Life and work balance – The Mentors Radio

Life and work balance – The Mentors Radio

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Life and work balance – The Mentors Radio episodes

  • 405. Doug and Chase Averill share Cowboy Wisdom on Business, Family and Life from Montana’s Iconic Flathead Lake Lodge

    In this episode of The Mentors Radio, Host Tom Loarie talks with Doug and Chase Averill of Flathead Lake Lodge, one of the top 2% hospitality businesses in America and a “Best of the Best Dude Ranch.” Discover their unique approach to hospitality and learn how this iconic, multi-generational, family-owned dude ranch builds family bonds, empowers kids, and even hosts world leaders, including Bing Crosby, George Bush, Bill Clinton and Colin Powell, who called it the best place in America to meet real Americans. Located in Bigfork, Montana, just outside Glacier National Park, an Averill family tradition since 1945, the ranch has hosted tens of thousands of guests from more than 104 countries, and has been featured on Good Morning America, Animal Planet, Wide World of Sports and more. Doug Averill is a member of the National Dude Ranchers Hall of Fame and the Montana Pro Rodeo Hall of Fame. Now Doug and his son, Chase, are leading the lodge into the next generation. Learn about their work with the Paladin Conservancy and Wrangler Ranch, which gives special needs children, terminally ill children, and veterans fresh experiences rooted in the Western way of life. The lodge fosters family bonds, builds confidence in children, offers first-hand leadership lessons for all ages, and literally transforms guests (60,000 to 80,000 guests over the last 40 years!) from all walks of life, while maintaining an unparalleled standard of hospitality. Find out what sets Flathead Lake Lodge apart from the competition, behind-the-scenes? How do the Averills seamlessly infuse genuine hospitality and service into every aspect of their business… and why is this so important to them? …Most importantly, what kernels of inspiration will you uncover for your own business, life or work? Listen to THE MENTORS RADIO podcast anywhere, any time, on any platform, including Spotify and Apple, just click here!

    SHOW NOTES:
    • BIO / ABOUT:
      • Doug Averill honored at Montana Pro Rodeo Hall and Wall of Fame — His awards include receiving the highest civilian honor awarded by the Chairman of the Joint Chief of Staff and he has hosted military leaders from 104 countries on the shores of Flathead Lake.
      • Doug and Chase Averill
      • Three generations and 75 years: The Averill family and Flathead Lake Ranch, by Eileen Ogintz, Taking the Kids
      • Flathead Lake Lodge / History
      • WEBSITES:
        • Flathead Lake Lodge
        • Paladin Conservancy
        • Paladin Conservancy / Wrangler Springs Ranch
        • 3-minute YouTube: Doug Averill gives a tour of plans at Wrangler Springs Ranch
        • Why the name “Paladin”? (great story!)
        • NEWS CLIPS:
          • Featured on “Great Western Great Ranches” TV series
          • The Travel Hack: Staying on an American Dude Ranch at Flathead Lake Lodge in Montana
          • A Dude Ranch in Montana: Averill’s Flathead Lake Lodge, The / SoughtAfter, by Molly Schoneveld
          • 44 min
          • 392. From Jesuit Seminarian to Chair of a Healthcare Giant—A Journey of Purpose and Impact, with Chris Lowney and Host Tom Loarie

            In this episode of THE MENTORS RADIO, Host Tom Loarie talks with Chris Lowney, whose extraordinary journey took him from Jesuit seminarian to top executive at JP Morgan, to Chair of CommonSpirit Health, one of the largest healthcare systems in the United States. Discover the timeless principles that have shaped the Jesuit order for 450 years and how they continue to inspire 150,000 employees, serving 30 million people today. Tune in to learn how these same values can transform your own life and career! Listen to THE MENTORS RADIO podcast anywhere, any time, on any platform, just click here!

