In today’s episode we discuss what the car crash show The Ultimatum taught us about marriage. We talk about being aligned on kids, how to communicate better and if ultimatums actually work!

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In today’s episode, we talk about Love Is Blind season 2!

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Today we react to one of Jackie Aina’s videos discussing tips on being engaged! Should you hold on to your friendships? Are your single friends less relevant now? Let’s dive in.

Jackie’s video - “Things I Learned Since Getting Engaged” - https://youtu.be/PYx10mDxVrs

Just engaged or preparing a proposal? Check out our engagement season content on Our Owambe for all the advice you need!
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In today’s podcast, we add to our engagement themed content for December and talk about how to propose! We discuss what you should talk about before you get engaged, how to buy a ring and finally how to plan a proposal. This is a super juicy podcast that you don’t want to miss.

CHAPTERS

03:00 Before you even think about thinking about getting engaged

29:15 How to buy an engagement ring

41:20 Planning the perfect proposal

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LINKS

7 Meaningful Conversations You Should Have Before You Get Engaged

https://www.ourowambe.com/blog/conversations-you-should-have-before-you-get-engaged
How to Choose an Engagement Ring: 7 Tips to Help You Find the Right One

https://www.ourowambe.com/blog/how-to-choose-an-engagement-ring

How To Plan An Unforgettable Proposal: 7 Things To Do

https://www.ourowambe.com/blog/how-to-plan-an-unforgettable-proposal-7-things-to-do

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Would you marry your best friend? No like actually put a ring on it until death do you part…

How does that fit with our personal and cultural understanding of marriage? This podcast is so juicy!


CHAPTERS

00:00 What is a platonic marriage?
06:52 Why do people enter platonic marriages?
19:30 Our personal definitions of marriage

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References:
https://www.nytimes.com/2021/05/01/fashion/weddings/from-best-friends-to-platonic-spouses.html
https://www.brides.com/platonic-marriage-5184556
https://www.thepublicdiscourse.com/2021/06/76231/

Today we’re talking all about dress codes at weddings! What should guests wear to a wedding? How do you communicate what to wear to your guests? We break it all down today.

TIMESTAMPS

2:00 Do we need dress codes?

8:15 How should you dress at a wedding?

17:53 How to create a dress code for your wedding

23:30 Decoding dress codes: advice for guests

We would love to hear your thoughts!

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CONTROVERSY! We are going for the jugular today with two very juicy topics. This is an extra podcast on two topics that we wanted to speak on. First we chat about the photographer who deleted a couple’s wedding photos because the couple wouldn’t feed him. Are wedding suppliers entitled to food on the day? (00:00) Second, we get into the concept of #blacklove. Is it a lie? Where do we stand on the “myth” of #blacklove? ( 26:10)

REFERENCES
AITA Reddit post: https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/po2kd8/aita_for_deleting_my_friends_wedding_photos_in/

Mahogany Pink’s video on #blacklove: https://youtu.be/EOsWbKcGf6Q

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We all know that your wedding guest list is far more complicated when planning a black wedding. Today we talk about the politics of wedding guest lists. Who do you invite? How do you negotiate with your family? Why do guest numbers matter?

We dive into all of these questions and more in this essential episode. Share with someone who needs to hear this!

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We answer the age-old question of money and weddings. Are weddings way too expensive now? Should wedding vendors charge less? Let's discuss

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