The only way to develop as a Leader is to become self-aware. And the constant companion of self-awareness is a soul challenging sense of inadequacy. Thus, to grow as a leader you must live in the spotlight of incessantly feeling exposed as you develop through the pain of learning a new way of leading. You must intentionally live in the generative tension of pursuing a new mindset and approach that fundamentally you aren’t as good at (yet!), all the while resisting the urge to go back to your tried and true approach. Leadership is an infinite game, but take heart, because leaning into the pain of pursuing development through self-awareness helps lead us to a radically human and courageous life.