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New Season: Your Opportunity to Decide Who You Want to Become

A new season is exciting — but it can also feel overwhelming. New coach, new teammates, pressure to improve, school starting, social life… it’s a lot. And when that little “what if” voice sneaks in (“What if I’m not good enough? What if I get benched?”), it can take over before you even step on the field.

In this episode, we’re flipping the script. Instead of letting fear set the tone, you’ll learn how to take control of your mindset and decide who you want to become this season.

Here’s what we discover:

• A simple 4-step system to set the right tone for your season.

• Step 1: How to stop, take your location, and get clear on where you are right now.

✨ Plus: I’ve created a self-assessment for athletes to help you start this season with awareness and intention.

🎧 Listen now — and bring your assessment to the next episode. Together, we’ll turn your starting point into your advantage.

If you want to start the new season stronger, contact me, I will guide you to develop the mindset you need to breakthrough performances and consistent success!

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In this episode, I dive into one of the most misunderstood yet powerful concepts in the mental game: trust. You’ll learn why confidence and trust are not the same, how to switch from a training mindset to a performance mindset, and why most athletes get stuck in the transition between practice and competition.

Let's unpack a simple 3-part framework to help you build trust where it matters most: on game day.

What You’ll Learn:

 • The difference between confidence and trust

 • Why training and performance require different mindsets

 • How to shift from control to flow

 • A 3-step framework to train trust before, during, and after competition

Questions to reflect on:

 1. How do you prepare for practice?

 2. How do you prepare for competition?

Trust Framework:

 • Before performance: Prepare the mindset

 • During performance: Trust your work

 • After performance: Reflect, reset, and refocus

If you’re ready to dive deeper into your trust mindset, build your pre-game plan, or learn how to reset under pressure—reach out.

Let’s train the mental game, together.

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In this episode of Let’s Go Mental, we dive into one of the most common challenges for athletes: keeping your cool under pressure. Whether it’s a bad call, a teammate not playing their part, or your own performance slipping — frustration can take over and ruin your game.

What we break down:

• Why we lose our composure in the first place
• What to do if you’ve already lost it
• The powerful 3 R’s tool: Recognize, Regroup, Refocus
• How to turn awareness into control and bounce back faster

This isn’t just for athletes. These tools can help you in school, at home, with friends, or anywhere pressure shows up.

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Listen to the the episodes about Expectation and Perfectionism

Do you hold yourself to unrealistically high standards? Feel like you’re never “good enough” even when you’re working hard? You might be dealing with perfectionism—and in this episode, we’re breaking it down.

In this episode we will:

• Understand what perfectionism really is

• Recognize how it shows up in your game and mindset

• Learn how to shift from pressure to progress

• Discover powerful mental shifts that build confidence

Plus, there’s a free worksheet in the bio to help you reflect and take action starting today.

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Today we speak about expectation and how to transform and shift from expectations to execution.

Learn how to:

• Step into your performance “bubble” where distractions don’t reach you

• Let go of mistakes and focus on the present moment

• Use your breath as a mental reset tool — even in the middle of the game

• Replace negative confidence metaphors with empowering ones

• Create your own trigger word to bounce back quickly

• Build confidence one play at a time, like lighting a fire

Quote to Remember:

“Confidence isn’t like ice — it doesn’t melt under pressure. It’s like fire. One spark leads to another.”

For Parents & Coaches:

This episode is a great pre-game listen for your young athlete. You can also use it as a prompt to start conversations about emotional control, resilience, and staying mentally present during competition.

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What if I tell you that no matter what you choose in life, it’s going to be hard?

Think about it:

• Training every day? Hard.

• Skipping practice and falling behind? Also hard.

• Holding yourself accountable? Hard.

• Living with regret? Even harder.

The truth is, you don’t get to avoid difficulty—you get to choose which hard you’re willing to face. And in today’s episode, we’ll break down how to make the choices that push you toward growth instead of regret.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

✅ How to shift your mindset and see choices as a privilege, not a burden

✅ A simple 3-step process to make the right “hard” choice

✅ The power of thinking about your future self before making decisions

✅ Why easy choices often lead to regret, while hard choices lead to success

🎧 Listen, reflect, and ask yourself: Which hard will you choose?

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In this episode, we tackle the negative impact of comparison in sports—and in life. I share insights on how comparing yourself to others can lower your self-esteem and hold you back. More importantly, I reveal how to flip comparison into a powerful tool for growth.

Key Points:

• The Comparison Trap:

Understand how comparing achievements, skills, or even physical traits can be a joy killer.

• How Our Brain Works:

A brief look at how our brain’s reward, decision-making, and self-evaluation processes are activated when we compare ourselves to others.

• Different Journeys:

Recognize that every athlete is unique—with different starting points, abilities, and goals.

• Shifting Your Mindset 

3 Simple Steps:

1. Observe, Don’t Judge: Learn from others’ strengths without harsh self-criticism.

2. Decide Your Priority: Focus on one key area to improve instead of trying to change everything at once.

3. Focus on Your Own Process: Concentrate on your effort, mindset, and commitment to personal growth.

Practical Tip:

Next time you catch yourself comparing, pause, take a deep breath, and ask, “What makes them better? What can I learn from them?” Then, channel that energy into your own development.

Bonus:

Check out our episode on “Control what you can control” for more tips on mastering your mindset.

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Making mental training a habit is just as important as physical training. Embrace your journey, work on both your mind and body, and together, let’s go mental!

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In this episode I talk about self-reflection. Most athletes avoid it because it feels awkward, boring, or uncomfortable, but self-reflection is the key to improve—in sports, and in life. 

If your goal is to reach the top 1% in your sport, this practice is for you!

Key Takeaways:

• What is self-reflection? It’s the process of pausing to think about what happened, why it happened, and what you can learn to improve for the future.

• Why is it essential? Without reflection, you risk repeating the same mistakes over and over. Reflection helps you identify strengths, weaknesses, and patterns, giving you a roadmap for growth.

• How to start:

• Dedicate 5-10 minutes after practice, a game, or at the end of the week.

• Ask simple questions like:

• What went well?

• What could have been better?

• What can I do differently next time?

• Write it down to clarify your thoughts and track your progress.

Practical Framework:

Barbara introduces the 3 R Process for reflection:

1. Reflect: Understand what happened without judgment.

2. Reset: Let go of the past and focus on actionable next steps.

3. Restart: Implement changes and grow from your insights.

Why Reflection Matters for Athletes:

• Helps you internalize feedback from coaches.

• Allows you to build on successes and fix mistakes.

• Creates a habit of intentional improvement that accelerates progress.

Quote of the Week:

“Reflection isn’t just about looking back—it’s about moving forward with purpose.”

Call to Action:

Share this episode with a teammate or friend who’s serious about improving. And let me know how self-reflection is helping you grow—she’d love to hear from you!

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In this episode I talk about the key difference between being interested and being committed mainly in sports (but in life it is not so different!). Are you the type of athlete who only shows up when it’s convenient, or are you committed to showing up no matter what? Learn why commitment is more than a choice—it’s a skill you can build.

What You’ll Learn:

• The difference between being interested and committed.

• Why commitment is about who you are becoming, not just what you do.

• How to shift from hesitation to action by asking better questions.

• Practical tips to start building your commitment muscle today.

Free Resource:

Implementation Worksheet to help you ask the right questions and build thje commitment muscle! Click here to download it now!

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