We can't be sure when we will die and how many times we can meet each other. So let's not take anything for granted! Live like today is the last day of your life. We don't need to accumulate more knowledge, we need to practise what we already know, put it into use and we can know more. Knowledge is dead if it's only in the head. Do it consistently and with discipline. Discipline doesnot feel good in short term because we have to resist temptation. But it's like a naturally ripen fruit, it tastes good at due time. Love needs time, a lot, sometimes a decade, a lifetime to ripen. For all emotions to die down and it's a concious choice. We can not pull a tree out of a seed and pluck a green fruit, which is bitter and disappoints you. Water the trees, embrace the sun, wind, insects and do your own job. You can not sit at the tree and forget taking care of yourself. Leave result to nature. Don't settle for the conditioning of love that you are used to: longing, pain and pleasure. Go beyond it. Go beyond pain. There is a new dimension of love that is spacious, open, free and peaceful. I'll wait for you from this place of freedom. allow your heart to get broken as when it mends, it will be more tenacious and it will make you a real man.