Episode #151: Let's Talk Relationship Anarchy | A Conversation With Abby Rosmarin

You’ve asked for an entire episode on all things relationship anarchy and I’m so stoked to be kicking off the conversation and deep dive into all things relationship anarchy with the one person that’s made me feel the most seen by sharing their lived experience as a demisexual relationship anarchist who has been in polyamorous and monogamous dynamics alike : Abby Rosmarin aka my mutual and friend on Tik Tok (and in real life) @notjennifergarner Abby (she/they) is a writer, content creator, mental health professional, trauma-informed yoga instructor, and former commercial model. She is the author of 7 books, including the Amazon Bestseller The Ballerina's Guide to Boxing. She is also known as NotJenniferGarner on TikTok, where she has amassed nearly half a million followers. Abby is also getting her Master's in Clinical Mental Health Counseling.This conversation felt like a warm hug to my heart, and I know it will feel that way for you too. So cozy up with us and let’s fucking go baby!Things highlighted in todays episode:what relationship anarchy is / means to both Abby and Amandarelationship anarchy being occasionally equated to abuse autonomy being falsely equated with lack of accountabilitynuance is everything ways to tangibly live out relationship anarchist values platonic partners, hierarchy, comp het and comp monogamy, intention and beyondCONNECT WITH ABBY:Abby’s Instagram | Tik Tok | Patreon Buy Abby’s Books ADDITIONAL RESOURCES MENTIONED:Relationship Anarchy ManifestoRelationship libertarian Episode 145 : Abuse in Non MonogamyCrony Capitalism Amanda’s Fuck Yes Relationship Manifesto Multiamory WORK & CONNECT WITH AMANDA:Patreon - join her “close friends” list on Instagram at the $5+ levelFucking Queer Merch Amanda’s book, I Chopped Off My TitsAmanda’s Instagram | Website | Tik TokJoin her email list for very occasional gifts & announcements in your inbox