In this deeply moving episode of The Hidden Why, I sit down with Ken Miller, author of Becoming Ken: One Black Man's Journey from Ivy League to Prison and Back Again. Ken's life story is unlike any I've heard—a raw and honest account of trauma, addiction, incarceration, and ultimately, transformation.
Born into foster care and adopted at six, Ken's early years were marked by instability and abuse. Despite this, he went on to become a National Merit Scholar and graduate from Dartmouth College, one of America's top Ivy League institutions. But behind the academic success, Ken struggled with alcoholism, unresolved trauma, and emotional pain that led to addiction, homelessness, and multiple stints in prison.
In this open and vulnerable conversation, Ken shares how he turned his life around—reclaiming his agency, finding purpose through service, and dedicating himself to mentoring others on their own journeys of recovery and growth. His story is a powerful reminder that healing is possible, no matter how far we fall.
In this episode, we discuss:
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Ken's early life in foster care and the emotional scars that shaped him
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Climbing the academic ladder to the Ivy League, and his spiral into addiction
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His candid experience with homelessness, drug abuse, and incarceration
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What finally led to change: a broken jaw, a moment of surrender, and a powerful conversation with God
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His path to recovery through physical, intellectual, emotional, and spiritual healing
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The power of giving, forgiveness, and breaking the cycle of secrets and shame
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Why Ken now defines success as being "good with good"—not chasing greatness, but embracing contentment
This conversation is real, raw, and filled with wisdom. Whether you're struggling with your own journey or just seeking perspective, Ken's message is one of hope, accountability, and resilience.
About Ken Miller
Ken Miller is a speaker, mentor, and the author of Becoming Ken. After overcoming 20 years of addiction, homelessness, and incarceration, he now devotes his life to helping others heal, grow, and live meaningful lives. He runs a national book club, speaks across the country, and offers support to individuals looking to recover from addiction and reclaim their self-worth.
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Get the book: Becoming Ken