Let's Talk Bruh

Let's Talk Bruh

By Jeremy HerteSociety & Culture
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Let's Talk Bruh episodes

  • P.O.P: Pleasure Over Performance | The Road to Sexual Healing + A Coronavirus Check-In

    Does it feel good? That's the question we're answering today.  For many us, we've been taught that we can only express our sexuality in a very limited way.  Today we talk about why sexual exploration and curiosity is important when it comes to achieving the most pleasure possible. We discuss that exploring your sexuality does NOT diminish your masculinity or manhood. Tune in now!

    About our guest Nick Gaines:

    Nickolas Gaines (he, him, his) is a veteran, national speaker, and educator. Nickolas is a prominent scholar-practitioner who has a wealth of experience, expanding over 10 years of service in local, regional, national, and international communities. He is a global citizen who has served the United States Army for seven years and has led initiatives for the Department of Defense and Department of Veterans Affairs providing spiritual care and clinical mental health care.

    Follow Nick on Instagram as he'll be dropping helpful content related to managing stress, anxiety taking care of yourself and loved ones and mental health during COVID-19: @nickolasgaines

    Resources associated with this episode:

    • Black men need space to talk about their own sexual pleasure outside of domination - Black Youth Project
    • I wanted to stop suffering like Jamel Myles. Here’s what I learned about youth mental health - Race Baitr
    • Pleasure Activism - adrienne marie brown
    • Pleasure Activism Defined
    • Self Care During The Coronavirus Outbreak - Let's Talk Bruh
    • Support of Andrew Gillum
    • New York City Made A Guide To Safe Sex During The Coronavirus Outbreak - Buzzfeed
    • Staying Positive in Dark Times - Michell C. Clark

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    For the Fellas: Register to our Sunday Night Zoom Hangout on March 29th at 7 PM EST

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    1 hr 12 min
  • The State of Black Masculinity Pt. 1

    Watch this episode on the Let's Talk Bruh YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7nzkzJ8oFTg

    Some say everyone gets to define Black masculinity except for Black men, so today we ask a few friends of Let's Talk Bruh their definitions of Black masculinity, their personal relationship with masculinity from childhood to adulthood, and the current state of Black masculinity as its presented in pop culture, media, and current events.

    We also discuss what accountability looks like among Black men and the future of Black masculinity. As many of us come to grasp a more fluid understanding of gender norms and identity, will we even be having conversations like this in 10, 20, or 50 years?

    Tune in now and share on social media using the hashtag #LetsTalkBruh

    Big thanks again to our guests Preston Mitchum, Rasheed Copeland, & Geronimo Collins

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    Article mentioned on this week's episode:

    • “Good men” and the mythological dichotomy between toxic masculinity and masculinity - Race Baitr

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    1 hr 45 min
  • Acting While Black with Tom Williamson of The Fosters & VFW

    When it comes to Black tv & film, there's often a conversation of who is allowed to tell what stories.  Can Black folks from the UK tell stories about Black americans? Can Black folks with privilege tell stories about folks growing up in the hood? Can straight folks tell stories about queer Black folks? 

    This week I talked to actor, founder of Rise and Thrive, and performance based transformation coach Tom Williamson.  You may know Tom from The Fosters, VFW, Running Wild and All Cheerleaders Must Die.  We talked about his life growing up in DC, becoming an actor, and his experience at Bristol Old Vic Theatre School.  We talk about about Tom's experience navigating some of these issues as an actor and what it's like to prepare for a role that you personally don't identify with on the surface. 

    Tune in now!

    To keep up with Tom and his moves, follow him on IG.

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    1 hr 2 min
  • 2 Black Men Talking About Love Pt. 2 w/ Brandon Alexander Williams

    This week I was joined by author, artist, teacher, DJ, and speaker Brandon Alexander Williams to talk about his book The BLK Love Mixtape, loving black women, loving ourselves and his top 5 MCs.

    Tune in for our discussion.

    Follow Brandon on IG and Twitter.

    Check out his book The BLK Love Mixtape -the BLK love mixtape is an anthology of contemporary literature dedicated to the BLK woman. We created this body of work to uplift HER and to teach young BLK men how to identify love based on our examples so that they may love her most carefully.

