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LFPWLI, Series Three Ep 1 Sam (Part 2) Abusive step-father and the long term impacts


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LFPWLI: Sam Bradford, Part 2, A Story of Self-Determination and Forgiveness

 

In this second episode, Mathew, Dr. Frank, and Sam discuss the growing pains of healing and commitments needed for real change including altering environments, swapping out unhealthy coping mechanisms, and overcoming the shame associated with progressing and backsliding. Sam stresses the importance of being a lifelong learner, unpacking the “why” behind your behavior, and evaluating misplaced anger toward people you love.

 

We end the episode with the story of Sam making the decision to pursue forgiveness, and why forgiveness requires time and distance to allow you to establish your own boundaries. 

 

“It used to run in my family until it ran into me.”

 

In this episode, you'll hear: 

  • How do you convince people you're ready to change for real this time?
  • The difference between good, ignorant, and evil people 
  • How and why Sam decided to reconcile with his stepfather
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    Resources:

    • Hip-Hop Evolution
  • Safe People by Henry Cloud and John Townsend
  • Necessary Endings by Henry Cloud
  • Wish I Was Here with Zach Braff
  • Brené Brown and Jim Collins Interview
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    Connect with the Guest:

    • Dr. Frank Bevacqua

     

    Connect with Mathew Blades: 

    • Twitter - twitter.com/MathewBlades
  • Instagram - instagram.com/MathewBladesmedia/ 
  • Facebook - facebook.com/mathewbladesmedia/ 
  • Website - learnfrompeoplewholivedit.com/
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