Porn. You love it, you hate it, or you’ve never quite known what to do with it—and in this honest, nuanced episode, we talk about all of it. We explore porn through a sex-positive, value-based lens, unpacking the differences between visual porn, erotica, audio erotica, and ethical porn, and how each can impact desire, confidence, communication, and relationships. Drawing from conservative religious upbringings, clinical experience, and modern trends, the conversation addresses shame, violence in mainstream porn, the male gaze, and why porn is entertainment—not real life. You’ll hear how porn can be used intentionally as a tool for self-pleasure, education, and relationship enhancement, when it might be better to set boundaries or step away, and why the most important question isn’t “Is porn good or bad?” but “Does this align with my values and bring me closer—to myself and my partner?”

Show Notes:

1. Ethical porn platforms discussed
2. Audio erotica apps: Dipsy, TRIQUIN
3. Educational resources mentioned: OMGYes, Beautiful Agony

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