            SHOW NOTES:

            CHRIS LOWNEY:

            • BIO: https://chrislowney.com/wp/about-2/
            • BOOKS:
              • Heroic Leadership: Best Practices from a 450-Year-Old Company That Changed the World, by Chris Lowney
              • Heroic Living: Discover Your Purpose and Change the World, by Chris Lowney
              • Make Today Matter: 10 Habits for a Better Life (and World), by Chris Lowney
              • WEBSITE: https://chrislowney.com
              • 44 min
              • 388. Healing your Company, Organization, Family from the Inside Out with guest Dr. Catherine Harrington and Host Tom Loarie

                In this episode of THE MENTORS RADIO, Host Tom Loarie talks with Catherine Harrington, PhD Renown as an innovator in organization psychology, Dr. Catherine Harrington’s work has profoundly impacted countless lives and organizations. That said, her own journey is nothing short of extraordinary. After earning her doctorate, Catherine found her true calling in executive search and organizational psychology, helping organizations and individuals thrive together. Host Tom Loarie, in his role as CEO of a venture-funded medical startup at the time, experienced Catherine’s work first-hand and saw what a profound difference she made in his company. In a similar way to how a doctor guides a patient to health, she guided the company to organizational health through a combination of clearly understanding the company’s objective and purpose, taking the time to literally walk around, engage and listen to individual employees at all levels, and evaluating the results. Again like a doctor, Dr. Harrington then made recommendations that would improve the health of the organization. This happened over time, as she continued to observe, engage, “take the temperature” and evaluate results. Catherine’s success in implementing innovative programs that transformed the company culture were so powerful that the company achieved an employee turnover rate of 80% BELOW the Silicon Valley average! In this episode, Tom and Catherine will explore the strategies that drove these remarkable results and how Catherine’s approach to communication, culture and individual empowerment can serve as a model for any organization—from small business, family, nonprofit to large corporation. You’ll learn insights that can transform YOUR company (or nonprofit or even family) culture for lasting success. Listen to our radio podcast anywhere, any time, on any platform, click here!

                SHOW NOTES:
                • BIO: https://thelongestwarmemoir.com/author/
                  • BOOK:
                    • The Longest War: A Psychotherapist’s Experience of Divorce, Custody, and Power – by Catherine Harrington, PhD
                    • 43 min
                    • 381. Host Tom Loarie talks with 103-year-old trailblazer Gladys McGarey, MD, about Six Secrets to Health and Happiness at ANY Age

                      In this episode of THE MENTORS RADIO, Host Tom Loarie talks with Gladys McGarey MD, one of the world’s great healers and wisest of elders of our time, to share her amazing life story and her six secrets to health and happiness at every age. Dr. Gladys McGarey is known as the Mother of Holistic Medicine. In this episode she shares her remarkable life story and insights from her latest book, The Well-Lived Life: A 103-Year-Old Doctor’s Six Secrets to Health and Happiness at Every Age. With a career spanning over seven decades, Dr. McGarey has been a trailblazer in integrating holistic practices into modern medicine. At 103, she continues to inspire with her boundless energy and wisdom. Listen to the show broadcast on Salem Radio in San Francisco, via live-streaming on iHeart Radio worldwide or anytime, on ANY podcast platform, including Apple Podcast, Spotify, iTunes, TuneIN, Stitcher, Google Play and all the others. Sign up for the podcast here.

                      SHOW NOTES:

                      GLADYS McGAREY, MD:

                      • BIO: https://www.foundationforlivingmedicine.org/meet-dr-gladys-mcgarey/
                      • BOOKS:
                        • The Well-Lived Life: A 103-Year-Old Doctor’s Six Secrets to Health and Happiness at Every Age, by Gladys McGarey, MD
                        • Living Medicine: Beyond Holistic Medicine, by Gladys McGarey, MD
                        • The Physcian Within You: Discovering the Power of Inner Healing, by Gladys McGarey, MD
                        • The World Needs Old Ladies, by Gladys McGarey, MD and Evelyne Horelle Dailey
                        • Born to Live, by Gladys McGarey, forward by Elizabeth Kubler-Ross
                        • WEBSITE: https://www.foundationforlivingmedicine.org
                        • 43 min
                        • 377. Building a Restaurant Empire from Scratch with Filippo Silvestri and Enzo Rosano

                          In this episode of THE MENTORS RADIO, Host Tom Loarie talks with Filippo Silvestri and Enzo Rosano, two restaurant entrepreneurs who talk about their journey from Italy to San Francisco, and from nothing to becoming celebrated restaurant entrepreneurs in one of the most competitive and diverse restaurant markets. Today’s topic is about The American Dream and how a group of Italian entrepreneurs are emblematic of it. Theirs is a story of resilience, entrepreneurship, and success. Joining us are Filippo Silvestri and his partner Enzo Rosano, who both immigrated from Italy and have built a thriving restaurant business in the San Francisco Bay Area. Today, we delve into their journey, the challenges they faced and the lessons they’ve learned along the way. Listen to the show broadcast on Salem Radio in San Francisco, via live-streaming on iHeart Radio worldwide or anytime, on ANY podcast platform, including Apple Podcast, Spotify, iTunes, TuneIN, Stitcher, Google Play and all the others. Sign up for the podcast here.

