Leo Pareja Unfiltered

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  • Why Digital Trust Is Breaking in Real Estate | Inman CEO Tom Bohn on AI & Community

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    In this episode of Pareja Unfiltered, Leo Pareja sits down with Tom Bohn, the new CEO of Inman, to talk about what a media company really looks like in 2026.

    Tom breaks down his vision for Inman 2.0, why digital trust is breaking and in person connection is coming back, the AI tools Inman is building for agents, and why private listings are the biggest distraction in real estate right now.

    AI can give you answers. It can't give you community.

    📄 Full show notes:
    https://docs.google.com/document/d/1YYWPwfJUBSWFhTfT3zo9UTj4XmCHUD0zCyNupnht688/edit?usp=sharing

    ➡️ Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nD8x5E9gqDs

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    ➡️ Timestamps
    00:00 Why Tom Bohn Took the Inman Job
    00:58 Reimagining Brands That Have Gone Stale
    02:25 What Is a Media Company in 2026?
    04:40 "We're Breaking Digital": The Return of In Person
    05:53 The Demise of Solitary Entertainment
    07:17 First Moves as CEO: Getting Leadership Right
    09:52 What Inman 2.0 Actually Means
    11:22 Agents Posting Inman Articles: Crack Down or Make It Easier?
    13:00 Step by Step: AI Hyperlocal Video Scripts for Your Socials
    14:39 The Bloomberg Terminal for Real Estate
    17:02 Comments & Communities on Every Article
    17:46 How Inman Will Measure Success
    18:52 Why Inman Wants 1,000 Local Storytellers
    22:03 Filtering Credibility With AI + Human Editors
    23:32 Leo on Dyslexia & Writing With AI
    24:17 Inman's AI Certification for Agents
    26:27 One Inman: Killing the Subscription Confusion
    27:00 Lessons From TheHomeMag: Telling Founders Their Baby Is Ugly
    29:13 The Biggest Noise in Real Estate: Private Listings
    31:48 Who Should Lead? Coalitions vs. Congress
    33:49 The Veterinary Telehealth Playbook
    36:31 Should NAR Be Leading This?
    38:30 Why Inman Prints Both Sides
    39:24 Fighting the "Fake News" Dismissal
    41:12 Moving Inman's 100K Facebook Group Onto the Platform

    44 min
  • My First Business Took 15 Years to Scale — Here Is What Patience Actually Taught Me

    ➡️ Access ALL FREE business resources, episode blueprints, and exclusive content from past episodes: https://stan.store/leopareja

    In this episode I talk about why long-term thinking is the most underrated competitive advantage in business, why patience and compounding change everything when you give them enough time, and why so many people sacrifice what they want most for what they want right now. 

    I break down how I think about hiring, brand building, and the difference between building a commodity and building a community that people never want to leave. I also get honest about failure — why it is still the best teacher I have ever had — and why you need to be gentle with yourself, because this is the first time you have ever lived this life.

    If you start thinking in decades instead of quarters, everything changes.

    ➡️ Timestamps:

    0:00
      – All you have to do is outlast your competition
    2:03
      – Why short-term decisions are killing long-term results
    4:04
      – The difference between a business optimising to look good vs. actually grow
    6:06
      – Why building a community beats building a commodity every time
    8:08
      – What happens when you do something long enough — the compounding effect
    12:09
     – Why every entrepreneur needs a system, not just a to-do list

    ➡️ Connect With Leo Pareja

    LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/leopareja/
    Instagram: https://instagram.com/leopareja/
    Podcast: 
    https://www.youtube.com/@leo.pareja

    17 min
  • Zero to One Talent Isn't One to Ten Talent

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    In this episode I break down the difference between visionaries and operators, why the person who takes a business from zero to one is almost never the same person who takes it from one to ten, and why hiring people just like yourself is one of the most expensive mistakes you can make as a founder. 

    I use McDonald's as the clearest example I know — the founders were the visionaries who built one or two great stores, and Ray Kroc was the operator who turned it into a global empire. Most businesses never find their Ray Kroc. 

    I talk about why speed is the real superpower — speed to test, speed to pivot, speed to act on what the market is telling you — and why success is never about doing everything yourself. It is about building a team that can go further than you ever could alone.

    The idea you had five years ago does not matter. What you did with it does.

