What happens when you stop fearing death—and start seeing it as a friend?
In this deeply moving episode of Light Beyond the Ashes, I sit down with psychic medium Stacy Carlson to explore the unexpected ways trauma, grief, illness, and loss can become doorways to awakening.
Stacy’s journey carried her through the trauma of her husband going to Iraq, a battle with cancer, and ultimately a confrontation with her own mortality. During radiation therapy, something extraordinary happened: Stacy began to befriend death. Instead of experiencing death only as something to fear, its presence became familiar—even comforting.
Then she survived.
And in a twist she never expected, Stacy found herself grieving the loss of that connection. She had made peace with death, but now she had to figure out how to live.
Her deepest grief wasn’t the possibility of dying. It was realizing she didn’t know who she was.
That realization became a turning point.
We explore how an ordinary moment while designing cakes opened the door to Stacy discovering her abilities as a psychic medium, how those gifts continued to unfold, and how she ultimately learned to use them in service of others.
This is a conversation about the full human experience—the trauma that changes us, the identities that fall away, our relationship with mortality, and the strange loneliness that can exist even after survival. It’s about what can happen when pain strips away who we thought we were and asks us to meet the person underneath.
Because sometimes meeting your highest self doesn’t begin with becoming someone new.
Sometimes it begins when everything else falls away—and you finally ask: If I’m still here… who am I?
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