Light Talks with 922 Ministries

Talking to your kids about sex, gender, and identity can feel overwhelming, especially when the world isn’t shy about it, and the church often is. In this honest and grace-filled episode, Jonathan and Ali sit down with Family Pastor and dad of four, Bill Monday, to unpack what it looks like to have open, age-appropriate conversations with your children from toddlerhood through the teen years.

🔔 Heads-up: This episode includes candid conversations about anatomy and sexuality. Consider listening without little ears around.

Pastor Bill shares real-life stories (some hilarious, some sobering), practical tips, and biblical wisdom on:

• Why using correct terms like penis and vulva matters from day one
• How shame and silence around sexuality go all the way back to Genesis
• Natural moments to talk with your kids—like bath time, doctor visits, and car rides
• Guarding against sexual abuse by teaching boundaries and ditching family “secrets”
• Handling puberty, dating, and identity with clarity, compassion, and gospel hope

Whether you feel behind, unsure, or just want to do better, this episode offers clarity, encouragement, and hope. You don’t need to have “the talk” - you need to have a hundred little ones.

Resources:
myfamilytable.org

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Feeling Out of Whack? You’re Not Alone.
In a world that worships hustle and glorifies the grind, how do we keep from spinning out of control? This week, Nate Paul joins the show—a man with many hats: ministry leader, husband, father of four, board member, coach..and someone who knows firsthand how quickly life can get overwhelming. Speaking especially to the guys, Nate gets real about the pressure to keep all the plates spinning and how even good things—family, work, ministry—can start to crowd out what’s most important: time with God, your spouse, and your own soul.

Jonathan and Nate dive into an honest, relatable conversation that applies to anyone who’s ever felt stretched too thin. Topics include:

• Why “doing it all” might be doing too much
• What’s really driving your busyness
• The wisdom of Solomon (spoiler: chasing the wind never works)
• How your identity in Christ changes everything
• The power of “pause, think, pray” before you say yes (and permission to say “no”)
• Why community and accountability matter more than you think
• And how to find grace when you drop the ball (because we all do)

Whether you’re a man navigating leadership and family, or anyone trying to stay sane in a packed schedule, this episode offers insight, encouragement, and practical ways to find balance—and freedom—rooted in faith.

Take a deep breath, hit play, and find out why your value has nothing to do with your to-do list.

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Hey Light Talks Listeners! In this special release episode, Amna Tasior is back, but this time, with her husband, Tony! Following up on Amna's powerful testimony, this conversation focuses on Tony's side of the story and the incredible journey of their relationship and faith life.

Tony shares openly about his challenging upbringing in Chicago, surrounded by gangs and drugs, getting involved in selling drugs at a young age, and dealing with an abusive stepfather. Moving to a small town didn't stop the trouble, as he found drugs there too, eventually making thousands selling them as a teenager. Tony reflects that this lifestyle was "just life" for him, numbing the pain from his home life and the lack of feeling loved by his parents.

The episode recounts how Tony and Amna met as teenagers, became pregnant unexpectedly and Tony explains his decision to stay. After sharing his perspective on their journey, the conversation then shifts to their faith life. Amna's passion for church, even after initially tricking Tony to go, made him want to return, and he shares a story about confessing an OWI to his church community and how they responded with unconditional love and grace. Their story is peppered with God’s goodness, and they share how that influences their marriage, parenting and community of people around them. 

The Tasior’s story is a testament to God's ability to love, save and redeem even the messiest of people. Tune in to hear more about their journey, the power of community, and the beauty of a life centered on Christ.

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In part 1 of this episode of Light Talks, Amna Tasior joins to share her powerful and raw life story, starting with a childhood marked by constant moving, absolutely no religious background, and parents struggling with alcoholism. Feeling a deep lack of worth and presence, Amna searched for love and identity at a young age in unhealthy ways, leading to a huge pile of regret. At just 15 years old, she met Tony, and within two weeks, they found out they were pregnant.

Navigating teen pregnancy, early parenting of a son born tiny and needing multiple surgeries, dropping out of high school, and moving often, Amna and Tony felt like it was just them against the world. They were instantly launched into adulthood with no idea how to be parents or even run a household and just focused on survival.

