Life Is Relationships

By Life Is Relationships Podcast

There is a phrase that Jay Fesperman, one of the founders of Christian Training Center International, would always say - “Life is Relationships.” To build healthy relationships with family and friends... more

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August 29, 2023Curating a Home of Light, Love & Life
Is your home a place where people desire to linger and spend quality time together? In this episode, Alicia Williams shares some ideas for curating an environment where your family and others feel comfortable and cared for. Learn how a preference for people over perfection can help you establish a space where connection is made, beauty is created, family thrives and life is lived.
QUOTES TO REMEMBER
“Share with the Lord’s people who are in need. Practice hospitality.” — Romans 12:13

“Many people see their home as their castle with a moat around it or a no trespassing sign posted. Your home is not a shrine; it’s a place where life is lived.” — Alicia Williams

“The ‘Happy House Trifecta’ happens when everything in your home falls into one of three categories: beautiful, functional or meaningful.” — Alicia Williams
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32min
July 25, 2023Helping Young People Move Past Fear & False Identity
We get to experience a deep level of discipleship with young adults here at The Inn during the summer. One truth we address time and time again is that our behaviors are a reflection of our beliefs. We challenge young people to recognize the lies, fears and false identities that inform their behaviors so they can take those thoughts captive. In this episode, Seth & Alicia Williams discuss some of the common “root issues” young people are facing today.

QUOTES TO REMEMBER
“Godly feminism doesn’t look like competition with masculinity. It’s a beautiful complement.” — Alicia Williams

“The world seeks to keep our young men very tame.” — Seth Williams

“The wicked flee when no one is pursuing, but the righteous are as bold as a lion.” — Proverbs 28:1

“There is a remedy for fear, and it is love.” - Alicia Williams

“It is easier to build strong children than it is to repair broken men.” — Frederick Douglas

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Heroes of Today - Our Heroes of Today programs are designed to equip young people with the training and discipline essential to becoming effective servants of Jesus Christ. We offer challenges for the heart, mind and body to encourage personal and spiritual breakthrough. Programs are available for high school and college age students.

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19min
June 27, 2023What is Train to Reign and Why Is It Needed?
We just wrapped up our 10-day Train to Reign summer session here at The Inn. We’re always very tired at the end of these programs, but we’re filled with gratitude to see God do what He does. As usual, we were blown away by the transformative work of the Holy Spirit that was evident in the lives of those who we were honored to serve. In this episode, Seth & Alicia Williams share more about Train to Reign and why it is so valuable to families today.

QUOTES TO REMEMBER
“We provide a lifeline to people who are drowning and don’t know what to grab onto.” — Alicia Williams

“How awesome is it to hit pause for 10 days to two weeks and dedicate that time to improving the rest of our lives?” — Seth Williams

“We’re not just a marriage retreat. You bring your kids and they get to learn and grow with you in ways that are sustainable for the whole family.” — Alicia Williams

“If you want to change the world, go home and love your family.” — Mother Teresa

“I don’t do great things. I do small things, with great love.” — Mother Teresa

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Train to Reign - We welcome individuals, couples and families from around the world who are seeking to strengthen their relationships – with God, within their own families and with fellow believers. Every session, lives are transformed, healed and renewed. Barriers to forgiveness, personal growth, and hope are overcome in a supportive and intimate environment. Join us in this safe and holy place where painful and complex situations can be worked through – a place of hope and healing.

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17min
May 30, 2023Life After Divorce (A Christian Perspective)
In today’s episode, we talk about healing and restoration after divorce. When AJ Selby’s first marriage ended in divorce, he didn’t think he deserved to be married again. His now wife, Amy, never saw herself marrying a man who had been married before. Listen to this couple’s story about how God shifted both of their expectations and brought them together on a journey of redemption.
TODAY’S GUESTS: AJ & AMY SELBY
Amy loves helping women gain clarity for their lives and relationships and seeing them living fully restored. AJ has a passion for developing leaders and helping people achieve their dreams. Together, they desire to see families and marriages thrive. The couple lives in Brentwood, TN and operates Domain Life Coaching.
QUOTES TO REMEMBER
“The Lord has washed me clean. He has good things for me. I’m not undeserving of anything He has for me because of my shortcomings.” — AJ Selby

“One of my favorite things about being married to AJ is that I got to be an active participant in his redemption story.” — Amy Selby
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Domain Life Coaching - We believe that for you to live a well and whole life you have to take control of your domain - your body, soul and spirit. This covers areas of life including your physical and mental health, career, spiritual life, daily thoughts and relationships. Our coaching helps provide clarity to your life and gives you the tools to take control of your domain. Please visit our website or contact us at [email protected] for a free consultation.

