Having It A.L.L.

Let's Talk About Sex: Your First Sexual Experience


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How was your first sexual experience? How would you describe it in two words?

Our first experience with sex tends to leave a lasting impression on us. Sex is viewed as a right of passage, a transition point where there's no going back. Some people enter into their first sexual experience having had healthy, mature and empowering conversations about sex, but many do not. They are equipped with the ideas, beliefs, stories and feelings about sex that they picked up from their peers, tv, society and parents and teachers who themselves may not have a healthy and empowering view of sex.

As a result, our first sexual experiences leave a lasting impression on us that set the stage for the rest of our lives.

In today's episode we're diving into our first sexual experiences with the goal of examining it from an empowered and mature perspective. You have the power to rescript what sex means to you, and to write your personal sexual story (past and future) in a way that leaves you feeling confident and uplifted.


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  • Resources from this episode:

    • Can Your Sexual Debut Predict Your Future?

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