Everything changed when Amna's cousin, Stephanie, introduced them to The CORE, a 922 Ministries church, or rather, tricked her into attending! This is only where the story began, and you’re going to want to tune in to hear how God works in amazing ways!

Whether you feel broken, lost, unsure about Jesus, or have been a lifelong Christian, Amna's story is a powerful reminder that we all have a Father who loves even the messiest of people.

Tune in next week for a special release episode finishing the Tasior’s story, where Amna will be back along with her husband Tony to share more about his personal journey and the life they have today!

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We’re back with part two of a real and raw conversation about marriage—and it’s time to go even deeper. In this continued conversation on Light Talks, Dr. Brandon Steenbock helps us unpack what it really takes to stay connected when life gets busy, messy, and, let’s be honest—just plain hard. From awkward conversations to intimacy in marriage, this episode is full of practical wisdom, honest laughs, and biblical truth that will challenge and encourage you to pursue real connection with your spouse.

Here’s what Part 2 of this conversation has in store: 

• When Marriage Feels Like Roommates: Let’s talk about why vulnerability is hard—and how practicing small daily conversations can re-open the door to closeness.
• Intentionality is Everything: From deli-date nights to walks around the block, discover creative ways to invest in your relationship without breaking the bank or your schedule.
• More Than Romance: We explore why emotional and physical intimacy matter and how they work together to strengthen trust and connection.
• Let’s Talk About Sex: We break the silence and explore why God designed sex to be good, meaningful, and spiritually significant within marriage.
• The Commitment Triangle: Learn how passion, intimacy, and commitment intersect—and what to focus on when the spark starts to fade.
• Spiritual Leadership at Home: Sometimes praying together can feel awkward at first, so let’s explore how couples can build a habit of spiritual connection, even when they’re starting from scratch.
• Help, He Won’t Lead!: Here’s some encouragement for wives navigating spiritual leadership challenges, plus a perspective on what it means to be a "suitable helper."
• The Power of Showing Up: Whether it’s holding hands, sitting together in silence, or opening the Bible as a team—small actions can have a big impact when done with love and purpose.

Tune in to another episode of Light Talks that doesn’t shy away from hard topics in hopes that couples will be encouraged, challenged, and equipped to keep choosing each other—every single day.

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Get ready for a raw and honest look at what it really takes to build a marriage that thrives! Forget the fairy tales and join us on Light Talks for part one of this two part series as we pull back the curtain on the most common illusions about "I do" with the insightful Dr. Brandon Steenbock. Whether you're dreaming of your wedding day or navigating the beautiful chaos of married life, this episode will equip you with essential truths and practical steps for a stronger, more fulfilling partnership that’s grounded in God’s word.

Here's what we're diving into:

•Beyond the Pinterest Boards: Discover why focusing solely on the wedding day can set you up for a bumpy ride and what to prioritize after the "I dos”

•Timing Isn't Everything (or Is It?): We challenge the societal norms around marriage timelines and explore the "capstone" versus "cornerstone" models.

•Busting the Biggest Marriage Myths: Prepare for some eye-opening revelations as we dismantle common misconceptions, including the idea that love alone is enough and the expectation of a naturally easy marriage.

•The Radical Promise: Grasp the profound difference between a transactional view of marriage and the commitment to love unconditionally, no matter what.

•Navigating the Inevitable "Ouch": Learn a four-step process for both asking for and extending forgiveness, moving beyond a simple "I'm sorry”.

•"Just Know What I Want!": We tackle the classic challenge of mind-reading in marriage and explore potential differences in communication styles between men and women.

•Clear is Kind: Discover how to express your desires and needs effectively, fostering deeper understanding and connection.

•The Secret Ingredient: Learn simple yet powerful ways to prioritize your partner's well-being and cultivate a culture of mutual care.

•Three Questions That Could Change Your Marriage Tonight: Implement a practical daily exercise to foster positive communication, address challenges, and actively support each other - you’ll want to try this immediately!

Don't miss this engaging and insightful conversation that will equip you to build not just a wedding, but a strong and lasting marriage! Tune in now!

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In this episode of Light Talks, we tackle a topic that's often avoided in church (or that the church gets wrong) but is undeniably crucial to our lives: money and our faith. Have you ever wondered what God really thinks about your finances? We sit down with Pastor Michael Ewart to explore how the Bible speaks to the practicalities of managing our money and living a life that honors God with what we have.

