Ladies! Do you know how important it is to check your breast ? Mrs .Wilder, a breast cancer survivor has joined me today to share her story. A very personal journey about being diagnosed , processing the thought of it and still managing to take care of her family. Breast cancer is real . Hopefully this story will brighten someone’s day who’s currently experiencing cancer and assuring them that they are not alone! http://www.cancer.org/treatment/treatments-and-side-effects/physical-side-effects.html. Cancer.org 1800-227-2345

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Saying “no” doesn’t always cause problems or end relationships you just got to know when and how to say it . Stop feeling obligated to say “yes” all the time. You’re human .....sometimes you just don’t feel like it !

We as people have to start prioritizing voting! Understand the importance of it and how it effects us all . Make a difference where you can ! http://iwillvote.com/NC

The transition from girlfriend to wife or even boyfriend to husband takes your relationship to a whole new level . The idea of being with someone for the rest of your life changes everything about you.

We have been through so much this year from losing a job or a loved one that we are forgetting to focus on the positive .We may not be where we want to be but we’re not where we use to be . There’s still a blessing in the making !

How women are viewed that are choosing not to have kids have become more of a struggle with society than the woman who has made the decision. Society has painted a picture that you’re not a real woman if you don’t want kids, you’re selfish if you don’t want kids etc. I beg to differ , it’s your right, your body and you’re decision!

Whether you are looking for a job , trying to date or just venture out to trying new things , be consistent . The more work you put in the better the results will be

Sometimes we are the ones to stop ourselves from achieving the goals we want to reach. Stop all the negative self talk, stop making excuses and make it happen!