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  • Dating Someone with Kids: Yay or Nay?

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    We dive into the complex world of dating people with children, exploring the challenges and rewards of entering relationships where kids are already part of the package.

    • Whether dating someone with children is a deal-breaker
    • How many kids is too many when considering a potential partner
    • The importance of prioritizing your relationship even when children are involved 
    • How age of the children impacts your ability to establish parental authority
    • Navigating relationships with difficult ex-partners and baby parents
    • Differences between adopting children versus having biological children
    • Using pet ownership as a trial run for future parenting compatibility
    • Challenges of creating boundaries when assuming a step-parent role
    • How to handle attachment to a partner's child if the relationship ends
    • Balancing your partner's needs with their children's needs

    If you want to share your experiences about modern families, co-parenting, or being a part of a blended family, we'd love to hear from you! Message us or leave a comment about your situation.


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    47 min
  • Queer Enough? Fluidity, Fame & Control

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    Solange and Ava return from hiatus to discuss how celebrities like Fletcher and JoJo Siwa are navigating their sexuality in the public eye, and examine complex relationship dynamics including power, consent, and authenticity in Hollywood and the Diddy scandal!

    • The hosts explore public reactions to queer celebrities who begin dating the opposite gender
    • They question why the LGBTQ+ community sometimes rejects members who show fluidity in their relationships
    • Discussion about celebrities getting tattoos of partners' or future children's names
    • Deep dive into how power and fame blur the lines of consent in relationships
    • Conversation about whether most Hollywood relationships are authentic or business arrangements
    • Reflections on monogamy and the challenge of normalizing different relationship structures
    • Examination of public reactions to widows/widowers moving on after losing their partners

    Please show your love and support by writing a review on Apple Podcasts, rating us on Spotify, and sharing us with your community. The Let's Say More podcast is produced by Solange Aurelio and Ava Mozaffari, and edited by Solange Aurelio.


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    34 min
  • Your Love Language Isn't Set in Stone

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    We explore how understanding and speaking different love languages can strengthen relationships even when partners have different preferences.

    • The five love languages: Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Physical Touch, Acts of Service, and Receiving Gifts
    • Why having different love languages isn't a relationship dealbreaker
    • How to communicate your needs without triggering defensiveness 
    • The importance of acknowledging your partner's efforts, even when imperfect
    • Why love languages can change over time and require regular check-ins
    • Signs that someone has checked out when they stop speaking any love language
    • The need to put ego aside and make compromises to fill your partner's cup

    Let us know your love language and how you navigate differences with your partner! You can leave comments on our YouTube, message us on Instagram, or email us at our podcast address.


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    38 min
  • Tan Lines, Trolls, and Micro-Cheating: Just a Casual Chat

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    Solange and Ava dive into hilarious vacation mishaps, awkward changing room experiences, and relationship boundaries in this candid, laughter-filled conversation.

    • Ava recounts her Dominican honeymoon adventures, including an unexpected sun allergy and a phone destroyed by foam party soap
    • Exploring the discomfort of navigating gender assumptions in public spaces, particularly in women's changing rooms
    • The unexpected viral moment when their YouTube short about celebrity relationships attracted both supportive fans and hostile trolls
    • Dissecting the concept of "micro-cheating" in LGBTQ+ relationships and where different communities draw the line
    • Celebrating Ava's birthday and the surprising response to Solange's social media birthday post

    Send us your questions! We would also love to have other people on the podcast, so if you're interested in being a guest, hit us up and we can chat about topics we can discuss together.


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    33 min
  • We're judging each other, spilling tea, and answering your questions

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    Solange and Ava dive into Hollywood scandals, reality TV critiques, and answer your burning questions with their trademark honesty and humor. They share unfiltered thoughts on everything from the Diddy controversy to what they'd never do for a million dollars.

    • Discussion of recent Diddy scandal and allegations about other celebrities' involvement
    • Hollywood rabbit holes and changing perspectives on once-admired celebrities
    • Brutally honest thoughts on Love is Blind and contestant authenticity
    • Celebrity life-swapping hypotheticals and dream reality TV hosting gigs
    • Debate on what they would and wouldn't do for a million dollars (or a billion)
    • Animal personality comparisons and secret judgments about each other
    • Worst advice given and received
    • Weirdest food combinations they secretly love

    Please show your love and support by writing a review on Apple Podcasts, rating us on Spotify, and sharing with your community. The Let's Say More podcast is produced and edited by Solange Aurelio and co-hosted with Ava Mozaffari.


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    29 min
  • What Happens When We Stop Trusting and Start Questioning Everything?

