Let's Get Knotty

By Knotted

Welcome to Let’s Get Knotty, a podcast for real talk and honest conversations about all things relationships and marriage - the good, the bad and the knotty. We believe marriages are worth fighting fo... more

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The podcast currently has 18 episodes available.

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November 24, 2022 17. Gratitude in Your Marriage (with an honest update + important announcement!)
Happy Thanksgiving! In honor of this holiday, we’re talking about the power of expressing gratitude in your marriage. We’re also giving an honest update and important announcement about the Let’s Get Knotty podcast - why we’re taking a break and when you can expect us back.
Make sure you’re subscribed so you don’t miss season 2!
And if you have questions or episode suggestions for the next season, we’d love to hear from you! Submit your suggestions here: https://knottedmarriage.com/podcast/#contribute
// TIMESTAMPS //
» 0:00 Expressing gratitude in your marriage
» 16:57 An honest update + important announcement
// MENTIONED //
△ Ep. 16 with the Hughes talking about making room for your best yes’s: https://knottedmarriage.com/16/
△ The Paris vlog: https://youtu.be/qp7aM7IqHoM
// RESOURCES //
☆ Build a solid foundation for a lasting marriage with Ready to Knot: https://bit.ly/lgkreadytoknot
△ 7 questions to ask before you get married: https://bit.ly/lgk7questions
Your support means everything to us. Please subscribe, leave a review, and share a screenshot on Instagram @knottedmarriage!
// LET’S BE FRIENDS //
» Join us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/knottedmarriage/
» Subscribe for more encouragement on YouTube: https://bit.ly/knottedsubscribe
» Check out Mollie’s channel: https://www.youtube.com/molliemason
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28min
November 17, 2022 16. Chasing Your Dreams While You’re Married ft. Christopher & Hannah Hughes
Have you ever been told your dreams have to end when you tie the knot or have kids? Or ever struggled with how to chase your calling while also supporting your spouse in theirs?
Christopher & Hannah Hughes are both musicians, artists, and entrepreneurs and they’ve been learning how to do just that. In this episode, they share some really wonderful advice on: chasing dreams with your spouse, how to find a mutual purpose for your marriage, and how not to compare your life to others while you’re on the path for your calling.
If you have a tug on your heart to pursue a non-traditional life, we know you’ll be so encouraged by this episode!
// TIMESTAMPS //
» 0:00 Meet the Hughes and their movie-worthy love story
» 13:30 How they’ve used marriage counseling to proactively work on their marriage
» 21:26 How they’ve found compromise in the ways they’re wired differently
» 25:13 Supporting each other’s dreams + making sacrifices to chase an unconventional life
» 34:20 How they find mutual purpose inside their marriage while chasing their own dreams
» 45:27 What’s on Hannah & Christopher’s Knotty List?
// MEET THE HUGHES //
△ Listen to Hannah’s podcast - the By Words Show: https://www.instagram.com/thebywordsshow/
△ Hannah’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thehannahhughes/
△ Christopher’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hughesphoto.co/
// MARRIAGE RESOURCES //
☆ Build a solid foundation for a lasting marriage with Ready to Knot: https://bit.ly/lgkreadytoknot
△ 7 questions to ask before you get married: https://bit.ly/lgk7questions
Your support means everything to us. Please subscribe, leave a review, and share a screenshot on Instagram @knottedmarriage!
// LET’S BE FRIENDS //
» Join us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/knottedmarriage/
» Subscribe for more encouragement on YouTube: https://bit.ly/knottedsubscribe
» Check out Mollie’s channel: https://www.youtube.com/molliemason
// CONTRIBUTE TO THE SHOW //
Have a question for our next Q&A episode? Suggestions for topics or guests? We’d love to hear from you! Submit your suggestions here: https://knottedmarriage.com/podcast/#contribute
...more
59min
November 10, 2022 15. He Needs Space & I'm Scared of Conflict | How to Talk to Your Partner About Your Relationship + What to Do When You Communicate Differently
Today, we’re answering Taylor’s question regarding how to better address problems in her relationship with her fiancee when he wants space to think and she wants to fix things.
If you find yourself avoiding hard conversations with your partner because you communicate differently and you’re not sure how to navigate it, this episode is for you!
// MENTIONED //
△ Ep. 02 about WENI negative communication patterns: https://knottedmarriage.com/02/
△ Ep. 12 about weekly family meetings: https://knottedmarriage.com/12/
△ Ep. 14 with the Kedershas about their weekly meeting: https://knottedmarriage.com/14
// RESOURCES //
☆ Build a solid foundation for a lasting marriage with Ready to Knot: https://bit.ly/lgkreadytoknot
△ 7 questions to ask before you get married: https://bit.ly/lgk7questions
Your support means everything to us. Please subscribe, leave a review, and share a screenshot on Instagram @knottedmarriage!
// LET’S BE FRIENDS //
» Join us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/knottedmarriage/
» Subscribe for more encouragement on YouTube: https://bit.ly/knottedsubscribe
» Check out Mollie’s channel: https://www.youtube.com/molliemason
// CONTRIBUTE TO THE SHOW //
Have a question for our next Q&A episode? Suggestions for topics or guests? We’d love to hear from you! Submit your suggestions here: https://knottedmarriage.com/podcast/#contribute
...more
36min
November 03, 2022 14. 90% of Struggling Couples Have *THIS* in Common | Advice From a Marriage Expert ft. Kristen & Scott Kedersha
Want to know the biggest cause of struggling marriages? We’re getting the inside scoop from a marriage expert!
Scott Kedersha is a marriage pastor and has been married to his bride Kristen for 21 years.
In this episode, they share with us all their best advice from a marriage counselor: the biggest misconceptions about marriage, the biggest mistakes couples make, and some honest confessions about what they struggle with in their own marriage.
// TIMESTAMPS //
» 0:00 Meet Kristen & Scott Kedersha