                          SHOW NOTES:

                          FILIPPO SILVESTRI and ENZO ROSANO:

                          • BIO: https://www.locandarestaurants.com/about
                          • RESTAURANTS:
                            • Locando Italian Restaurants
                            • 45 min
                            • 376. Best-selling author Gretchen Rubin joins Dan Hesse to discuss how we can be happier and make those around us happier

                              In this episode of THE MENTORS RADIO, Host Dan Hesse talks with New York Times #1 Best-Selling author Gretchen Rubin as she provides lessons and tips on how to live a better life by being happier and making those around us happier. 

                              Gretchen Rubin is one of today’s most influential and thought-provoking observers of happiness and human nature. She’s a highly acclaimed writer, known for her ability to distill and convey complex ideas—from science to literature to stories from her own life—with levity and clarity.
                              Gretchen has an affinity for new tools and platforms, and has cultivated a vast, passionate audience who actively engages with her and her work across many channels. With millions of copies of her New York Times bestselling books sold, more than 220 million downloads of her Happier with Gretchen Rubin podcast, an enthusiastic following on her newsletters and social media, helpful and beautifully designed products, and the award-winning Happier app, Rubin engages her audience wherever they are and wherever they want to be. An experienced and sought-after speaker, she makes regular appearances across the media landscape. 
                              As the founder of The Happiness Project, Gretchen Rubin has helped create an ecosystem of imaginative products and tools to help people become happier, healthier, more productive and more creative. “There’s no one-size-fits-all solution,” she explains, “so there’s no ‘right’ way or ‘best’ way. We have to choose the way that work for us.”
                              She’s been interviewed by Oprah, eaten dinner with Nobel Prize-winner Daniel Kahneman, walked arm-in-arm with the Dalai Lama, had her work reported on in a medical journal, been written up in the New Yorker, and been an answer on Jeopardy!
                              After starting her career in law, Gretchen realized she wanted to be a writer while clerking for Supreme Court Justice Sandra Day O’Connor. Raised in Kansas City, she lives in New York City with her family. Listen to the show broadcast on Salem Radio in San Francisco or via live-streaming on iHeart Radio worldwide… You can also listen on ANY podcast platform, including Apple podcast, iTunes, Spotify, TuneIN, Stitcher, Google Play and all the others. Sign up for the podcast here.

                              SHOW NOTES:

                              GRETCHEN RUBIN:

                              • BIO: BIO: Gretchen Rubin
                              • WEBSITE: https://gretchenrubin.com/
                              • BOOKS:
                                • The Happiness Project: Or, Why I Spent a Year Trying to Sing in the Morning, Clean My Closet, Fight Right, Read Aristotle, and Generally Have More Fun, by Gretchen Rubin
                                • The Four Tendencies: The Indespensable Personality Profiles that Reveal How to Make Your Life Better (and Other People’s Lives Better, Too), by Gretchen Rubin
                                • Life in Five Senses: How exploring the world got me out of my head and into the world, by Gretchen Rubin
                                • Better Than Before: Mastering the Habits of our Everyday, by Gretchen Rubin
                                • Outer Order, Inner Calm: Declutter and Organize to make more room for happiness, by Gretchen Rubin
                                • Happier at Home, by Gretchen Rubin
                                • 40 Ways to Look at Winston Churchill: A brief account of a long life, by Gretchen Rubin
                                • 40 Ways to Look at JFK, by Gretchen Rubin
                                • PODCAST: Happier, with Gretchen Rubin
                                • APP: Happier app
                                • VIDEO CLIPS:
                                  • 44 min
                                  • 362. Dr. George Simon on How to Recognize and Defeat Manipulators

                                    In this episode of THE MENTORS RADIO, Host Tom Loarie talks with world renown psychologist, Dr. George Simon, who has spent decades understanding and dealing with character-impaired personalities. His best-selling book In Sheep’s Clothing just celebrated its 28th year in print. In this interview, Dr. Simon shares his insights on those people who can suck you dry and sap the joy of life out of you. These people subtly prey on your weaknesses and use clever tactics to gain an advantage over you. These people are underhanded, backstabbing, deceptive and conniving. They may work with you, associate with you, or even live with you. They fight hard for what they want, but they want to conceal their aggressive intentions. They can destroy your life and your career. Find out how to defeat manipulators and regain your sanity.