    ➡️ Timestamps:

    0:00  – Innovation is rewarded but execution is worshipped
    2:01  – The difference between going from 0 to 1 and from 1 to 10
    4:04  – Why the visionary phase requires tinkering, failure, and pivoting
    6:07  – Why understanding people is the real skill behind every great business
    8:07  – How knowing your strengths and weaknesses changes who you hire
    10:07 – Why time is the real currency and how the best leaders protect it

    ➡️ Connect With Leo Pareja

    LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/leopareja/
    Instagram: https://instagram.com/leopareja/
    Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@leo.pareja

    16 min
  • Phil M. Jones: Started Washing Cars at 14, Built a $240 Million Company With 5 Salespeople

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    Phil Jones was making more money than his school teachers at 15 running a car washing operation staffed by kids a year younger than him. He went on to build a $240 million real estate investment business with only five salespeople, converting at 95 to 100% through a referral network where he never had to cold call anyone. Leo sits down with the author of Exactly What to Say, one of the most listened-to nonfiction audiobooks of all time, to unpack why "always be closing" is backwards, how two words can direct someone's decision without them feeling told what to do, and why most agents are destroying their future business with every follow-up call they make. Phil also breaks down why your experience might be your most expensive liability, the framework that replaces beating yourself up with compounding improvement, and why the next decade belongs to people who master when and how they communicate, not just what they say.

    ➡️ Timestamps

    00:00 Washing Cars at 14 and Out-Earning Teachers by 15
    02:02 The Lesson That Shaped Everything Was Just Learning How to Ask
    03:00 Leo Was Outselling Everyone at Outback Steakhouse Before He Knew Why
    03:56 Why Always Be Closing Is Backwards and Curiosity Wins More Business
    05:29 People Say the Wrong Thing Even When They Know Better and Here's Why
    06:46 Commission Breath and the Only Safe Way to Enter Any Negotiation
    07:41 Confidence Without Experience Isn't Confidence It's Arrogance
    08:36 Every Human Being on the Planet Is a Lead If You Extend the Timeline
    09:20 Most Follow-Up Calls Don't Add Value They Destroy the Relationship
    10:34 Phil Demonstrates a Magic Word Live and Shows How Two Words Direct Decisions
    13:07 Managing People Older Than You Taught Him You Never Get Respect From a Title
    14:37 How He Built a $240 Million Business With Five Salespeople and 95% Conversion
    16:26 The Number One Mistake He Sees Across 800 Industries and It's Not What You Think
    17:35 The Line Between Persuasion and Manipulation and How to Know Which Side You're On
    19:31 Words Are Not Descriptive They're Generative and Most People Are Brutal to Themselves
    22:55 The LBs and NTs Framework That Replaces Right vs Wrong With Compounding Growth
    24:46 His 72-Minute Audiobook Averages Seven Listens Per User and the Industry Average Is 0.25
    26:25 The Conversations He Lost That Taught Him More Than the Ones He Won
    28:20 Buyers Show Up Further in the Decision Now and Information Isn't the Edge Anymore
    31:19 AI Is Making Average People Look Average Faster and Human Experience Is About to Be Premium
    34:49 Moment Modality Message and Why Agents Are Making Calls Nobody Wants to Answer
    38:22 Turn Off Your Smart Plans Because Most of Them Are Dumb

    ➡️ Connect With Phil M. Jones

    Instagram: https://instagram.com/philmjonesuk
    LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/philmjones
    YouTube: https://youtube.com/@philmjones
    Website: https://philmjones.com

    40 min
  • Your Best Marketing Strategy Is Giving Everything Away for Free

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    Leo breaks down why everyone's BS meter is higher than ever and why generic marketing is dead on arrival — most people literally open their mail over the trash can. He explains why he open sourced all of eXp's forms during one of the most confusing moments in real estate history, the goodwill it generated 12 to 24 months later, and why your best strategy as a business owner is to take your best stuff and give it away with no paywall and no gatekeeping. He gets into why the trust-building cycle starts months or years before someone is ready to buy, the moment people started showing up on his calendar talking like they'd known him for years, and why he used to tell customers they should not buy a house — and how those people became his most rabid advocates.