» 2:25 Their messy love story: What they got wrong then how they got it right
» 8:45 Trusting your people to speak into whether or not your relationship is healthy
» 11:15 How walking in community has blessed their marriage
» 15:35 The biggest misconceptions people have about marriage - 2 contradictions
» 22:39 The biggest roadblocks to a happy, healthy marriage (what 90+% of couples who are struggling have in common)
» 26:40 What healthy community is + how to find it
» 33:39 Their honest confessions of the things that are hard in their own marriage
» 44:02 How to date your spouse
» 50:05 What’s on Kristen & Scott’s Knotty List?
// MEET THE KEDERSHAS //
» Scott’s Website: https://www.scottkedersha.com/
» Scott’s book Ready or Knot: https://amzn.to/3h8Fmiz
» Scott’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/skedersha/
// MENTIONED //
△ Ep. 07 on Soulmates: http://knottedmarriage.com/07/
△ Ep. 12 on weekly family meetings: https://knottedmarriage.com/12/
// RESOURCES //
☆ Build a solid foundation for a lasting marriage with Ready to Knot: https://bit.ly/lgkreadytoknot
△ 7 questions to ask before you get married: https://bit.ly/lgk7questions
Your support means everything to us. Please subscribe, leave a review, and share a screenshot on Instagram @knottedmarriage!
// LET’S BE FRIENDS //
» Join us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/knottedmarriage/
» Subscribe for more encouragement on YouTube: https://bit.ly/knottedsubscribe
» Check out Mollie’s channel: https://www.youtube.com/molliemason
// CONTRIBUTE TO THE SHOW //
Have a question for our next Q&A episode? Suggestions for topics or guests? We’d love to hear from you! Submit your suggestions here: https://knottedmarriage.com/podcast/#contribute
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1h 9min
October 27, 2022 13. A Disaster Night in Paris + a Surprise Proposal in Italy | The Crazy Stories from Our Trip + Why We Prioritize Travel for Our Marriage
We just got back from 3 weeks in Europe and boy do we have some stories to tell!
We made a promise to each other before we got married to value experiences over things. We’re sharing the details of how + why we prioritize travel, what it means to our marriage, and all the wild stories from this particular trip.
// TIMESTAMPS //
» 0:00 Why we went in on this trip » 19:24 The crazy stories from our trip, our big conflict + our sweetest memories
// MENTIONED //
△ Ep 3 with Jess + Chandler: https://knottedmarriage.com/03/
△ Ep. 8 on how to reconcile in conflict: https://knottedmarriage.com/08/
△ Watch the vlogs of this trip on Mollie’s channel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qp7aM7IqHoM&list=PL7X-ikyNrhwujXITL-rBYUj7XpLUNydqI&index=3
// RESOURCES //
☆ Build a solid foundation for a lasting marriage with Ready to Knot: https://bit.ly/lgkreadytoknot
△ 7 questions to ask before you get married: https://bit.ly/lgk7questions
Your support means everything to us. Please subscribe, leave a review, and share a screenshot on Instagram @knottedmarriage!
// LET’S BE FRIENDS //
» Join us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/knottedmarriage/
» Subscribe for more encouragement on YouTube: https://bit.ly/knottedsubscribe
» Check out Mollie’s channel: https://www.youtube.com/molliemason
// CONTRIBUTE TO THE SHOW //
Have a question for our next Q&A episode? Suggestions for topics or guests? We’d love to hear from you! Submit your suggestions here: https://knottedmarriage.com/podcast/#contribute
...more
56min
October 20, 2022 12. Working as a Team in Paying Off $80k in Debt + Weekly Family Meetings ft. Matt & Lana Sullivan
Paying off debt with your spouse and checking in with a weekly family meeting - the Sullivans are schooling us on so many practical ways to work as a team in your marriage!
Matt & Lana Sullivan (or MattLana as we’ve officially dubbed them) have been married for 10 years and have navigated moving across the country, paying off a large sum of debt, changing career paths, and raising 4 young kids. Through all their experiences, they’ve learned disciplines and practices that have helped them operate as a team in their marriage with a unified goal.
In this episode, they’re sharing how they paid off $80k of debt in just 2.5 years and all the juicy details of the weekly team meeting that helped them do it!
Matt & Lana have such wisdom and faithfulness and we know you’ll be really encouraged by their story and excited to use the tips and tools their sharing in your own marriage.
// TIMESTAMPS //
» 0:00 Meet the Sullivans
» 03:05 Their love story
» 20:12 The choice to leave what was comfortable for what was right - how they navigated a hard decision together
» 35:45 The structured weekly meeting they use to stay unified in their marriage + on top of their goals
» 53:50 What’s on MattLana’s Knotty List?
» 58:43 A few rapid-fire questions
» 1:07:42 How to follow them for more + a gift for your own marriage!
// MEET THE SULLIVANS //
» Lana’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/girlteachme/
» Check out Lana’s faithful womanhood YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCRoZe-liTE-fTVPoLrHRTxQ
// MENTIONED //
△ Ep. 09 about finances in marriage: https://knottedmarriage.com/09/
△ DOWNLOAD Matt & Lana’s Weekly Team Meeting template: https://motivated-composer-3025.ck.page/3e175349ab
△ Devotions for a Sacred Marriage: https://amzn.to/3yOWTSD
// RESOURCES //
☆ Build a solid foundation for a lasting marriage with Ready to Knot: https://bit.ly/lgkreadytoknot
△ 7 questions to ask before you get married: https://bit.ly/lgk7questions
Your support means everything to us. Please subscribe, leave a review, and share a screenshot on Instagram @knottedmarriage!
// LET’S BE FRIENDS //
» Join us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/knottedmarriage/
» Subscribe for more encouragement on YouTube: https://bit.ly/knottedsubscribe
» Check out Mollie’s channel: https://www.youtube.com/molliemason
// CONTRIBUTE TO THE SHOW //
Have a question for our next Q&A episode? Suggestions for topics or guests? We’d love to hear from you! Submit your suggestions here: https://knottedmarriage.com/podcast/#contribute
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1h 11min
October 13, 2022 11. Reacting to Tiktok’s Dating Advice
The good, the bad, and the absolutely terrible: we’re reacting to some of Tiktok’s dating advice and giving our honest thoughts!

