This lesson arrived with clarity but was among the toughest to walk through. I couldn't breathe in my perfectly comfortable life. Not because something was wrong, but because I finally saw the velvet cage I'd been living in. The soft, familiar prison I'd mistaken for safety.

Lilith holds the energy of the untamed, uncaged woman... she invites us into boldness, authenticity, wild, sovereign freedom. Lilith had returned, not to praise me for escaping obvious constraints, but to show me how I'd been dimming my light in my own home. 

She showed me that there is a kind of prison that doesn’t look like one at all. It feels soft, familiar, even safe. Yet it is the very thing that keeps us small.  Perhaps the most dangerous constraints are not the obvious ones, but the ones we grow accustomed to. The ones we decorate. The ones we call “comfort.” 

What happens when the life that feels safe is actually what’s keeping you from your fullest expression? Where have you been dimming your light in order to belong, to keep the peace, or to stay comfortable?

This is not a conversation about breaking free in rage - it is an invitation to notice, to name, and to uncage yourself bar by bar..... because many of the bars, are of your own making.