    ➡️ Timestamps

    00:00 Everyone's BS Meter Is Higher Than Ever
    01:41 Most People Open Their Mail Over the Trash Can
    02:13 I Follow Dentists and Chiropractors Now — Here's Why
    02:59 "That's My Person" — How Content Replaces the Sales Pitch
    03:41 The Only Marketing Question You Should Be Asking Yourself
    05:00 The Trust Cycle Starts Months Before Anyone Is Ready to Buy
    05:35 They Get on My Calendar and Talk Like We've Known Each Other for Years
    06:17 If They Don't Like You They'll Never Be on Your Calendar
    06:43 "If I Give It All Away for Free Why Would Anyone Pay Me?"
    07:44 We Open Sourced Our Forms and It Changed Everything
    09:16 Imagine a Dentist Charging You $495 Before Looking at Your Mouth
    10:30 Chewy's Sends a Memorial When Your Dog Dies — That's the Standard
    10:53 You Don't Realize How Much of an Expert You Already Are
    12:32 "You Should Not Buy This House" — The Line That Built My Business

    ➡️ Connect With Leo Pareja

    LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/leopareja/
    Instagram: https://instagram.com/leopareja/
    Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@leo.pareja

    14 min
  • Barbara Corcoran: Couldn't Read Until 7th Grade, Became the Queen of New York Real Estate

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    Barbara Corcoran borrowed $1,000 from her boyfriend to start a real estate company. He owned 51% of it. Seven years later, he left her to marry her secretary. She was 30, broke, and convinced she'd never make it without him. Leo sits down with the woman who turned that wreckage into one of the most recognized real estate brands in America to unpack how she fired four out of every five agents she hired on purpose, why she lost $2 million on Shark Tank before realizing she was shopping for the wrong thing, and the email she wrote after getting rejected from the show that changed her entire second career. Barbara also gets into why she bought every building during markets nobody else would touch, the moment she realized she wasn't the owner of a golden goose but the golden goose herself, and why the best entrepreneurs she's ever backed have no degree at all.

    ➡️ Timestamps

    00:00 Her Boyfriend Became Her Business Partner Then Left Her for Her Secretary
    02:53 Being 30 and Convinced She'd Never Survive Without Him
    03:36 Ten Kids in a Two-Bedroom House and the Mother Who Made It Feel Like Winning
    05:13 Labeled the Dumb Kid Until 3:15 PM When Everything Changed
    06:24 The Only Leadership Style That Scaled From One Agent to a Thousand
    06:40 Sell One Apartment in Two Months or You Can't Stay Here
    08:42 What Nobody Tells You About Selling Your Company and Losing Your Name
    10:20 She Thought She Sold Her Golden Goose Until She Realized She Was the Golden Goose
    10:57 Shark Tank Rejected Her So She Wrote an Email Listing Every Failure That Made Her
    12:35 Leo Raised $48 Million Feeling Like a Realtor in a Room Full of Stanford MBAs
    13:39 The First Two Years on Shark Tank She Lost All Her Money Shopping for the Wrong Thing
    14:52 Most Businesses Don't Fail the Founders Quit
    16:53 Cold Feet on a Studio at 24 and It Took Four Years to Get Back In
    17:56 Every Building She Bought Was in a Market Nobody Else Would Touch
    20:10 Leo Made $300K in College Then Lost Everything by 23
    24:22 Leo's Mom Refused to Bail Him Out and It Was the Best Advice He Ever Got
    25:07 The Daydream About Being Queen of New York Real Estate That Became Her Business Plan
    25:53 Why AI Won't Replace Humans It'll Make the Human Touch the Only Thing That Matters
    27:20 The Advice She'd Give Gen Z That Their Parents Would Hate

    ➡️ Connect With Barbara Corcoran

    Instagram: https://instagram.com/barbaracorcoran
    TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@barbaracorcoran
    LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/barbaracorcoran
    YouTube: https://youtube.com/@BarbaraCorcoran

    30 min
  • You Only Get One Life: Stop Wasting It on Things That Don't Matter

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    Most people say they know life is short, but they live like they have unlimited time. Leo gets personal about the moments he traded for work and can't get back, the stat that changed how he parents (90-95% of the time you spend with your kids happens before they turn 18), and why he moved his 82-year-old father down the street after doing the math on how many visits he had left. He also breaks down why your brain is wired to trick you into doing the wrong work, how he tracked his way to only missing 3.3 bedtimes a month, and the conversation every entrepreneur needs to have with their partner before the grind destroys the relationship.