                                    Listen to this episode below, or on ANY PODCAST PLATFORM here. BE SURE TO LEAVE US A GREAT REVIEW on Apple Podcasts or Spotify, and share with friends and colleagues!

                                    SHOW NOTES:

                                    GEORGE K. SIMON, PhD.

                                    • BIO: https://www.drgeorgesimon.com/about/
                                    • WEBSITE: https://www.drgeorgesimon.com
                                    • BOOKS:
                                      • In Sheep’s Clothing: Understanding and Dealing with Manipulative People, by Dr. George K. Simon
                                      • Character Disturbance: the phenomenon of our age, by George K. Simon
                                      • The Judas Syndrome: Why Good People Do Awful Things, by George K. Simon
                                      • Essentials for the Journey: Embracing and Living the 10 Commandments of Character – Proven Principles for a Psychologically Healthy and Spiritually Rich Life, by Dr. George K. Simon
                                      • How Did We End Up Here?: Surviving and Thriving in a Character Disordered World, by George Simon and Kathryn Armistead
                                      • The Gift of Fear: Survival Signals that Protect Us from Violence, by Gavin De Becker (mentioned in show episode)
                                      • ARTICLES:
                                        • Malignant Narcissists Always Pose High Risk, by Dr. George Simon
                                        • The Narcissistic Rage and many other excellent articles, by George Simon
                                        • 44 min
                                        • 360. Today’s Crisis of Courage and What It Could Mean for Your Self-Respect, with Guest Mentor Jim Loehr

                                          In this episode of THE MENTORS RADIO, Host Tom Loarie talks with Dr. Jim Loehr, the founder of Johnson and Johnson’s HUMAN PERFORMANCE INSTITUTE and best-selling author. They discuss the rarest of human qualities, courage, its costs, and what life will give you in return for a little courage. The insights shared in this episode deliver some of the most powerful, life-changing challenges for any human being, regardless of their work, profession, life or athletic prowess. Dr. Loehr has coached some of the most elite professionals in sports, athletics, business, military and nonprofits. These are professionals who are so well-trained and high-level that what will give them “an edge” and what will give them a sense of happiness or fulfillment has nothing to do with skill or technique. Instead, this is how to retrain your thinking to become your truest self, resulting in “a seismic shift,” as Jim describes it, in people’s lives—from frustration or unhappiness to vibrant happiness and feeling of fulfillment. Loehr’s Institute of Performance, his books and success are world-renown.

                                          Listen to this episode below, or on ANY PODCAST PLATFORM here. BE SURE TO LEAVE US A GREAT REVIEW on Apple Podcasts or Spotify, and share with friends and colleagues!

                                          SHOW NOTES:

                                          JIM LOEHR:

                                          • BIO:
                                            • World-renowned performance psychologist, New York Times bestselling author, co-founder, Coach | Leading with Character, always
                                            • Bio-1: https://www.jnj.com/jjhws/jim-loehr
                                            • Bio-2: Bio: Jim Loehr
                                            • WEBSITE:
                                              • HUMAN PERFORMANCE INSTITUTE
                                              • BOOKS:
                                                • The Power of Story: Change Your Story, Change Your Destiny in Business and in Life, by Jim Loehr
                                                • Leading with Character: 10 Minutes a Day to a Brilliant Legacy by Jim Loehr
                                                • The Power of Full Engagement: Managing Energy, Not Time, Is the Key to High Performance and Personal Renewal, by Jim Loehr and Tony Schwartz
                                                • The New Toughness Training for Sports: Mental Emotional Physical Conditioning from One of the World’s Premier Sports Psychologists, by Jim Loehr and Chris Evert
                                                • The Only Way to Win: How Building Character Drives Higher Achievement and Greater Fulfillment in Business and Life, by Jim Loehr
                                                • On Form : Achieving High Energy Performance Without Sacrificing Health and Happiness and Life Balance, by Jim Loehr and Tony Schwartz
                                                • Stress for Success: Jim Loehr’s Program for Transforming Stress into Energy at Work, by Jim Loehr
                                                • Mentally Tough: The Principles of Winning at Sports Applied to Winning in Business, by Jim Loehr and Peter McLaughlin
                                                • The Corporate Athlete Advantage: The Science of Deepening Engagement, by Jim Loehr and Jack Groppel
                                                • Breathe In, Breathe Out : Inhale Energy and Exhale Stress by Guiding and Controlling Your Breathing, by Jim Loehr, Jerome Agel, and Jeffrey A. Migdow
                                                • Jim Loehr is a 2022 USTPA (U.S. Tennis Professional Association) Hall of Fame Inductee :
                                                  • USPTA Hall of Fame Inductee Tribute Video: https://www.youtube.com/embed/SmljoF62rbk?si=yait9FLVuKb2wXkY
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                                                    43 min
                                                  • 356. Meet George Brett: How a willingness to be coached and listen turned an average hitter into one of the greatest to ever swing a bat