// TIMESTAMPS //
» 0:00 What Tiktok has to say about dating
» 2:56 TikTok 1
» 12:40 TikTok 2
» 24:38 TikTok 3
» 35:14 TikTok 4

// TIKTOKS MENTIONED //
△ https://www.tiktok.com/@confidencechris/video/7006765915081542917
△ https://www.tiktok.com/@happilykenna/video/7091282444195810602
△ https://www.tiktok.com/@therapybabe/video/7049197501274180911
△ https://www.tiktok.com/@actuallykier/video/7059036469721124143

// RESOURCES //
☆ Build a solid foundation for a lasting marriage with Ready to Knot: https://bit.ly/lgkreadytoknot
△ 7 questions to ask before you get married: https://bit.ly/lgk7questions

Your support means everything to us. Please subscribe, leave a review, and share a screenshot on Instagram @knottedmarriage!

// LET’S BE FRIENDS //
» Join us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/knottedmarriage/
» Subscribe for more encouragement on YouTube: https://bit.ly/knottedsubscribe
» Check out Mollie’s channel: https://www.youtube.com/molliemason

// CONTRIBUTE TO THE SHOW //
Have a question for our next Q&A episode? Suggestions for topics or guests? We’d love to hear from you! Submit your suggestions here: https://knottedmarriage.com/podcast/#contribute
...more
54min
October 06, 2022 10. Our Unpopular Opinions on Marriage | These Might Surprise You… Happiness, Sex, and more
We have a lot to say about marriage that might surprise you, so we’re sharing our unpopular marriage opinions! We’re covering some of the bigger lies people believe, the surprising thing that helps marriages last, and how to actually have a thriving sex life.
Let us know what you think and if you agree with our unpopular relationship opinions!

