Dear Aida,

Most people live with the comforting belief
that human beings are rational creatures —
that we think clearly, decide logically, and act sensibly.

This belief is flattering.
It makes us feel in control, intelligent, capable.

It is also wrong.

The more closely you observe yourself and others,
the clearer it becomes:

Rationality is not our default setting.
It’s a skill — and a fragile one.