- What life was like for me as a 14-year-old when I bought Shiloh

- Frustration with not knowing how to get Shiloh to walk peacefully

- Reading a Pat Parelli book and my world opening-up

- Realizing I had become too focused on the tasks and stopped focusing on the relationship

- The change from it being about "what" I could do with my horse to "who" I could be for my horse

- Story of how Shiloh told me it was time for her to go

- How Shiloh led me to start my nonprofit "Freedom For The Taking"

- "The near enemy of love is attachment...True love allows, honors, and appreciates; attachment grasps, demands, needs, and aims to possess." Brene Brown