                                                    In today’s episode of THE MENTORS RADIO, Host Dan Hesse talks with one of the greatest baseball players of all-time, Hall of Famer George Brett, the only major league player in history to win batting titles in three decades, and the only player ever with 3000 hits, 300 home runs, 600 doubles, 100 triples and 200 stolen bases. In addition to a  career batting average of over .300, he retired as the American League’s all-time leader in being walked intentionally. During George’s 21-year career with Kansas City, the Royals had 15 winning seasons with seven post-season and two World Series appearances, winning the World Series in 1985. A gold glove third baseman, his #5 was retired by the Royals, and George was inducted into the Hall of Fame with the 8th highest vote tally of all-time.

                                                    Listen to episode below, or on ANY PODCAST PLATFORM here. BE SURE TO LEAVE US A GREAT REVIEW on Apple Podcasts or Spotify and share with friends and colleagues!

                                                    SHOW NOTES:

                                                    GEORGE BRETT:

                                                    • BIO:
                                                      • https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/George_Brett
                                                      • George Brett BIO – with stats
                                                      • BOOK:
                                                        • George Brett: A Royal Hero — The Kansas City Star, essay by Joe Posnanski, Sports Publishing, Inc
                                                        • DOCUMENTARY:
                                                          • BRETT, MLB Network documentary on George Brett (December 2023)
                                                          • ‘I had tears, man’: Brett’s career on full display in MLB Network documentary — by Robert Falkoff, MLB.com (includes video clips of Brett’s TERRIFIC talk at Hall of Fame induction, Brett walking off with final HR and the Pine Tar incident)
                                                          • 42 min
                                                          • 355. Navigating Addiction’s Impact on Careers and Lives with Guest Mentor Ed Kopetsky of Stanford Health

                                                            In this episode of The Mentors Radio, Host Tom Loarie talks with Ed Kopetsky, retired CIO for Stanford Health, to discuss the critical issue of addiction, a major career and family derailer today. Ed, who lost his son to an opioid overdose, shares 17 years of frontline experience, sharing invaluable insights on addressing addiction within families and communities. There is no one I know who is better to provide guidance on dealing with addiction within a family. He has been on the front lines of the addiction battle for 17 years. He lost his 31 year old son, Tim, to an overdose in 2017. Before he retired, he served as the Chief Information Officer at Stanford Health’s Lucile Packard Children’s Hospital and Stanford’s Children’s Health. He has served as the Board Chair for the College of Healthcare Information Management Executives (CHIME) and he is the founder and serves today as the Co-Chair of the CHIME Opiod Task Force. He was awarded the John Gall “CIO of the Year Award” awarded by CHIME and HIMSS. CHIME CEO Russell Branzell has called Ed “one of the most courageous people I know.” Kopetsky is now focused on mentoring families whose lives have been turned upside down with drug addiction.

                                                            Listen to episode below, or on ANY PODCAST PLATFORM here. BE SURE TO LEAVE US A GREAT REVIEW on Apple Podcasts or Spotify and share with friends and colleagues!

                                                            SHOW NOTES:

                                                            ED KOPETSKY:

                                                            • BIO: https://www.stanfordchildrens.org/en/about/news/releases/2019/ed-kopetsky-cio-of-the-year-award
                                                            • ARTICLES and INTERVIEWS:
                                                              • LEAD BY EXAMPLE: Why and How Two Prominent Healthcare Leaders Chose to Fight the Drug Addiction Crisis Head-on — The Mentors Radio
                                                              • CIO of the Year Ed Kopetsky: “It’s about Expectation Management and Trust” — HealthsystemCIO
                                                              • 43 min

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