In this heartfelt episode, “The Lies We Tell," on this Episode of Life With The Polites, Pastor Polite and Lady Polite explore the impact of lies in relationships. 

Lady Polites said, “Lies hurt, but often they come from a place of fear—fear of losing, fear of not having enough, fear of being vulnerable.” She discusses why understanding the root of a lie is essential for both the person who lied and the person who was hurt in the healing process.

 
This is a powerful, honest, and deeply ministering moment that reminds us that facing fear and addressing dishonesty can lead to closure, growth, and restoration.

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In this episode, “The Blame Game,” Lady P spoke about the origins of blame in relationships, tracing back to Adam and Eve, and encourages couples to stop pointing fingers and instead seek God’s guidance to grow stronger together. With honesty, humor, and raw spiritual insight, this episode is both inspiring and grounding.

Whether you're single, married, or somewhere in between, this conversation is a must-watch for anyone serious about building a godly relationship in 2025 and beyond.

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In this heartfelt episode, "Turning Our Wounds Into Wisdom", Pastor Polite dives deep into the power of turning emotional pain and broken relationships into wisdom and healing. Join us as we explore how adversity can reveal truth, the impact of emotional wounds, and the importance of acknowledging hurt to experience real change.

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In this video, “Kindness Is the Silent Strength,” Pastor Polite discusses how people mistake kindness for weakness, but true kindness is a silent strength. It takes courage to be kind in a world that often undervalues it. 

We explore how kindness can be a powerful force in relationships and life.

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In this powerful message, “Everybody Wants a Good Person, until?” Pastor Polite speaks on how everyone says they want a good person in their life—until that person requires respect, effort, and genuine commitment. 

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Join Pastor Polite as he shares his knowledge in this episode, “When the Connection Begins to Break” He discusses how the cracks in a relationship are hard to see until it’s too late.  

Let’s discuss why this happens and how to recognize the warning signs before it’s too late.

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Listen to Pastor Polite as he speaks on relationships and how self-centeredness often hides until the perfect moment emerges. Many tough breakups don’t just happen—they stem from a false sense of entitlement that blinds one person to the damage they cause. When a relationship becomes all about what one person can take rather than what they can give, it turns into an emotional welfare system, leaving the other person to deal with the pain. Let’s discuss how to recognize and navigate these toxic patterns.

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In today’s episode, “Nobody Trashes Your Name More Than Someone Who’s Afraid You’ll Tell the TRUTH,”, Pastor Polite speaks on relationships and how some people will do anything to protect their image—even if it means twisting the truth when the relationship has ended. 
He believes that slander plays the victim, and self-centered entitlement all play a role in how they manipulate the narrative. Instead of taking accountability, they rewrite the story to make themselves look innocent while making you the villain. Why?

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Join Pastor Polite in this episode teaser, “Confidence & Courage Helps Us Through Difficult Things.” He explores how growth begins with accepting our vulnerabilities and pushing through struggles. Strength and growth come from effort, courage, and the confidence to face difficult moments. He reminds us that sometimes, we must go to war within ourselves to heal, repair, and move forward. 
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In this teaser, “Growth Isn’t for Everybody,” Pastor Polite dives into the difficult truth about why some people resist change. He mentioned, "When we choose comfort over growth, we often choose pain and scars over healing and transformation. True growth requires courage, self-reflection, and the drive to move forward, even when it is uncomfortable."

Are you ready to take that hard look at yourself and start anew?

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