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Welcome back to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast, your go to LGBT Australian podcast for all things queer.

To wrap up a huge season, we ditch the script entirely and spin a wheel of random, funny, and unexpectedly deep queer questions. From pop culture hot takes to queer nostalgia, internet debates, and reflecting on our own experiences, this episode is about ending the season on a lighter, more playful note, without ignoring the real conversations that matter.

In this finale episode, we chat about:

• Whether you can be queer and still support JK Rowling
• If Taylor Swift is a queer icon or just brilliant at marketing
• Straight actors playing queer roles, does it matter?
• Queer childhood crushes and why they say so much about us
• Why lesbians love carabiners 
• The queerest animals, drag names we never used, and chaotic pop culture opinions

After a year filled with big conversations about queer history, trans rights, misinformation, media narratives, and politics, this episode was a lighter take on everything that is happening out there right now. 

No prep. No rules. Just two queer hosts, a spinning wheel, what could possibly go wrong?

Thank you for supporting us through Season 3...and until next time, we hope we’ve been perfectly queer 🌈

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Welcome back to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast, your go to LGBT Australian podcast for all things queer.

In this week’s episode of Let’s Be Perfectly Queer Podcast, we dive into Polari, the secret language used by gay men, drag performers, theatre performers and queer communities across Britain before homosexuality was decriminalised.

This hidden language wasn’t just camp fun, it was a tool for safety, identity, and resistance in a world where being queer could land you in prison.

Polari wasn’t just slang, it was survival!

We explore:

Where Polari came from — from theatre slang to sailor speak to criminal cant
How queer people used it to avoid police and persecution
Iconic Polari words (vada, bona, eek, nanti, zhoosh) and what they actually mean
Why queer-coded languages appear in oppressed communities worldwide
Why Polari matters today — and how it keeps resurfacing in pop culture, drag, and queer history

This episode is a fun, campy, heartfelt celebration of queer resilience, language, and the ways LGBTQ+ communities have always found ways to stay connected even in the shadows.

If you’re a history nerd, a linguistics lover, or just fabulosa at heart… this one’s for you.

🎧 Listen in and learn a secret language with us... and until next time, stay perfectly queer!

Links we found useful when creating this episode:

• https://www.lancaster.ac.uk/staff/bakerjp/polari/home.htm
• https://www.liverpoolmuseums.org.uk/stories/polari-and-hidden-history-of-gay-seafarers
• https://www.bbc.com/culture/article/20180212-polari-the-code-language-gay-men-used-to-survive
• https://www.out.com/media/polari-secret-gay-language-explained-words-list-definitions
• https://lithub.com/the-feints-and-jabs-of-polari-britains-gay-slang/
• https://yourdandi.co.uk/polari-the-secret-gay-language/
• https://wp.lancs.ac.uk/fabulosa/whats-polari/

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Welcome back to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast, your go to LGBT Australian podcast for all things queer.

In this episode, we sit down with advocate, author and podcaster Todd Rennebohm to unpack one of Canada’s most heated political battlegrounds: Saskatchewan’s so-called “trans agenda.”

Todd, a white cisgender straight man walks us through the province’s recent policies targeting transgender students, the backlash against queer-inclusive education, and how far-right rhetoric is shaping school environments across Canada. We dig into what’s actually happening on the ground, the dangerous myths driving these laws, and why families, teachers, and allies are pushing back.

From lawsuits and “parental rights” arguments to the weaponisation of misinformation, Todd discusses who is really behind this movement and his podcast series Transgression - My Search For the REAL Trans Agenda in Saskatchewan. 

🌈 We also explore:

• Saskatchewan’s pronoun policies and their real impact on students
• How anti-trans narratives mirror global political strategies
• Why “protecting children” is being used to harm queer youth
• What allies can do to support trans students in hostile school systems
• The power of local activism & queer community resilience

This conversation isn’t just about Saskatchewan, it’s about a global tactic to erase trans lives. And Todd is here to help us understand it, challenge it, and build something better.

🎧 Listen in and learn how misinformation becomes policy and how we can stop it... and until next time, stay perfectly queer!

Archie & Katie 🌈

Todd Rennebohm's Links:

• Transgression My Search For the REAL Trans Agenda in Saskatchewan
• Bunny Hugs and Mental Health Podcast
• Sometimes Daddy Cries Book
• Transgression Series Instagram
• Bunny hugs podcast instagram

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Welcome back to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast, your go to LGBT Australian podcast for all things queer.

In this episode of Let’s Be Perfectly Queer, we sit down with Professor Paula Gerber, one of Australia’s leading human rights scholars and a fierce advocate for LGBTQIA+ equality. Paula shares her incredible journey from working in a male-dominated construction law firm to becoming a key voice in protecting queer and trans rights through law and education.