Train to Reign - We welcome individuals, couples and families from around the world who are seeking to strengthen their relationships – with God, within their own families and with fellow believers. Every session, lives are transformed, healed and renewed. Barriers to forgiveness, personal growth, and hope are overcome in a supportive and intimate environment. Join us in this safe and holy place where painful and complex situations can be worked through – a place of hope and healing.
CONNECT WITH US
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/ctcilife/

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/ctcilife/

YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/CtciLife

Website - https://www.innoflastresort.org/
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39min
April 25, 2023Accountability Sets You Free
We all need someone in our corner who we can confide in when life gets tough. Accountability can look different depending on the situation, but the aim is to take responsibility for our actions so we can be freed from the sins that are holding us back. In this episode, Seth Williams chats with AJ Selby and Casey Wilson about the importance of Godly friendships that keep us accountable.
TODAY’S GUESTS
AJ Selby has a passion for developing leaders and helping people achieve their dreams. He and his wife operate Domain Life Coaching out of their desire to see families and marriages thrive. Learn more at domainlifecoaching.com.
Casey Wilson works with Kavod Family, a non-profit ministry in Franklin, NC that exists to shape and encourage honorable families in the eyes of God for the sake of a great community. Learn more at kavodfamily.org.
QUOTES & SCRIPTURE TO REMEMBER
“Every man wants to share his victories, but not every man wants to share his struggles or his weaknesses.” — Seth Williams

Confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. — James 5:16
Though a righteous person falls seven times, he will get up … — Proverbs 24:16

For by one offering he has perfected forever those who are sanctified. — Hebrews 10:14
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48min
March 28, 2023Why Premarital Counseling is Non-Negotiable
Preparing for marriage can be compared to planning a road trip: If you spend countless hours mapping your stops, yet you ignore the condition of your vehicle, you could be setting yourself up for disaster. In the same way, couples often spend loads of time and money on their wedding day while neglecting to invest in the marriage itself. In this episode, AJ and Amy Selby explain why premarital counseling is essential. Listen in as they share wisdom drawn from their own experience and that of couples they have coached.
TODAY’S GUESTS: AJ & AMY SELBY
Amy loves helping women gain clarity for their lives and relationships and seeing them living fully restored. AJ has a passion for developing leaders and helping people achieve their dreams. Together, they desire to see families and marriages thrive. The couple lives in Brentwood, TN and operates Domain Life Coaching.
QUOTES TO REMEMBER
“People will drop ridiculous amounts of money on their wedding and spend two sessions on the foundation of their entire future.” — AJ Selby

“[Premarital counseling] helps you think through things you didn't know you needed to think about.” — Amy Selby
RELATED RESOURCES
Domain Life Coaching - We believe that for you to live a well and whole life you have to take control of your domain - your body, soul and spirit. This covers areas of life including your physical and mental health, career, spiritual life, daily thoughts and relationships. Our coaching helps provide clarity to your life and gives you the tools to take control of your domain. Please visit our website or contact us at [email protected] for a free consultation.

Train to Reign - We welcome individuals, couples and families from around the world who are seeking to strengthen their relationships – with God, within their own families and with fellow believers. Every session, lives are transformed, healed and renewed. Barriers to forgiveness, personal growth, and hope are overcome in a supportive and intimate environment. Join us in this safe and holy place where painful and complex situations can be worked through – a place of hope and healing.
CONNECT WITH US
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/ctcilife/

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/ctcilife/

Twitter - https://twitter.com/ctcilife

YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/CtciLife

Website - https://ctcilife.org/
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35min
February 28, 2023Changing Seasons Doesn't Mean Burning Bridges
In AJ Selby’s last episode as host of the podcast, he and Seth Williams discuss upcoming changes for the show and for our ministry. Seasons of transition can feel intimidating, but if we embrace where God is leading us and allow Him to prune us, we will bear much fruit!
KEY TAKEAWAYS
AJ will be taking a step back from the podcast to focus on other projects in Nashville with his wife. Seth will assume his role as the primary host, and we will continue to feature special guests.

We are transitioning from weekly to monthly podcast episodes, which will be released on the last Tuesday of the month. Be sure to subscribe or contact us at [email protected] to get on our email list so you never miss an episode.

We are returning to our roots and officially rebranding our ministry to its original and official name, The Inn of Last Resort. This name represents the heartbeat of our organization, which is foremost a place for weary travelers, families and young adults to encounter Jesus. We will be unveiling a new logo and a new website soon!

