Our maker fully intended for our lives to be blissful. The Holy Spirit is our comforter, and is in our lives to make it comfortable. As a child of The Spirit, you don’t need to have pain to gain.
Your logic and reasoning are not dependable. Most of the things you do are based on what seems right to you. If you keep making decisions based on common sense, your life becomes a struggle.
When you allow The Holy Spirit to guide you, most times what She tells you to do may not make sense to you. Sufferings come from the foolish choices we make. Allowing The Holy Spirit guide you would bring bliss, and sweetness into your life.