We dive into her book Sex, Gender and Identity: Trans Rights in Australia and unpack what it means to “turn the tide on a climate of hatred.” From tackling misinformation in the media to highlighting real stories of love, resilience, and progress, Paula explores how Australia compares to the UK, The US and are neighbouring countries in protecting trans and gender-diverse people.

We also discuss:

• Why Australia’s legal protections for trans people matter
• How the media fuels fear instead of understanding
• Positive trans stories the news ignores
• What allies can do to truly support trans and gender-diverse communities
• The importance of the Asia-Pacific fight for LGBTQIA+ rights
• Why inclusion still makes a difference

Paula also shares her personal turning point, a life-changing accident that pushed her to leave corporate law behind and dedicate her life to equality and human rights.

This is a powerful, insightful, and hopeful conversation about how we can all stand up for fairness, inclusion, and love no matter who we are or where we live.

🎧 Listen in and learn how everyday Australians can help shape a more inclusive future for all... and until next time, stay perfectly queer!

Archie & Katie 🌈


Paula Gerber Links:

• The Book
• Instagram
• Website

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Welcome back to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast, your go to LGBTQ+ Australian podcast for all things queer.

In this episode, we ask the ultimate question: is Wicked The Musical actually queer? 

With the release of the new Wicked movie starring Cynthia Erivo and Ariana Grande, we unpack the queer subtext, LGBTQ+ themes, and history behind one of the world’s most beloved musicals.

From The Wizard of Oz’s hidden queer roots to Gregory Maguire’s original novel, Wicked: The Life and Times of the Wicked Witch of the West, we explore how this story became a metaphor for otherness, identity, and queer love.

We talk about:
 ✨ The queer subtext between Elphaba and Glinda, were they more than friends?
 🌈 The LGBTQ+ symbolism behind The Wizard of Oz and “Friends of Dorothy”
💬 How author Gregory Maguire’s own identity shaped the story
🎭 Why Wicked still resonates with queer audiences two decades later
💚 How art, theatre, and representation can create belonging for LGBTQIA+ people

So whether you cried during “For Good,” grew up loving Wicked, or just want to understand why queer fans feel so connected to Oz, this one’s for you.

🎧 Listen in and learn about the queer subtext behind Wicked The Musical ... and until next time, stay perfectly queer!

Archie & Katie 🌈

 Do YOU think Wicked is queer?

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Welcome to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast, your go to LGBT Australian podcast for all things queer.

In this episode we chat with Melbourne-based queer indie-pop artist Harper Bloom, whose heartfelt lyrics and unapologetic storytelling have made her one of Australia’s most exciting emerging queer voices.

Harper opens up about her musical journey and how embracing her queerness and confidence influenced her sound.

Here’s what we cover in this episode:

•  The inspiration behind her new EP House of Cards and hit single Sleepy Head (rated ⭐ ⭐ ⭐ ⭐ on Triple J)
• The intersection of queerness, creativity, and identity in today’s music industry
• How confidence, community, and collaboration fuel authentic artistry
• Harper’s advice for queer musicians starting their journey

Whether you’re an indie-pop lover, a queer artist finding your voice, or simply love hearing how personal stories become powerful music, this conversation will leave you inspired.

👉 Follow Harper Bloom, stream House of Cards, and join us for a vibrant chat about visibility, vulnerability, and the joy of being perfectly queer.

🎧 Grab your headphones and discover a new aussie queer artist... and until next time, stay perfectly queer!

Archie & Katie 🌈


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Welcome to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast, your go to LGBT Australian podcast for all things queer.

This week we sit down with writer, actor, comedian and creator Ash Perez, best known for their hit Buzzfeed videos, 2nd Try and their new series New Guy Tries. Together, we dive into the transgender experience from a trans-masculine perspective in a raw, funny, and deeply honest Q&A.

Ash opens up about the inspiration behind New Guy Tries, a show that follows them navigating everyday “firsts” after transitioning. Everything from gym culture to dating, while breaking down myths and stereotypes about being trans. 

Here’s what we cover in this episode:

• What it really feels like to step into the world as a “new guy”
• Hear all about the New Guy Tries series
• The awkward, funny, and sometimes emotional “first-time” moments in transition
• Feminism and feeling loss when transitioning
• Grief and transitioning
• Transitioning in the public eye

This is a heartfelt, affirming, and eye-opening conversation between two trans guys swapping stories, comparing notes, and celebrating the joy and messiness of transition. Whether you’re trans, questioning, or simply want to better understand the trans-masculine experience, this episode is packed with insights, laughs, and moments of recognition.
 

🎧 Grab your headphone discover why Ash’s New Guy Tries is more than just a show... and until next time, stay perfectly queer!

Archie & Katie 🌈

Here more from Ash Perez:

• On the Phone with Ash & Amanda
• New Guy Tries
• Tiktok
• Instagram
• New Guy Tries YouTube

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Welcome to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast, your go to LGBT Australian podcast for all things queer.