    ➡️ Timestamps

    00:00 You Have a 100% Chance of Not Getting Out Alive
    01:21 Nobody Was Ever Watching You, They Were Worried About Themselves
    02:36 The Scariest Thing From Your 20s Means Nothing Now
    03:09 One Less Day, Not One More Day
    03:32 The Tiny Window You Get With Your Kids as Kids
    04:20 Failure Taught Me More Than My Early Success Ever Did
    04:47 I Don't Remember the Meeting, I Remember the Dance
    05:38 Treat Your Priorities Like a Math Problem
    06:56 Tracking My Time Hurt My Own Feelings
    07:14 The Stat That Hit Like a Ton of Bricks: 90-95% Before 18
    08:47 "He Doesn't Understand Where I'm At" — Yes I Do
    09:43 Your Brain Wants You to Do the Wrong Work First
    10:27 Do the One Thing That Generates Revenue, Ignore Everything Else
    11:04 The Hard Conversation Every Entrepreneur Avoids Having

    ➡️ Connect With Leo Pareja

    LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/leopareja/
    Instagram: https://instagram.com/leopareja/
    Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@leo.pareja

    14 min
  • Glennda Baker: Embrace What Makes You Different and Build From There

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    Glennda Baker didn't become the most recognized face in real estate by following the playbook. She barely graduated high school, never went to college, and started her career parked outside the top agent's office just to eavesdrop on how deals got done. Leo sits down with the woman who built a 1M+ following and a powerhouse Atlanta real estate brand to unpack why she bought her dead mother's dream house in the middle of a divorce, how getting bullied as a kid became the foundation of a brand worth millions, and the content strategy behind 6,000+ videos without a single call to action. Glennda also gets into why virality is a trap most agents fall for, the sobriety decision that changed her leadership, and the one thing her mom told her that still runs every decision she makes.

    ➡️ Timestamps

    00:00 The Dream House on the Hill Her Mom Pointed To From a Car With No AC
    01:58 Buying That Exact House During a Divorce 30 Years Later
    04:45 What Happens When a Goal You Set as a Poor Kid Actually Comes True
    06:22 Why the Stars Aren't a Gimmick and What Her Mom Really Meant by "Dress Like One"
    07:40 Getting Bullied Relentlessly Until She Stopped Trying to Fit In
    08:20 The Four Words That Filter Every Brand Decision Glennda Makes
    09:14 The Difference Between Confidence and Arrogance Is a Resume
    11:32 What To Do When You Have 20,000 Followers and Zero Listings
    12:30 The Elementary Content Nobody Makes Because They Assume People Already Know
    13:19 Don't Go Wide, Go Deep: The Three Mile Zone Strategy
    15:03 Reddit Is Where the Pain Points Are and LLMs Are Pulling From It
    16:13 Why Glennda Calls Herself the Dear Abby of Real Estate
    17:33 Shooting 30 to 50 Videos in One Day With a Google Form and a Laptop Camera
    20:49 The Mortgage Guy Who Went Viral Talking About Chicken Nuggets and Got Zero Leads
    22:35 6,093 Videos and Never Once a Call to Action
    23:23 The YouTube Attempt That Failed So Badly the Videos Are Still Up
    24:53 Why Leo Banned Alcohol at Every Corporate Event He Pays For
    26:06 "I Am the Michael Jordan of Real Estate" and Why That Requires Sobriety
    28:13 The Tony Robbins Hug That Rewired How Glennda Thinks About Time
    29:38 The One Thing Her Mom Said That Still Runs Every Decision Today

    ➡️ Connect With Glennda Baker

    Instagram: https://instagram.com/glenndabaker/
    TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@glenndabaker
    LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/glenndabaker/
    YouTube: https://youtube.com/@glenndabakeratl
    Podcast: Glitter and Gay (with Tyler Whitman)

    32 min
  • Elena Cardone: Find the One You Trust and Build an Empire

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    Elena Cardone didn't build an empire by playing the independent woman card the culture keeps selling. She built it by doing the exact opposite, and the backlash almost buried her. Leo sits down with the force behind a multi-billion dollar organization to break down why trust is the only non-negotiable, what most ambitious couples lie to themselves about, and the uncomfortable truth about who you let near your inner circle. Elena also gets into why she cut out anyone she considers out-ethics, the parenting move that turns kids into criminals, and the mindset shift that stops driven partners from destroying each other.

