Porn. You love it, you hate it, or you’ve never quite known what to do with it—and in this honest, nuanced episode, we talk about all of it. We explore porn through a sex-positive, value-based lens, unpacking the differences between visual porn, erotica, audio erotica, and ethical porn, and how each can impact desire, confidence, communication, and relationships. Drawing from conservative religious upbringings, clinical experience, and modern trends, the conversation addresses shame, violence in mainstream porn, the male gaze, and why porn is entertainment—not real life. You’ll hear how porn can be used intentionally as a tool for self-pleasure, education, and relationship enhancement, when it might be better to set boundaries or step away, and why the most important question isn’t “Is porn good or bad?” but “Does this align with my values and bring me closer—to myself and my partner?”

Show Notes:

1. Ethical porn platforms discussed
2. Audio erotica apps: Dipsy, TRIQUIN
3. Educational resources mentioned: OMGYes, Beautiful Agony

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In this insightful, and surprisingly nourishing episode, we take you far beyond vibrators and into the often-overlooked world of sensual foods, adaptogens, rituals, and everyday products that can profoundly support intimacy, arousal, and connection. From pantry staples like honey, coconut oil, and mangoes to plant-based alcohol alternatives, saliva-enhancing mints, pheromones, and ancient herbal traditions from around the world, this conversation reframes sexual wellness as something accessible, intentional, and deeply embodied. You’ll hear how stress, shame, and modern habits disconnect us from pleasure—and how curiosity, ritual, and gentler tools can help you feel more present, relaxed, and alive in your body.

1. The Layer – washable, waterproof intimacy blanket
2. Pheromone-based fragrances, Goda
3. Sandalwood, vanilla, coconut scents
4. Massage oil candles (temperature play)
5. Golden Glow (kava + kratom blend)
6. Twinkle Tongue (saliva-enhancing liquid)
7. Flint Mints / “blowjob mints” (Sichuan button extract)
8. Kana Daily Chews (empathogenic plant-based supplement)
9. Ashwagandha (stress reduction & libido support)
10. Alice Mushroom Chocolate (arousal-focused formulation)
11. Non-Alcoholic Adapotgen Drinks: Hiyo, Kin Euphorics, One Trip
12. Jamu (traditional Indonesian herbal medicine)
13. Tongkat Ali/Long Jack (traditional Asian herbal medicine):

Important Notes:

Always consult your medical provider before trying new supplements, especially if you take SSRIs/SNRIs or other medications

Some products may be restricted or illegal depending on your country or region.

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As the new year begins, this reflective and grounding episode invites you to rethink resolutions and explore a gentler, more meaningful reset through realignment—especially when it comes to your sexual self. Instead of chasing rigid goals, the panel guides you through a journaling-based sexual reboot rooted in curiosity, compassion, and authenticity, while honoring what already sparkles in your life. You’ll hear honest perspectives on why resolutions often fall apart, how shame sneaks into self-improvement, and why checking in with your evolving desires—rather than performing for the calendar—can be deeply transformative. Through thoughtful prompts, spiritual tools, and real-life reflections, this conversation reminds you that your sexuality evolves with every season of life, and realignment can begin anytime, starting right now.

Show Notes:

Downloadable curiosity list

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This is Part 2 of our deeply honest conversation about Long Distance Relationships, we unpack what really goes into keeping intimacy alive when love spans cities, countries, and time zones. From communication mismatches to reintegration struggles to the sweet ache of longing, we explore how long-distance couples can stay connected with rituals, values-based communication, emotional honesty, and playful creativity. The coaches and therapist share personal stories, practical tools, and the mindset shifts that make long-distance love not only possible — but incredibly meaningful.

Show Notes:

1. Attached — by Amir Levine & Rachel Heller
2. The Five Love Languages — by Gary Chapman
3. Erotic Blueprints — by Jaiya (framework/program)
4. Controllable Long Distance Vibrating Panties

In this warm and deeply honest conversation, we unpack what really goes into keeping intimacy alive when love spans cities, countries, and time zones. From communication mismatches to reintegration struggles to the sweet ache of longing, we explore how long-distance couples can stay connected with rituals, values-based communication, emotional honesty, and playful creativity. The coaches and therapist share personal stories, practical tools, and the mindset shifts that make long-distance love not only possible — but incredibly meaningful.

Show Notes:

• Attached — by Amir Levine & Rachel Heller
• The Five Love Languages — by Gary Chapman
• Erotic Blueprints — by Jaiya (framework/program)
• Controllable Long Distance Vibrating Panties

In the spirit of the holiday season — a time of gifting, play, and delicious surprises — we’re sharing some of our favorite intimacy-enhancing products and pleasure-supporting tools. In this fun, unfiltered, and enlightening episode, we dive into the evolving world of sexual wellness items — from practical essentials to creative innovations you probably didn’t even know existed. Nicole highlights how modern sex products aren’t just about fun, but also support sexual health, comfort, communication, and curiosity for people of all bodies and identities. Whether you’re buying for a partner, a friend, or yourself — this episode invites you to explore, laugh, learn, and discover just how expansive and empowering pleasure can be.