    In Case You Missed It: Be Great DC x Let's Talk Bruh Twitter Chat (2/24) on Black Men & Mental Health - #BGDCLive

    For our DC Folks! Come join us on March 7th for: BlackMenYogaToo.Eventbrite.com

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    1 hr 9 min
  • An Email from a Listener About How to Deal With Rejection

    Late last year we received an email from a listener about his challenges dealing with rejection from women.  He mentioned that he's not entitled to a woman's time or attention, but would like to find positive ways of dealing with, understanding, and accepting from rejection.  So today, joined by friend of the podcast, Larry J. Sanders of What Suits Him, we dive all the way in and tackle all things rejection and even how rejection highlights our insecurities.

    Follow Larry on IG and Twitter and visit the WHATSUITSHIM website for his professional consulting services today.

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    1 hr 2 min
  • Masculinity in the UK vs the US | Same Issues, Different Accent w/ Daniel Edmund

    In this week's episode we call up our first international guest! You'll be hearing a conversation with Daniel Edmund, the Co-Founder of Milk For Tea.  Daniel is a speaker and coach who is passionate about serving the male community in the UK and seeing men transformed from the inside out.  

    This conversation is important for a number of reasons:    1) Jeremy and Daniel both went to Hampton University together, but this is their first time speaking 2) Daniel talks about his experiences growing up in Maryland and the differences if any between masculinity in the UK vs the US 3) We talk about why healthy conversations around sex and consent and important and how Milk For Tea achieves does this with their work 4) How Daniel and Milk for Tea maintain their integrity while working inside the "manconomy" 5) Near the end, we entertain a brief discussion of whether or not toxic masculinity in sports can ever be considered a good thing.     Resources mentioned in this week's episode:
    • Masculinity and my Black male experience - Daniel Edmund for The Bristol Cable
    • Modern Men: Life Doesn't Have To Be Short | Daniel Edmund | TEDxBristol
    • Inside the Manconomy - Men's Health
    • We’ve offered free therapy to black men. The response has been overwhelming. | (Black Men Heal feature in the Philadelphia Inquirer)
    • Questions I regularly ask myself when I'm outraged about injustice by @prisonculture
      Follow Daniel on Twitter & Instagram and check out his organization: Milk for Tea's when you're done. 

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    1 hr 18 min
  • Interracial Dating, Love, & Redefining Black Masculinity

    There's a stat from the Pew Research Center stating that 24% of Black men marry interacially whereas only 12% of Black women marry interacially. Today we talk about why.

    Later in the conversation we also ask Dil of Redefining Black Masculinity (RBM) how and why he started RBM. 

    A few resources used in this week's episode:

    • Trends and patterns in intermarriage - Pew Research Center
    • An Interracial Fix for Black Marriage - Wall Street Journal
    • Myth Busting the Black Marriage Crisis - The Root

    Don't forget to follow Dil and Genesis on Instagram as well as Redefining Black Masculinity.

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    Email us your questions/comments/feedback at [email protected] and we'll read and respond to your email on an upcoming episode

    1 hr 2 min
  • Why Do You Love Black Women?

    Why do you love Black women? How do you support Black women? How do you protect Black women? A few simple questions with not so simple answers? 

    This week I was joined by my good friend Taylor. Tune in for our discussion.

    A few resources used in this week's episode:

    • Bystander Intervention - Collective Action for Safe Spaces DC

    You can follow Taylor on Twitter & IG

    Visit her website here: Love & Light Intuitive Readings with Taylor

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    1 hr 12 min
  • Fellas, What Makes You Feel Sexy? | Sex Positivity for Men w/ David Wraith

    Fellas, what makes you feel sexy? I mean, we all love having sex and the feeling that comes from that experience, but how often do we think about whether or not we feel sexy or not? There's a ton of emphasis on women to be and feel sexy, but what does that look like for us?

    This week I was joined by David Wraith, Co-founder of Sex Positive STL to discuss sex positivity for men, the reason leaked nudes of Da Baby, Steph Curry, and ASAP Rocky and much more. Tune in now. 

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    1 hr 6 min

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A Podcast on Black Masculinity