Life and Love in Paris

In today’s episode, I’m spilling the tea on how I thought I had found an amazing match, someone who wanted commitment, was so into me, and seemed genuinely excited about getting to know me, only to realize that wasn’t enough. We’re talking about the difference between dating to be chosen and dating with clarity, and why the real question isn’t “Does he want me?” but “Do I actually want him?”

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For today's episode, I am sharing the difference between the standard meaning of No Contact and actually truly letting go by killing the hope, by explaining in detail what it really means,

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Welcome back to Life and Love in Paris. I am so glad you are here! Today's episode: it's all about my experience with giving another go to the dating platforms in summer 2026 and the lessons I continue to learn,

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Welcome back to Life and Love in Paris. I am so glad you are here! Today's episode: it's the making, the behind-the-scenes of why I created the Do Not Text Him Guide. How was I able to not reach out to an ex, even though it felt like I was legit gonna lose my mind if I didn't send the text.

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Welcome back to Life and Love in Paris. For today's episode, I’m breaking down 50 Things You Can Do Instead of Texting Him.

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In this episode, I’m breaking down the ten pieces of dating advice I’ve been giving to everyone this year including my dear friends, my listeners, and honestly, to myself. From knowing what you want to not overanalyzing one date, to remembering that “he’s not the last man on earth.” It’s everything I wish I knew when I first started dating.-Next my favorite dating coaches and podcast:Evan Marc Katz: https://shorturl.at/BvraC
U up podcast: https://shorturl.at/kCIRJ
Matthew Hussey: https://shorturl.at/a7EsQ
Elliot Scott: https://www.instagram.com/elliotscottdating/

Natlie Lue: https://rb.gy/dtswdw

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In this episode, I am sharing dating advice from the great Natalie Lue. Why do we keep sleeping with people who don’t want what we want? One of the hardest truths in modern dating: sex doesn’t equal love. I will unpack why emotionally unavailable partners keep coming back, and why we sometimes let them. Also, I will share a personal story about ego, self-worth, and the difference between being chosen and being wanted. It’s a conversation about waking up, letting go, and learning to choose yourself first.

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For today ’s episode, I share the lessons from Mark Manson’s “40 Life Lessons I Know at 40” that truly resonate with me right now and that I think might be helpful to my listeners. Whether you’re 20, 30, or 40, this one will remind you that it’s never too late to start anything that you want to start.

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PS: I am sorry I am for the two bits where the audio is distorted!

Bonus episode since we are in our feels! This short episode is called 2025 Plot Twist: It’s All Character Development. If 2025 has been dragging you through the mud too, know this: you’re not alone. In this conversation, I share my own setbacks from losing jobs to rejection to health scares ;  it’s felt like one hit after another. This is a reminder that even when life feels unfair, sometimes just surviving is enough.

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For today's episode, From Confusion to Clarity: Decoding Modern Dating Part 2. I’ll continue to answer the questions:

6. What does it mean when a guy says he misses me, but doesn't make plans to see me?

7. Why did he pull away after things were going so well?

8. Why does he keep coming back but still won't commit?

9. Why does he say we're exclusive but refuses to call me his girlfriend?

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