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    Trust issues can silently destroy relationships, creating an unsustainable cycle of suspicion and conflict that ultimately leads to breakdowns in communication and connection. Solange and Ava dive deep into trust issues, long-distance relationships, compatibility, and aging fears while touching on personal experiences with cheating and ghost-busting.

    • Trust is the foundation of any successful relationship and without it, constant suspicion creates toxic environments
    • Long-distance relationships can work with a definitive end date, but require unwavering trust to succeed
    • Shared interests and activities are crucial for relationship satisfaction, otherwise partnerships become lonely experiences
    • Both hosts have remarkable stories about catching partners cheating, with Ava sharing an unexpected "plot twist" involving a high school boyfriend
    • Fears about aging include losing mobility, independence, and seeing friends less frequently
    • Both hosts agree they'd rather not know about infidelity if it was a one-time occurrence they never suspected

    Thanks so much for listening to this episode of the Let's Say More podcast. If you can, please show your love and support by writing a review on Apple Podcast, rating us on Spotify and, of course, spreading the word and sharing us with your community. We would greatly appreciate it.


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    37 min
  • From Torres Del Paine to TikTok: Solange Reflects on Nature and Celebrity Drama

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    Solange returns from her breathtaking journey to Patagonia, Chile, where she experienced landscapes that felt like "walking through a painting" and spotted rare wildlife including a puma.

    • Traveling to Torres del Paine National Park in Patagonia, described as being at "the end of the world"
    • Hiking the challenging 16-mile French Valley trail while battling a cold
    • Sister Monica's fashion emergency requiring an emergency purchase of a bright orange North Face jacket
    • Experiencing true disconnection with minimal internet or phone service
    • Catching up on celebrity drama including the Hailey Bieber YouTube controversy
    • Justin Baldoni and Blake Lively's public dispute
    • Viral TikTok trends including the ex-D1 athlete's elaborate morning routine
    • Van Cleef jewelry controversies on social media
    • Discussion of Ava's upcoming honeymoon to the Dominican Republic and travel safety

    Please send us your questions or topics that you want us to talk about, or anything we've discussed that you'd like us to elaborate more on.


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    49 min
  • "I Cheated": A Journey Through Bisexuality and Regret

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    A transformative conversation unfolds as Francesca shares her gripping journey of coming out, navigating sexuality fluidity, and coping with infidelity. Her raw reflections offer listeners a unique understanding of love, choice, and personal growth.

    • Francesca opens up about her unique perspective on sexual identity
    • Discusses the turning point of her coming-out story and how friends play a role
    • Explores the emotional complexities behind infidelity and unmet relationship needs
    • Shares insights on the profound impact of loss and how it shaped her decisions
    • Light-hearted banter about the challenges and excitement of dating apps
    • Encourages self-forgiveness and the continued journey of personal growth 

    Thank you for listening to this episode of the Let's Say More podcast! If you can, please show your love and support by writing a review on Apple Podcasts, rating us on Spotify, and, of course, spreading the word and sharing us with your community, we would greatly appreciate it.


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    45 min
  • Navigating Friendships: The Breakup Dilemma

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    Our latest discussion dives deep into the often unspoken world of friendship breakups. It's a tough topic, but we believe it's essential to explore. Solange and Ava share their personal stories while offering listeners insights on how to recognize when a friendship is no longer serving you.

    • Understanding the emotional impact of friendship breakups 
    • Signs it might be time to let go of a friend 
    • Personal experiences of breaking up with friends 
    • The importance of communication and mutual respect in friendships 
    • Navigating friendships with different lifestyles and values 
    • Strategies for maintaining healthy friendships 

    If you can, please show your love and support by writing a review on Apple Podcasts, rating us on Spotify, and, of course, spreading the word and sharing us with your community; we would greatly appreciate it. 


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    34 min
  • Relationships 101: Clocking In for Love

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    This episode explores how to clock into your relationship by putting in the essential effort needed to thrive. We discuss the importance of communication, empathy, and understanding in navigating stress and the challenges that arise in partnerships.

    • Emphasizing the connection between effort and relationship success 
    • Recognizing different stress levels in relationships 
    • Navigating effective communication and emotional safety 
    • Examining friendships following breakups and loyalty 
    • Identifying personal deal breakers and evolving needs 
    • The necessity of accountability in personal growth 
    • Simple ways to keep joy alive in relationships 
    • Agreement on celebrating important holidays together

    Thank you so much for listening to this episode of the Let's Say More podcast. If you can, please show your love and support by writing a review on Apple Podcasts, rating us on Spotify, and spreading the word in your community.


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    49 min

About Lez Say More Podcast

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Welcome to Lez Say More: the podcast where your favorite duo of best friends—together for over 20 years—gets real about the queer community. Join us every Wednesday as we dive into everything from…

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