became dedicated to learning methods that I could use to help them and the family cope, bring down anxiety, and eventually manage their OCD.

I decided to use the skills I acquired as a Dad and from Emotional Freedom Techniques training to be a mindset coach for individuals and families to handle the curveballs that life throws their way. I use my skills in naturopathic and holistic doctors’ offices to help patients through their healing process, make them more efficient, healthy and satisfied patient.

Jalisa Hardy, a holistic health practitioner and spiritual alchemist, shares her journey of self-discovery and the importance of embracing our authentic selves. She discusses human design and how it can help us understand our unique energy types and live a more aligned life. Jalisa also talks about the power of imagination and reconnecting with our inner child. She emphasizes the importance of deconditioning and unlearning societal beliefs that limit us. Through her work, Jalisa empowers others to tap into their supernatural potential and manifest the life they desire. Jalisa Hardy, HHP shares her insights on making tasks fun and easy, embracing inner child healing, and living authentically. She emphasizes the importance of play, meditation, and emotional freedom techniques in finding joy and peace in life. Jalisa also discusses her journey as a single mom, leaving an abusive relationship, and the support system that helped her thrive. She highlights the significance of self-care, selflessness, and patience in single motherhood. Jalisa's message to future generations is to remember that they are enough.

About Guest, Jalisa Hardy:
While I may not fit the typical profile of a "dad," as a single mother of three young children, I bring a unique perspective to the topic of parenting as an entrepreneur. With my diverse background as a licensed minister, self-published author, Human Design Expert, Spiritual Alchemist, Trauma of Money Certified Professional, and Board Certified Holistic Health Practitioner, I have valuable insights to share on balancing the demands of entrepreneurship with the responsibilities of parenthood. My journey as a single mother navigating the realms of spirituality, holistic health, and personal growth while raising my children could offer your audience a fresh perspective on parenting and entrepreneurship.

Jason Jablonski, owner of a plumbing, heating, and electrical company, shares his experience of running a business in a small town in Canada. He discusses the challenges and rewards of being an entrepreneur, including the importance of hiring the right people and maintaining a positive company culture. Jason also talks about the transition from being an employee to a business owner, the role of family in the business, and the impact of having children on taking risks. He emphasizes the value of communication and the need to prioritize time for oneself and one's spouse. In this conversation, Jason Jablonski shares his insights on effective communication, raising kids, and being a role model. He emphasizes the importance of taking time to calm down before engaging in difficult conversations and highlights the value of daily family prayer time. Jason discusses the differences among his children and offers advice on navigating the preteen phase. He also talks about the role of the community in raising kids and the advantages and disadvantages of technology. Jason shares his aspirations for his children, including independence and faith, and discusses the balance between his role as a father and his wife's role as a mother. He reflects on the milestones of parenthood and the skills he hopes to teach his kids. Jason concludes by encouraging future generations to be the person they needed in their darkest days and to use their experiences to help others.

About Guest, Jason Jablonksi:
Jason Jablonski is a multi million dollar business owner. He owns and founded an electric company 12 years ago. Over these 12 years he got married, had 5 kids, and underwent many struggles all while running a successful Electric, Plumbing and Heating company. Jason is involved and is learning from many coaches as he continues to grow his business. 

Kyle Jetsel shares his journey of parenting six kids, including an autistic child, and overcoming challenges such as defiance and suicidal thoughts. He discusses his evolution from ruling with an iron fist to adopting a more loving and patient approach. Kyle emphasizes the importance of showing love even in difficult moments and shares a transformative experience with his autistic son. He also highlights the need for self-discovery, setting goals, and working as a team with his wife to create a happy and thriving family. Kyle Jetsel shares his approach to accountability and self-forgiveness, emphasizing the importance of giving oneself grace and continuously striving for improvement. He also discusses how he managed the sudden loss of his wife and the process of supporting his family through grief. Kyle highlights the significance of taking action and not waiting to make positive changes in life. He encourages fathers to prioritize emotional control, set aside their egos, and model love for their wives. Kyle believes that the gift of a strong and loving marital relationship would have a profound impact on individuals and society as a whole. He finds the most love in prayer, where he feels a deep connection to divinity and a sense of purpose.

About Guest, Kyle Jetsel:
My name is Kyle Jetsel and For years I (and My now deceased wife, Shelly) struggled raising our 6 “strong-willed” kids. Nothing seemed to be off-limits for this “seemingly feral” crew. From biting, kicking and screaming... to defiance, arguments, fights and threats... to then... even physical confrontation with us. As the challenges mounted (oppositional defiance, suicidal thoughts and ideation, autism spectrum, etc., etc...) we spared no expense. When the books and training and specialists and therapists failed to help us with our "AT HOME" challenges, we made it our business to better understand how we could parent our kiddos in a spirit of love. Through the "secrets" we learned, we dramatically LOWERED STRESS for everyone and TRANSFORMED our family... even AS we raised our “spirited” kids. Now, WE TEACH that same framework and recipe to other families so they can become what our family has become. A top 1% happy family.