These options, for example, are one of the most pressing concerns of families involved with mentally disabled loved ones is “What happens when I’m gone”? You may feel that no one can care for your loved one as well as you can. We must let go. Some folks are very worried about this. We must prepare for a living arrangement with appropriate supports, built in to run automatically. We’ll have some thought starters on “person centered planning”, “least restrictive environment”, and how to access support programs that develop self-sufficiency, the LEA’s being one of them.