This week's we're back with one of our favourite segments "Queer and A". This is where we dive into Reddit's "Ask LGBT" threads to answer questions in the good old reddit way.

In this episode, we're tackling a range of topics:

• Queer Allyship: Can a straight, cisgender guy paint his nails with a rainbow for Pride without it being cultural appropriation? We weigh in, sharing our thoughts and some of the top Reddit comments on the subject.
• Family Dynamics: A trans woman asks for advice on dealing with her sister, who uses her kids as an excuse for her transphobic behavior. We discuss setting boundaries with family and the importance of not "making yourself smaller to appease her".
• Internalised Homophobia: A 17-year-old girl struggling with her own internalized homophobia asks for advice and resources to become "more of an ally to myself". 
• Toxic Relationships: We get real about a bisexual woman's dilemma: her boyfriend is "a little homophobic," using slurs and making her feel uncomfortable

We also share some important news about a new report from LGBTQ rights group, OutRight International, revealing that politicians worldwide used anti-LGBTQ rhetoric in their campaigns last year. We reflect on the progress our community has made despite the current political climate, noting that LGBTQ people have more support and organizations now than ever before.

We also give you our opinion on "Lesbian Space Princess" currently playing in Luna Cinemas across Australia. 

🎧 Grab your headphones and join us as we step into a world where Reddit questions help us feel less alone… and until next time, stay perfectly queer!

Archie & Katie 🌈

Links:

Outright International Report

If you have found anything we have spoken about in this episode difficult or triggering, you can reach out to the following services:

Phone:

• Lifeline is available 24/7 – 13 11 14
• Beyondblue is available 24/7 - 1300 224 636
• Crisis Care Helpline is available 24/7 – 1800 199 008
• Kids Helpline is available 24/7 – 1800 55 1800
• RUAH Community Services is available 24/7 - 13 78 24

Online:

• Head to health online chat  - headtohealth.gov.au
• RUAH Community Services - ruah.org.au or [email protected] 

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Welcome to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast, your go to LGBT Australian podcast for all things queer.

This week, we’re diving into a hidden piece of queer history Casa Susanna.

Back in the 1950s and ’60s, when living authentically could get you arrested, Susanna Valenti and her wife, Marie Tonell, opened their home to transgender women. It was a safe place for guests where they could live as themselves with no fear and no judgment.

But before we get there, we’re also unpacking what’s been going on in Australian sport with the AFL’s latest homophobic slur scandal. We have a discussion about the culture around men’s sport, and why Mitch Brown coming out as bisexual is such a big deal.

Here’s what we cover in this ep:
🏉 The AFL scandal and how supporters use “sledging” as a Homophobia excuse
🌈 Mitch Brown’s the first AFL player past or present to come out as Bisexual
🏠 The story of Casa Susanna and the people who found sanctuary there

It’s history, sport, and queer resilience all rolled into one episode, plus a few tangents along the way (you know us).

🎧 Grab your headphones and join us as we step into a world where being yourself was radical...and until next time, stay perfectly queer!

Archie & Katie 🌈

Links we found useful for this episode:

• https://edition.cnn.com/2024/06/26/style/casa-susanna-trans-photo-archive/index.html
• https://www.theguardian.com/tv-and-radio/2023/jan/31/casa-susanna-review-this-portrait-of-queer-life-in-an-era-of-illegality-is-incredibly-moving
• https://thamesandhudson.com.au/product/casa-susanna-the-story-of-the-first-trans-network-in-the-united-states-1959-1968/
• https://www.pbs.org/wgbh/americanexperience/films/casa-susanna/
• https://www.anothermag.com/art-photography/10855/the-story-of-casa-susanna-a-1960s-escape-for-gender-non-conformists

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Welcome to Let's Be Perfectly Queer Podcast, your go to LGBT Australian podcast for all things queer.

This week, we’re diving into Hinge’s Love Beyond Labels Report with Moe Ari Brown, licensed therapist and Hinge’s Love & Connection Expert. 

Are traditional gender and sexuality labels holding us back? Why are more queer daters rejecting rigid categories and what does “label fatigue” actually mean? That is what we are tackling in this episode. 

We break down:
✅ Why labels can feel suffocating even when they once helped us
✅ The rise of “label fluidity” and how it’s changing queer dating
✅ How to date beyond your “type” (and why it’s worth it)
✅ The future of emotional safety in LGBTQIA+ relationships

Plus, Moe shares personal stories about navigating identity, the pressure to “perform” for others, and why healing happens in connection. Whether you’re tired of boxes or just curious about dating differently, this episode is packed with heart, humour, and real-world advice.

🎧 So grab your headphones, learn something new... and until next time, stay perfectly queer!

Archie & Katie 🌈

Moe Ari Brown:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveoutproud

Website: https://theemoeari.com/

Hinge:

Newsroom: https://hinge.co/newsroom/2025-LGBTQ-Report

Love Beyond Labels Report: The Report

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