Most of our daily time is spent at work with fellow coworkers, more than we see our loved ones. Our co-workers are the people who relate the most to us because they work side by side for hours throughout the week. It's unrealistic to think that we won’t ever create a bond or develop potential feelings for at least one co-worker. Whether those feelings are on a romantic level or just a pure deep friendship connection you’ll find it hard to keep the vibes as just “business”. So what are the pro’s and con’s of dating someone within your workplace? Jojo and Dayra run through those pros and cons as well as some "DO'S and DON'TS" in the event that you DO decide to cross that line. 

Family Meeting:

1. "My wife got super close with a male coworker. They are texting/calling each other constantly. I told her that it’s too much but she told me that I can’t tell her what to do. "

2. "So my girlfriend has been lying to me about her ex..."

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Red flags are the signs telling us to proceed with caution and that we're playing at our own risk. Sometimes those red flags are actually telling us that it maybe it’s time to let the relationship go.

Although it's usually easier to notice all the negative things that we experience, sometimes we just have to remind ourselves of all the positive things too. In this episode Dayra and Jojo tap into that positivity by discussing "Green Flags" when it comes to dating/relationships. They give examples of what they seek as green flags when dating someone such as good family connections, self awareness, acceptance of presentation, respectful of pronouns etc.

Family Meeting:

1. “I caught my girlfriend sexting another girl.”

2. “How do I get over the fear of approaching my crush?”

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The “Lesbian Masterdoc” is a google document that asks you to consider if you are a lesbian. This is the same master doc that Kehlani read that made her realize she may be a lesbian. It’s written like a blog post and it goes through bullet points to help you understand the difference between heterosexuality and compulsory heterosexuality which is the idea that heterosexuality is assumed and forced upon women, which may make women feel forced into being attracted to men, even when they might not be.  You may not relate OR you may REALLY connect with this google doc.  

We review a few sections from the chapter and discuss our thoughts on “Am I Lesbian?”, such as… 

Family Meeting Questions 

1. “I've been with my girlfriend for 10 months and I still haven't seen her n@ked or haven't gotten to really be intimate with her. " 

2. “I have heard Dayra say that she has a few health problems related to IBS. I’ve been going through similar issues and feel like there are no answers for what is truly wrong with my health."   

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In today’s episode we have Melanie Posner, muralist and artist. Her name rings a bell because she was part of the reality tv show Tampa Baes from Amazon Prime Video. The show was inspired by The Real L Word! In this episode we talk about.

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Unfortunately, we did not answer any family meeting questions in this episode!

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In EP 53 we dive into lesbian dating and the struggles of dating when it comes to

We also get into

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In EP 51 we talk about 10 things we wish we knew before coming out of the closet! We get into coming out to your family and friends, as well as bisexuality, straight girls, and more!

As always, in each episode, we answer questions from our regular listeners.

FAMILY MEETING QUESTIONS

1. "I’ve NEVER been on a date or been with anyone and I don’t know where to start. Any tips?"

2. "I think I'm polyamorous and I have a crush on two girls who happen to be sisters"

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We all want to be accepted into our partner's family, especially when in a QUEER relationship. In this episode we discuss how important it is to try to have a rapport with your partner's family.

We also talk about the following

Family Meeting Questions

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In this week's episode we talk about sex, sexual confidence and the "talk"! Some of the topics we discuss are 

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FAMILY MEETING QUESTIONS

1. "I want to propose to my girlfriend but my friends think it's too soon."

2. "What is a yoni egg? Was it spiders or STD's??"

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