What if everything in life was happening for you, instead of to you? How would that impact your life?  The only difference between something "good" or "bad", is the meaning you give it. Want to know the best part? You are are the meaning maker! Adopting the belief that life is happening for you, is like putting on a pair of yellow colored glasses. Whether it is cloudy or raining, it always appears that the sun is shining. As a result, you start looking for the positive experiences that each circumstance/situation brings.