Big Idea: Because of who God is, we can face our fears and life’s dangers.
I almost hit burnout once. I went to see a professional at an organization that looks after pastors and missionaries here in Toronto. He asked me some questions. I thought I was doing pretty well. At the end of the session he told me that I was approaching burnout, and that I needed to take three months off immediately before I actually hit burnout.
That led to a lot of learning. What caused the burnout? I learned that it wasn’t from overwork. For sure, I was working hard, but that wasn’t the problem. It took a while to discover, but I eventually realized that my problem was that I was afraid of some people. I was facing a period of sustained conflict, and after a while those conflicts took a toll on me. I was living in fear of what these people thought, and it led me to the brink of burnout.
I was suffering from a serious spiritual condition that goes by a couple of names: fear of man and people pleasing. People had become bigger in my life than God. I needed people to approve of me. I needed these people to buttress my identity. I can relate to what Ed Welch writes in his book When People Are Big and God is Small:
We fear people because they can expose and humiliate us.
We fear people because they can reject, ridicule, or despise us.
We fear people because they can attack, oppress, or threaten us.
These three reasons have one thing in common: they see people as “bigger” (that is, more powerful and significant) than God, and, out of the fear that creates in us, we give other people the power and right to tell us what to feel, think, and do.
Can you relate?
I was afraid. I didn’t think that I was someone who was fearful, but I was. It’s so easy to be driven by the need to win the approval of other people. But the consequences of living for the approval of others is deadly. When other people become bigger in our eyes than God, our souls are in danger. I had forgotten what the Bible says:
The fear of man lays a snare,
but whoever trusts in the LORD is safe.
(Proverbs 29:25)
That’s exactly the issue that Moses was facing. Moses was facing the Olympic challenge of people pleasing. I can’t think of a more extreme example of potential people pleasing than what Moses faced.
In Exodus 5:1, Moses stood before Pharaoh, the most powerful man in the world, and said, “Thus says the LORD, the God of Israel, ‘Let my people go, that they may hold ta feast to me in the wilderness.’” Fat chance. In fact, God had told Moses before that “the king of Egypt will not let you go unless compelled by a mighty hand” (Exodus 3:19). This wasn’t going to be easy!
Moses had to face two problems: his fears and life’s dangers. We learn two things from his experience.
Because of Who God Is, We Can Face Our Fears
Before we ever deal with the fear of others in life, we must deal with the fear of others in our hearts. That’s where it began with Moses, and it’s where it begins with us too.
In Exodus 3, God appeared to Moses in a burning bush. You would think that if we had an encounter with God like this, that we might be pretty overwhelmed with God and his power. It’s not every day that God appears to you and that God speaks to you.
But when God appeared to Moses and gave him his assignment, Moses had nothing but questions and objections. This, word for word, is how Moses responded after meeting with God:
Who am I that I should go to Pharaoh and bring the children of Israel out of Egypt? (Exodus 3:11)
If I come to the people of Israel and say to them, ‘The God of your fathers has sent me to you,’ and they ask me, ‘What is his name?’ what shall I say to them? (Exodus 3:13)
But behold, they will not believe me or listen to my voice, for they will say, “The LORD did not appear to you.” (Exo…