Leaving the rock

Leaving the rock

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Leaving the rock episodes

  • Season 5 Ep 7: Moral Masochism, the quest to get love from a stone

    This episode explores the concept of moral masochism, a psychological pattern where individuals unconsciously seek out punishment and rejection. We'll examine how this can play out within religious settings, particularly those with rigid doctrines and a focus on guilt and shame. We'll delve into the underlying psychological factors, such as early childhood trauma and the development of a critical inner voice. We'll also discuss the potential for healing and recovery, offering hope and encouragement to listeners who may be struggling.


    This podcast is not a substitute for professional and medical help.

    1 hr 46 min
  • Season 5 Ep 6: A joy to be hidden, and disaster not to be found

    In this episode, we delve into the profound impact of Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) on how we relate to others. We'll explore how trauma can shape our "attachment styles," the unconscious patterns we develop in our relationships with others.

    We'll examine how the need to "hide" can be a common survival mechanism in high-ACE environments, particularly within religious communities.

    This episode is for you if you: Have experienced adverse childhood experiences in your childhood, Struggle with developing close relationships and connections, Feel emotionally distant or disconnected from others, or Desire to understand and heal from the impact of ACEs.
    Disclaimer: This episode is for informational purposes only and does not constitute professional medical or psychological advice.

    1 hr 15 min
  • Season 5 Ep 5: The Hidden Wounds: Understanding and Addressing ACEs in the Church

    This episode delves into the profound impact of Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) on individuals and communities. We explore how traumatic experiences can shape our brains and bodies, leading to long-term health issues and behavioral problems. We discuss the importance of recognizing and addressing ACEs, particularly within religious communities, and how to foster healing and resilience. By sharing personal stories and scientific insights, we aim to empower listeners to break the cycle of trauma and build stronger, more compassionate communities.

    2 hr 8 min
  • Season 5 Ep 4: Addiction, Dislocation Theory, The role of Relationship Poverty in addiction, and what to do about it.

    In this episode, we discuss research on addiction by Bruce Alexander and compare it against B.F. Skinner's work. We dive into Dislocation theory which suggests that social and economic forces alienate people from structures of meaning, and that addictive behaviors are a way to fill that void. We finally discuss 'Rat Park,' Alexander's solution to the rat isolation + what we can learn and apply in our recovery/healing journeys as High ACE (Adverse Childhood Experiences) communities.

    1 hr 17 min

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Latinx centric conversations on exiting evangelicalism, deconstruction, and religious trauma.