Have you been going along in your story & someone decides to make a personal decision for themselves that change your story? Have you felt betrayed, disrespected , overlooked? Felt you had no choice in the matter? Then this letter is for you.

Season : 2026 Episode 18

Topic 3 : Letters TO the Avoidant

Letter 4 : to the Avoidant Plot Twist that derailed the story

2026 : T3 : L4

Why do some characters rise above the stories they find themselves in? Why do some characters stay the victim to their childhood wound that have severely marked them? Out of all the characters to play & scripts to read, why choose to remain in a childish character? This letter is for you.

Season 2026 Episode 17

Topic 3 : Letters TO the Avoidant

Letter 3 : to the characters the Avoidant refused to cast

2036 : T3 : L 3

What is love? Why is it so difficult? Why are you the only one showing up? You know what you are capable of but I’ve grown to understand that you cannot trust that the other person is capable of showing up let alone to put on the work boots of love. If you are left hurt & discouraged, this letter is for you.

You were left holding a relationship once good now gone. You were silenced, no voice. You were left to figure it out & when you did, there was no one to say every word to, to empty out every hurt. You knew his childhood was cold, empty like. Now you have a name for it. Now you know who shaped his silence. Now you have a chance to address his Shapers. This letter is for you.

Season 2026 Episode 15

2026 : T3 : L1

Topic: Letters TO the Avoidant

Letter 1: TO the Shapers who taught him to burrow.

You will find our Avoidant Ghost Crab at 59 reflecting over his life recalling the earlier years, his grandmother, the independence, his armor, the Mermaid, and that great vast ocean. He just might feel a bit uneasy with the hurt and damage he has caused. This is his final letter and it ends with a cliffhanger…. Does he continue the cycle like always or does he take the next step into freedom? Ready for a moonlit night of reckoning? This letter is for you.

Season 2026 Episode 14

2026 : T2 : L7

Topic 2 : Letters FROM the Avoidant

Letter 7 : to the Man I never became

Have felt like you were left holding the bag after the disappearance of the avoidant? You got the pain, the silence, the questions, the mirage but no accountability on the Avoidant’s part. This letter is for you.

Season 2026 Episode 13

2026 : T2 : L6

Topic 2 : Letters FROM the Avoidant

Letter 6 : to Collapse he chooses over accountability

You can list all the damage the Avoidant has done to you. But you are saying it to an empty room. He is not there to hear the pain & hurt. Not that he would listen anyways. You feel that he is off living his life not knowing nor caring. He is living undamaged. Here the ghost crab will tell how he deals with this vast emotion called love. He tells of the erosion of his ocean view property. But does he know the damage he is continually inflicting on himself?

2026 : T2 : L5

Season 2026 Episode 12

Topic 2 : Letters FROM the Avoidant

Letter 5 : to Love he cannot handle

So you’re in this relationship and you are very sure of your feelings then like whiplash the what if question is thrown out there. Instead of the questioner doing the homework, you are left in the avoidant ghost crab sand puff of ambiguity. When the sand settles, he’s burrowed deep and you are left in this eerie silence. If you are curious about the Avoidant’s instincts, this letter is for you.

2026 : T2 : L4

Season 2026 : Episode 11

Topic 2 : Letters FROM the Avoidant

Letter 4 : to the moments I disappear behind sand puffs and silence

Have you ever been left wondering why you are left feeling all the feelings and they seem not to feel a thing? You have this heated emotion raging inside but they seem so cold, so steel like. You have been ghosted, worse yet you have been silenced. You cannot make sense of their reactions. They seem not to care. They seemed to not feel like humans feel. You live by human rules. They live by ghost crab rules. What a peek into the emotional world of the Avoidant? This letter is for you.

2026 : T2 : L3

Season 2026. Episode 10

Topic 2 : Letters FROM an Avoidant

Letter 3 : to emotions I shut down before they touch me

You showed up in this relationship real and deep. You were intentional. It was a good relationship but you came up short and not because you held things back. No, you were dealing with someone that held you away while he guarded his heart. This letter is the answers he has for you. Even he doesn’t quite know what to do with his behavior. That’s the thing it’s behavior not his personality. Behavior has to have a day of reckoning … which might be too intense for an Avoidant.

2026 : T2 : L2

Season 2026 Episode 9

Topic 2 : Letters FROM an Avoidant

Letter 2 : to the person / Mermaid I kept at arm’s length