    ➡️ Timestamps

    00:00 Find The One You Trust and Build an Empire
    01:25 The One Standard Elena Will Never Lower for Anyone
    02:28 Why Elena Cuts Out Anyone She Considers Out-Ethics
    04:06 Protecting the People Who Depend On You To Make Right Decisions
    04:34 The REM Sleep Reason Leo Quit Drinking Entirely
    06:33 Growing Up When People Smoked on Airplanes and Nobody Blinked
    08:10 The Gene Test That Told Elena Alcohol Is a Poison to Her Body
    09:12 Why Grant and Elena Refuse To Close the Curtain Like Everyone Else Does
    10:18 The Control Habit That Was Making Elena Weaker Not Stronger
    12:36 Why Collaboration Is the New Currency When You're Competing for the Top
    13:20 The Biggest Lie in Business: "I Can't Find Good People"
    15:37 The 2017 Decision That Got Elena Hate From Women Everywhere
    17:02 What a Functional Marriage Between Two Driven Adults Actually Requires
    18:18 Racking Up Wins Together Is the Love Language Nobody Talks About
    19:38 The Hard Conversation Ambitious Couples Avoid Until It's Too Late
    20:26 Money Doesn't Change You, It Magnifies You
    23:49 Why Elena Still Wouldn't Buy a Harry Winston Without Consulting Grant
    24:31 What People Completely Underestimate About Building in Public for Decades
    25:26 The One Thing a Leader Should Never Share No Matter How Trendy Transparency Gets
    26:49 Parenting Teenagers When You've Been Through Everything They're About To Try
    29:26 Why Elena Stopped Lecturing Her Kids and Started Listening Instead
    31:37 Report Cards Don't Matter, Jiu Jitsu Does
    32:40 How the Cardone Kids Got Contracts, Lawyers, and Dividends as Children
    35:04 The Exchange Rule That Separates Functional Kids From Future Criminals
    36:19 Why the Cardone Kids Paid Their Piggy Banks To Ride the Family Plane

    ➡️ Connect With Leo Pareja

    LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/leopareja/
    Instagram: https://instagram.com/leopareja/
    Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@leo.pareja

    38 min
  • Byron Lazine: He Went Bankrupt, Couldn't Buy an Ad, and Built Real Estate's Biggest Media Company

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    Byron Lazine built a media empire starting from bankruptcy — no budget, no audience, no choice but to figure out what everyone else was ignoring. Leo sits down with the co-founder of BAM to break down why distribution beats skill, what 15 years of building in public actually costs, and the uncomfortable truth about agents who post versus agents who actually build. Byron also gets into what live content is going to dominate in 2026, the backdoor narratives still controlling the real estate industry, and the two paths forward for anyone scared to put themselves out there.

    ➡️ Timestamps

    00:00 The Bankrupt Agent Who Couldn't Buy an Ad and Built a Media Empire Instead
    01:17 When Byron Realized Distribution Mattered More Than Skill
    03:06 The Facebook Live That Changed Everything (A Builder, 9 Homes, and Zero Foot Traffic)
    04:31 What That Version of Byron Got Dead Wrong About Success
    05:22 The Real Cost of Building in Public for 15 Years
    06:41 Why Chasing Trends Is the Slowest Path to Consistency
    07:44 The Deleted Podcast, the Stop Zillow Debate, and the First Real Inflection Point
    13:00 How BAM Was Born and Why the Industry Needed a Media Company, Not Another Blog
    17:45 The Difference Between Agents Who Build Audiences and Agents Who Just Post
    24:30 Why Byron Wouldn't Post on Social If It Wasn't for Business
    30:15 Raw Content, Live Format, and What's Going to Crush in 2026
    37:34 The Emerging Trend Most Agents Are Completely Sleeping On
    39:52 Live Content for Listings: Why Zoning Meetings Are Goldmines Nobody Is Mining
    42:05 Cringe Mountain and the Two-to-Four Year Grind Nobody Talks About
    44:06 Grind It Alone or Latch On — Byron's Closing Advice for Anyone Scared to Build in Public

    ➡️ Connect With Leo Pareja

    LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/leopareja/
    Instagram: https://instagram.com/leopareja/
    Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@leo.pareja

    45 min

About Leo Pareja Unfiltered

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Welcome to Pareja Unfiltered, where host Leo Pareja explores what it takes to lead, grow, and win.