Write this down: Cults demand — Christians demonstrate.

Matthew 5:16

In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father in heaven.

1. You are always influencing

Proverbs 27:17

Iron sharpens iron, and one person sharpens another.

2. Be intentional about influencing

Colossians 4:5

Act wisely toward outsiders, making the most of the time.

3. Use your influence as a gift to God.

1 Peter 2:12

Conduct yourselves honorably among the Gentiles, so that when they slander you as evildoers, they will observe your good works and will glorify God on the day he visits.

4. Your life gets better as your influence gets bigger.

Philippians 2:14-16

Do everything without grumbling and arguing, so that you may be blameless and pure, children of God who are faultless in a crooked and perverted generation, among whom you shine like stars in the world, by holding firm to the word of life.

Next Steps: 

• Believe: I need Jesus to change my heart for the first time today.
• Become: I want the Holy Spirit to influence my soul this week. 
• Be Sent: I will use my influence for God’s glory this week. 

Discussion Questions: 

1. What’s the difference between influencing someone and manipulating them, and where do you personally draw the line?
2. When is it appropriate to try to change someone’s mind, and when is it better to step back?
3. How does trust shape your ability to influence another person?
4. Describe a time when someone influenced you positively. What made their approach effective?
5. Is it acceptable to use your influence at work to challenge someone’s faith?
6. What responsibilities do you have to God when trying to influence someone’s decisions or beliefs?
7. Pray for the Holy Spirit to help you influence one person this week.