We're tackling questions like: 

• Why is contentment so difficult in today's world?
• Where do we even begin with budgeting? Is it really as simple as spending less than you make?
• What are some essential things to prioritize when managing our money?
• Is all debt bad? What does the Bible say about it?
• What's the wisdom behind using credit cards? Are they helpful or harmful?
• Is it possible to navigate student debt effectively?
• How can we plan for future expenses like vacations or bigger purchases without feeling overwhelmed by current needs?
• What's the importance of having a strong "why" behind our financial goals?

If you're ready to gain a biblical perspective on your finances and practical steps to manage them well, tune in to this insightful episode of Light Talks! BONUS: Pastor Michael will be back to answer YOUR questions about finances and money - submit them HERE and stay tuned for more!

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Ever wondered what actually happens after we die? Like, do we get judged in front of everyone? Is heaven just a never-ending church service? And what’s this whole new heaven and new earth thing about? In this episode of Light Talks, Pastor Tim Glende, Lead Pastor at 922 Ministries, is breaking down everything we know (and don’t know) about eternity. No fluff—just straight-up biblical truth with answers that can help answer some of life’s most sought after questions.

We’re tackling questions like:

• What really happens on Judgment Day? Will all our sins be exposed on a big jumbotron?
• What is heaven actually like—and will we recognize people there?
• Can people in heaven see us right now?
• If we talk about heaven, we have to talk about hell. What’s it like?
• What does the new heaven and new earth mean for us?
• When is Jesus coming back, and how do we prepare for it?

If you've ever had questions about what happens after this life, you’re gonna want to hear this episode. Listen now and get ready to be filled with knowledge about eternity. 

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Tired of superficial connections and ghosting? Let's get real about building legit relationships that matter. In this episode, we're diving deep into what it means to create quality friendships that last. Pastor Mike Novotny, author of "Lonely Less," shares his take on why so many people struggle to form meaningful relationships. We're exposing how our hyper-connected world can actually leave us feeling more isolated than ever.

Tune in to discover:

•Hard truths about leveling up your friendships: Learn to prioritize real-life interactions over fleeting digital connections.

•The "How to Talk" equation that will change your conversations: Master the "You, Me, Good, Bad" formula to build trust and create genuine bonds.

•Why vulnerability is your superpower: Discover how dropping the facade and getting real with others can unlock deeper connections.

•Hacking your schedule for quality time: Learn how to combat the chaos of modern life and make space for the friendships that matter.

•The ultimate connection: Find peace and strength in the unwavering presence of a God who's always there, no matter what.

Don't miss this episode packed with actionable advice and heartfelt encouragement for building quality relationships and finding freedom from loneliness. 

More Resources:

Check out Pastor Mike’s Book, Lonely Less

Pastor Mike preaches a four week sermon series on this topic and dives even deeper. Check it out here! 

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In this thought-provoking episode of Light Talks, we welcome Dr. Brandon Steenbock, Family Minister at St. Mark Ministries in Green Bay, for an honest conversation about the intersection of marriage and parenting. Is it better to have an amazing marriage and be okay at parenting, or vice versa? We're tackling that question and more!

Here’s a snapshot of what we dive into:

• Cultural Shifts: How modern parenting culture may be unintentionally idolizing children and the dangers that come with it.
• Building Spiritually Strong Households: The importance of modeling Christ-like love and selflessness in marriage for the benefit of your children.
• Marriage vs. Parenting Priorities: How to ensure your spouse doesn’t feel replaced by your children and why that matters.
• Practical Parenting Tips: Setting boundaries, using consequences wisely, and teaching kids to navigate life’s challenges.
• The Role of Fathers: Understanding the father’s critical role in both spiritual leadership and modeling healthy relationships.
• The Power of Forgiveness: Why saying "I forgive you" in both marriage and parenting creates lasting bonds and spiritual growth.
• Intentional Connection: Simple yet effective ways couples can maintain closeness, like daily walks and open conversations about faith.
• Practical Marriage Advice: How small, daily sacrifices in marriage can have a big impact, and why living for your spouse matters more than grand gestures.

Whether you’re a new parent, a seasoned spouse, or navigating both roles, this episode is packed with actionable advice and faith-driven wisdom to strengthen your marriage and family’s foundation.

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