Life Together

Healthy, happy marriages aren't one  - or a few big  things ...they're a MILLION little things, done every day, for a lifetime. Take inventory with your spouse...what's your score? How can you improve it?

A big part of the "joy" of marriage is ...en - JOY - ing each other. Do you like being with each other ( hint: you should ). If not, why not?

Take some time to rediscover things - or discover new ones -  you love about your spouse. Love is spelled T - I - M - E.

Randy said the thing you never want to say if you want to stay married...
a repair was in order. What is that?
 Why "Will you forgive me is way better than "I'm sorry"...

Why is is so hard to be consistent as couples to do devotions? I think we know why. The enemy of your marriage ( and souls ) doesn't want you connected deeply. We all struggle with this - even you pastor and his wife. Let's explore some ways to establish consisitency...

We're back! Monica is finally over Covid...thank you for your prayers.Today,  we talk about this cool tool that marriage is to make us more like Jesus. This person who knows us better than anyone can speak into our lives - if we let them.

Buckle up as we journey into the universe of selflessness...

The 2 REALLY DO become one, as scripture tells us...
A husband whose wife has Alzheimer's BLOWS us away!

7 significant minutes for your marriage...

Where do you and you spouse spend most of your time, in terms of levels of communication?
Deeper levels should be a regular part of your conversations. Monica reveals at the end what she really needs from Randy...

Forgiveness is a great idea until there's actually something to forgive. Keeping short lists and asking for forgiveness frequently is not a sign of weakness, but of a healthy marriage. How do we do it? Why do we do it? To avoid CONTEMPT creeping in, and dissolving your love.

"Contempt is the sulfuric acid of love".  Recognizing and mitigating contempt is crucial to keeping your love alive. Ephesians 5:21 is the answer...

After a long hiatus, we're back. We still believe in marriage, we still believe we can save folks TONS of money...counseling is expensive - we can just tell you what they told us! Today we talk repairing. Dr. John Gottman says "Happy couples repair early and often" - what is it?!