Show Notes: (Products mentioned)

1. The Layer Blanket
2. Selopa Tongue Teaser
3. Aya Wearable Vibrator by Zalo
4. OhMiBod Club Vibe Panty Vibrator
5. Ambi Bullet Vibrator by Lovense
6. Little Red Bullet Vibrator by Like A Kitten
7. Avo Clitoral Massager by Nancy
8. Her Ultimate Pleasure Stimulator by Fantasy for Her
9. Dilator Set by Dr. Laura Berman
10. Hung UFO Masturbator
11. Ohnut by The Pelvic People
12. Vaporator Smokable Vibrator by Maia
13. Ovipositors: Egg-Laying Dildos
14. Hydromax Penis Pump
15. Magic Wand: Original, Mini, Micro
16. Magic Wand Attachments
17. Njoy Steel Butt Plug
18. Sona Clitoral Vibrator by Lelo
19. Wartenberg Pinwheel
20. Fur Flogger
21. Vesper Vibrator Necklace
22. DIY 4 in 1 Flogger
23. Nuri Massager by Tabu

Part 2 of this insightful conversation about the often-overlooked power of touch in relationships. Centered around Barry McCarthy’s “five gears of touch” model and the Touch Continuum. The group explores how intentional touch builds emotional connection, bridges intimacy, and opens clearer communication between partners. They highlight how modern couple life often bypasses the rich middle gears (sensual/playful), jumping from affectionate directly to intercourse, and discuss how this affects long-term sexual vitality, consent, cultural norms, aging, and even self-touch rituals. Listeners are encouraged to notice their own “gear usage”, speak about preferences, and reintegrate meaningful touch into their lives beyond the screen era.

• “Five Gears of Touch” by Barry McCarthy
• “The Role of Touch in Couple’s Sexuality” – overview of touch as foundational beyond intercourse. 
• Enhancing Couple Sexuality by McCarthy– for deeper explanation of the gears.
• “Exploring the Five Dimensions of Touch” – applying gears in real-world relationships. 

This is Part 1 of a 2 episode series of a warm, insightful conversation about the often-overlooked power of touch in relationships. Centered around Barry McCarthy’s “five gears of touch” model and the Touch Continuum. The group explores how intentional touch builds emotional connection, bridges intimacy, and opens clearer communication between partners. They highlight how modern couple life often bypasses the rich middle gears (sensual/playful), jumping from affectionate directly to intercourse, and discuss how this affects long-term sexual vitality, consent, cultural norms, aging, and even self-touch rituals. Listeners are encouraged to notice their own “gear usage”, speak about preferences, and reintegrate meaningful touch into their lives beyond the screen era.

• “Five Gears of Touch” by Barry McCarthy
• “The Role of Touch in Couple’s Sexuality” – overview of touch as foundational beyond intercourse. 
• Enhancing Couple Sexuality by McCarthy– for deeper explanation of the gears.
• “Exploring the Five Dimensions of Touch” – applying gears in real-world relationships. 

In this powerful and deeply personal episode, we explore the complex, often silent world of sexual trauma. They open with a candid look into their own healing journey — from surviving childhood trauma to becoming a certified sex coach and advocate for survivors — before the group unpacks the different forms of sexual trauma, including “big T” and “little t” experiences, and how they manifest in the body and relationships. Together, they discuss stages of trauma recovery, the importance of trauma-informed care, and how creativity, breathwork, and body connection can be tools for reclaiming pleasure and empowerment. This heartfelt conversation reminds listeners that healing is not linear, survivors are not alone, and post-traumatic growth is possible through compassion, community, and the courage to feel again.

Show Notes:

• RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network) — 24/7 confidential support hotline and resources for survivors of sexual violence.
• International Creativity for healing trauma
• The Body Remembers by Babette Rothschild — A guide to understanding trauma and the body’s memory.
• The Courage to Heal by Ellen Bass and Laura Davis — A workbook for women survivors of sexual abuse.
• Trauma and Recovery by Judith Herman — Foundational text outlining the three stages of trauma recovery.
• Take Back the Night — Nonprofit supporting survivors of sexual violence through awareness and community action.
• Somatic Experiencing® by Peter Levine — Body-based approach for releasing trauma stored in the nervous system.
• Succulent Wild Woman by SARK (Susan Ariel Rainbow Kennedy) — Inspirational healing and creativity resource for survivors.
• Find a Pelvic Floor Therapist Near You — Directory of licensed pelvic floor physical therapists.

In this powerful and deeply personal episode, we explore the complex, often silent world of sexual trauma. They open with a candid look into their own healing journey — from surviving childhood trauma to becoming a certified sex coach and advocate for survivors — before the group unpacks the different forms of sexual trauma, including “big T” and “little t” experiences, and how they manifest in the body and relationships. Together, they discuss stages of trauma recovery, the importance of trauma-informed care, and how creativity, breathwork, and body connection can be tools for reclaiming pleasure and empowerment. This heartfelt conversation reminds listeners that healing is not linear, survivors are not alone, and post-traumatic growth is possible through compassion, community, and the courage to feel again.

Show Notes:

• RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network) — 24/7 confidential support hotline and resources for survivors of sexual violence.
• International Creativity for healing trauma
• The Body Remembers by Babette Rothschild — A guide to understanding trauma and the body’s memory.
• The Courage to Heal by Ellen Bass and Laura Davis — A workbook for women survivors of sexual abuse.
• Trauma and Recovery by Judith Herman — Foundational text outlining the three stages of trauma recovery.
• Take Back the Night — Nonprofit supporting survivors of sexual violence through awareness and community action.
• Somatic Experiencing® by Peter Levine — Body-based approach for releasing trauma stored in the nervous system.
• Succulent Wild Woman by SARK (Susan Ariel Rainbow Kennedy) — Inspirational healing and creativity resource for survivors.
• Find a Pelvic Floor Therapist Near You — Directory of licensed pelvic floor physical therapists.