// TIMESTAMPS //
» 0:00 Our unpopular marriage opinions
» 2:03 No 1 - Don’t put this pressure on your spouse
» 8:54 No 2 - Stop thinking this is necessary
» 19:11 No 3 - This one might surprise you about sex
» 24:26 No 4 - This is what builds a lasting marriage
» 29:21 No 5 - You reap what you sow

// RESOURCES //
☆ Build a solid foundation for a lasting marriage with Ready to Knot: https://bit.ly/lgkreadytoknot
△ 7 questions to ask before you get married: https://bit.ly/lgk7questions

Your support means everything to us. Please subscribe, leave a review, and share a screenshot on Instagram @knottedmarriage!

// LET’S BE FRIENDS //
» Join us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/knottedmarriage/
» Subscribe for more encouragement on YouTube: https://bit.ly/knottedsubscribe
» Check out Mollie’s channel: https://www.youtube.com/molliemason

// CONTRIBUTE TO THE SHOW //
Have a question for our next Q&A episode? Suggestions for topics or guests? We’d love to hear from you! Submit your suggestions here: https://knottedmarriage.com/podcast/#contribute
...more
37min
September 29, 2022 09. Should You Share Your Money in Marriage? | The Dos & Don’ts of Merging Money After Marriage
Should you merge finances when you get married? In this episode, we’re breaking it all down: what the research says about why money matters to your marriage, reasons why you should and shouldn't share money in marriage, and the dos and don’ts of how to combine finances when you're married.

// TIMESTAMPS //
» 0:00 Intro
» 2:48 Why money matters to your marriage
» 5:40 Why you shouldn’t merge your finances
» 13:55 Why you should merge your finances

// MENTIONED //
☆ Build a solid foundation for a lasting marriage with Ready to Knot: https://bit.ly/lgkreadytoknot
△ 7 questions to ask before you get married: https://bit.ly/lgk7questions
△ Research mentioned: https://www.cnbc.com/2022/03/29/couples-who-pool-their-money-are-more-likely-to-stay-together https://freshaccounts.amtd.com/blog-details/2017/The-Sneaky-Ways-Married-People-Hide-Spending-from-their-Spouses https://anderson-review.ucla.edu/joint-bank-account/

Your support means everything to us. Please subscribe, leave a review, and share a screenshot on Instagram @knottedmarriage!

// LET’S BE FRIENDS //
» Join us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/knottedmarriage/
» Subscribe for more encouragement on YouTube: https://bit.ly/knottedsubscribe
» Check out Mollie’s channel: https://www.youtube.com/molliemason

// CONTRIBUTE TO THE SHOW //
Have a question for our next Q&A episode? Suggestions for topics or guests? We’d love to hear from you! Submit your suggestions here: https://knottedmarriage.com/podcast/#contribute
...more
47min
September 22, 2022 08. Stop Saying “I’m Sorry” | How to Properly Apologize to Your Partner with *This* One Question
Find yourself keeping a tally of all the ways your partner has wronged you? We all know “I’m sorry” doesn’t always go very far in reconciling hurts. In today’s episode, we’re talking about reconciling in your relationship and how to actually apologize effectively. We’re sharing one of our favorite conflict resolution techniques with a step 3 step apology and 1 very simple but important 4 letter question for how to apologize to someone you hurt.
A healthy, thriving marriage can’t exist without grace and forgiveness, and this is an important tool to help foster that environment inside your relationship!
Let us know how it goes when you try it!

// TIMESTAMPS //
» 0:00 Intro
» 00:56 You will hurt your spouse - It’s how you respond to it that matters
» 3:56 Different responses to conflict and why they don’t work
» 10:33 Stop saying “I’m sorry” and instead start asking THIS question
» 13:57 The 3 steps to asking for forgiveness
» 18:58 Accepting and granting forgiveness
» 23:55 Why the small hurts are so important
» 26:42 Creating an environment of grace and forgiveness
» 35:42 Mollie’s at it again… Why humility matters
» 38:24 Steps recap + how to start practicing reconciliation

// RESOURCES //
☆ Build a solid foundation for a lasting marriage with Ready to Knot: https://bit.ly/lgkreadytoknot
△ 7 questions to ask before you get married: https://bit.ly/lgk7questions

Your support means everything to us. Please subscribe, leave a review, and share a screenshot on Instagram @knottedmarriage!

// LET’S BE FRIENDS //
» Join us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/knottedmarriage/
» Subscribe for more encouragement on YouTube: https://bit.ly/knottedsubscribe
» Check out Mollie’s channel: https://www.youtube.com/molliemason

// CONTRIBUTE TO THE SHOW //
Have a question for our next Q&A episode? Suggestions for topics or guests? We’d love to hear from you! Submit your suggestions here: https://knottedmarriage.com/podcast/#contribute
...more
43min

FAQs about Let's Get Knotty:

How many episodes does Let's Get Knotty have?

The podcast currently has 18 episodes available.