Change can be scary, but we won’t grow if we can’t let go of old seasons.
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Podcast: The History of CTCI - From the 1970’s to now, Christian Training Center International has changed names, leadership, and programs but the heart of the ministry has remained the same: fatherhood and family. Larry Pons and Seth Williams break down the history of CTCI, how its discipleship programs have evolved throughout the decades, and how the foundational legacy of fatherhood will continue to be taught into the 21st century.
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25min
February 21, 2023The Key to Understanding Your Identity
Our identity as believers is under attack for everything from our religious and cultural beliefs to our work and sexuality. We were created in the image of our Father in heaven, but until we encounter Him, we won’t fully understand who we are. Seth and Alicia Williams discuss what it looks like to imitate Jesus, who was the perfect example of someone who knew who he was and where he was going.
QUOTES & SCRIPTURE TO REMEMBER
”For this reason I kneel before the Father, from whom every family in heaven and on earth derives its name.” — Ephesians 3:14-15

“We don’t have the luxury of being born into ‘knowing.’ We discover. We have it all uncovered and beautifully revealed through the discovery of who He is and who He has made us to be.” — Alicia Williams

“Where we go and how we grow comes from knowing how good the heart of the Father is.” — Seth Williams

“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!” — 2 Corinthians 5:17 (NIV)

“If you knew who God made you to be, you'd never want to be anyone else.” — Bill Johnson

“And he will turn the hearts of fathers to their children and the hearts of children to their fathers. Otherwise, I will come and strike the land with a curse.” — Malachi 4:6 (CSB)
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Podcast: Your Identity Does Not Come From a Personality Test! - Seth Williams shares about the values–and dangers–of using personality tests for personal growth. These types of resources can be incredible tools for increasing self awareness and strengthening our relationships but can also become a crutch when not used properly.

Podcast: Identity and the LGBTQ+ Community - Casey and Erica Wilson share how we as Christians should respond to people within the LGBTQ+ community. We recognize that the Church hasn't handled this topic well in the past. To change that, we must engage in conversations where we take things to the heart level and acknowledge how multiple factors can contribute to someone struggling to find their true identity as God created them.

The Gospel Comes with a House Key by Rosaria Butterfield - What did God use to draw a radical, committed unbeliever to himself? Did God take her to an evangelistic rally? Or, since she had her doctorate in literature, did he use something in print? No, God used an invitation to dinner in a modest home, from a humble couple who lived out the gospel daily, simply, and authentically.
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37min
February 14, 2023Valentine's Day Is More Than Love Songs And Russell Stover Chocolates
Roses and chocolates and teddy bears, oh my! Valentine’s Day is all about showing your significant other how much you care, but it shouldn’t be the only day of the year you go out of your way to proclaim your love. In this lighthearted episode, Seth and Alicia Williams chat with AJ Selby about making your spouse feel seen all year round. Learn how to be intentional about loving your partner in creative ways that speak to his or her heart.
QUOTES TO REMEMBER
”Start today. Do something simple and unexpected, and watch it bear fruit in your marriage and your life.” — Seth Williams

“The offering on Valentine’s Day will feel a lot more authentic and from the heart if it’s not an isolated event.” — Alicia Williams

“You can’t give from an empty cup. You can only show people love as well as you can receive love, and as well as you can love yourself.” — AJ Selby
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Podcast: Why You Should Keep Dating Your Spouse - Dating and romance are often viewed as tools for winning the affection of a future spouse, but the pursuit of your partner shouldn’t end when you get married. Seth & Alicia Williams share practical tips for making your spouse feel loved and keeping the spark alive in your marriage. Listen in for reasons why couples should make date night a priority, especially after you've tied the knot.

Podcast: Staying Alert & Committed to Your Marriage - Seth Stradling talks with Seth Williams, Casey Wilson and AJ Selby about what it looks like to stay alert to distractions and pitfalls that can derail your marriage and what it looks like to protect your commitment to your spouse.
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29min
February 07, 2023Remaining Pure In Today's Hook Up Culture
When it comes to dating in today’s world, there is often the expectation of immediate sexual intimacy, which leads to a chain of sexual encounters rather than a genuine, committed relationship. The difference between God’s standard for relationships and the world’s can be summed up in one word: covenant. In this episode, Seth Stradling and Seth Williams talk about embracing a life of purity before and after marriage.
QUOTES TO REMEMBER
”What do you do when you get married? That’s easy. You take someone who’s just as useless and horrible as you are, and then you shackle yourself to them. And then you say, we’re not running away no matter what happens.” — Jordan Peterson

“If you’ve messed up in relationships, God is the God of new beginnings. His mercies are new this morning. Don’t beat yourself up. Go to Him and ask Him to teach you what a right relationship looks like with Him and others.” — Seth Williams
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Podcast: Are You Rushing Into Marriage? - If you think you’re ready to take your relationship to the next level, there may be some things you and your significant other still need to consider before tying the knot. In this episode, Seth and Alicia Williams discuss signs that you are moving too fast. Hear why it is so important to remain humble, objective and flexible as you prepare your heart for marriage.

Podcast: Taking Your Relationship to the Next Level - Whether you're deciding if it's time to date or get engaged, Seth and Alicia Williams share helpful advice and remind us all to take a breath and not take ourselves too seriously.
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13min

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How many episodes does Life Is Relationships have?

The podcast currently has 68 episodes available.